#电视剧亲爱的小孩 #
Text/Luo Xiaoke
The plot of "Dear Child" is too strong, and every woman who has experienced marriage can find a deep or shallow shadow in the role of Fang Yinuo.
Just like the heroine Fang Yinuo, she was originally an excellent and dazzling intellectual woman, but after giving birth, she fell into the whirlpool of depression, and was a little too anxious in the marriage relationship, which made the people around her feel stressed.
It is said that love is your nong, my nong wind and snow moon, but marriage is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, every day to open your eyes to carefully calculate life, to some extent money is the mirror of marriage.
In fact, most happy marriages have money in silent pockets, and can also talk about money generously; and unfortunate marriages, most of them are related to money, poor and lowly couples are sad, and the problems that can be solved with money are often overdrawn, and there is no end to the chicken feathers. Fang Yinuo's completely different attitude towards money in the two marriage relationships determines the happiness and final outcome of her marriage!
In the marriage of her ex-husband Xiao Lu, in addition to the two couples who just began to greet the newborn, there was a lack of effective communication many times, but Fang Yinuo's own attitude was also too strong and anxious. As a new mother, Fang Yinuo is indeed quite easy, and rarely sleeps peacefully, because she wants to milk her children.
But before Xiao Lu cheated, he actually paid for this family, and he worked hard to make money, but he wanted to let the mother and daughter live a higher quality of life.
This point Fang Yinuo could not understand, as long as his daughter Hehe had some problems, or was not around, his heart was like a mountain collapsing.
Although the mother-in-law is uneducated and urban, but at least the heart is kind, if Fang Yinuo's emotional intelligence can be cultivated, the two couples may be able to spend money to hire a nanny to avoid all kinds of chickens and dogs jumping and discord.
As we all know, it is very hard to take children, the responsibility is also heavy, please a reliable nanny can stay away from the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, after all, the money is in charge of Fang Yinuo, she can discuss such a decision with her husband.
But according to Xiao Lu's salary, it is difficult to bear such a high expenditure, this is where the reality lies, the mother-in-law to take the child has a feeling, not to help is also the duty, can spend money to solve the problem, do not easily overdraft human feelings. Money can be counted clearly, but human feelings are a confused account, so that you will always cut and straighten out.
Although the mother-in-law likes to smoke and lie, she is also sincere in her treatment of her granddaughter and will not deliberately be lazy. Because of her mother's new identity, Fang Yinuo did not successfully accept it, but was confined to various trivialities and could not extricate herself.
Later, this marriage ended with Xiao Lu's derailment, and the honest Xie Tianhua came to Fang Yinuo's side. And Fang Yinuo chose to step into marriage again, not because of love, but because Xie Tianhua has a good character and can afford the title of good father.
After experiencing the first failed marriage, Fang Yinuo no longer longed for romance and beauty, but decided to live a down-to-earth life, as long as his daughter Hehe was safe and healthy. However, fate is always twisted and bizarre, and Hehe is diagnosed with leukemia, which makes both families panic.
In order to treat Hehe's illness, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu decided to artificially conceive to find a pairing library after trying many methods.
No matter how the drama version will arrange the direction, but Fang Yinuo's attitude towards the second marriage is rational and sober, she spends her own money, and always has to spend money on her current husband Xie Tianhua.
Because he was worried that Hehe would become a burden on the family, Fang Yinuo proposed to divorce Xie Tianhua, and the more Fang Yinuo did not want to spend the other party's money, the more Xie Tianhua admired Fang Yinuo and was unwilling to leave their mother and daughter. All in all, Fang Yinuo's two marriages have different attitudes towards money, which actually determines her ending.
It is said that money is the touchstone of the human heart, and it is also the mirror of life, which can make many relationships clear and clear.
People who are willing to spend money for you may not necessarily love you, but people who are unwilling to spend money for you must not love you. Smart women, not only to work hard to make money, but also to know how to spend money to save money, anytime and anywhere to the top of the ability to make money, you will live more and more light and transparent!
Dear dear ones, what do you think of the TV series "Dear Child" starring Qin Hao, Ren Suxi, Nie Yuan, Liu Lin and so on? Welcome to leave a message!
Author: Luo Xiaoke, a mother married to Taiwan, writes everything in Taiwan, obsessed with various film critics and drama reviews. Don't forget your original intention, you have to be consistent.