Author: One flower
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"As long as you don't get divorced, you can do whatever."
When a man says these words in a wronged manner, it shows how deep and humble his love is. Xie Tianhua in "Dear Child" married the second-married woman Fang Yinuo, facing his wife and the daughter Hehe born to his ex-husband, he regarded it as his own child, and when the family spoke ill of his wife, he stood up to defend his wife.
Such a man is simply the ultimate ideal object for women. What she can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear, Fang Yinuo does not think so, she married Xie Tianhua, not because of love, but out of selfishness to find a nominal father for her daughter, at the same time, she can also help herself share the pressure of life.
What you should understand most as a person is to know the En Tu Bao, Fang Yinuo does not love Xie Tianhua, this kind of thing can not be forced, but the last thing she should do is to bully honest people, in the name of saving Hehe, entangled with her ex-husband Xiao Lu, the test tube failed, just come really, pregnant, secretly hide Xie Tianhua, secretly go to fight it.
Fang Yinuo wanted to have a second child with Xiao Lu, for this, Xie Tianhua chose to acquiesce, and also said a sentence "as long as it is not divorced", and promised to continue to treat this second child as his own child, the man made such a concession, except for the word "deep love", all other explanations are pale and weak.
But even if Lao Xie was so humble and retained, Fang Yinuo was still unmoved, pregnant, hiding from the other party, and said to her ex-husband Xiao Lu that she could handle it herself and would not delay the affairs of the two people. The so-called ability to deal with it is nothing more than abortion surgery.
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"As long as you don't get divorced," Lao Xie humbly retained, exposing the selfish side of Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu.
In order to save Hehe, sacrificing the peaceful life of the two families, and also making the two honest people (Xie Tianhua and Dong Fan) pay for their selfishness, what a cruel heart must be to make such a shameless act.
Compared with Dong Fan, Xie Tianhua was more pitiful and more distressing. When he was young, he fell deeply in love with Fang Yinuo, and after Fang Yinuo chose Xiao Lu, he hid the love in his heart and silently guarded Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter. After Fang Yinuo's divorce, he took the initiative to help and accompanied Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter through the most difficult time.
In order to take care of Hehe and Fang Yinuo's emotions, he did not dare to ask for his own child. In front of the mother and daughter, he always had a smile on his face, and no matter how sad he was, he did not dare to show it. Hehe fell ill, he gave up his principles and bottom line, desperately trying to make money.
Even if Fang Yinuo proposed to take the most primitive way to get pregnant with her ex-husband Xiao Lu, he also acquiesced. From the beginning to the end, Xie Tianhua's appeal is only one, that is, not to divorce.
Such a humble gesture, in exchange for "my stomach is my own decision, whether I want to have children or not, I have the final say." I have to say that Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter were really selfish to death, and the front foot begged Xie Tianhua not to divorce, prepare good wine and good dishes, and turned around and did not recognize anyone.
Similarly, Xiao Lu is also a selfish man, he is not a good father, nor is he a qualified husband. If he really loved Hehe, he would not ignore her after Hehe was born, leave work, not go home, fool around with other women, and cheat spiritually.
In the previous marriage, he was not a qualified husband, and after marrying Dong Fan, he still could not change his selfish nature. On the one hand, he wanted to have a second child with his ex-wife, and on the other hand, he pleaded with his wife not to divorce, that is, he wanted everything and gave all the pressure to his current wife, Dong Fan.
Two people who are so selfish should be locked up and not harm others.
Written in the end, feelings need to run in both directions, if only one of the parties strives to maintain, sooner or later it will come to the day of separation. To borrow a phrase that a female star once said, is it that others don't say it, just like others are fools? I only hope that in real life, there will be fewer "big wrongs" Xie Tianhua.
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