After the broadcast of "Dear Child", the hot topics continued, almost a hot search a day, and always occupied the top three of the soaring popularity. The realistic plot and the married life of chicken flying dog jump make the audience have a strong sense of substitution. Although many young viewers feel a little afraid of marriage and childbearing after chasing the drama, as long as they calm down and think, this drama also has many life inspirations in addition to the trivialities and entanglements of married life, giving people a wake-up call.
The first ten episodes of the TV series are all about the marriage between Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo, although some viewers commented that they did not want to get married after watching the show, but after Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo divorced, the pace of the plot slowed down, and the two people who were hurt by the marriage were healed in the new relationship.
Fang Yinuo was touched in Xie Tianhua's confessions one after another, especially when she saw that Xie Tianhua loved Hehe so much, she finally put down her guard and accepted Xie Tianhua. After Xiao Lu met Dong Fan, he was also touched by Dong Fan's gentleness and thoughtfulness and married again. Seeing two people who have been hurt by marriage and walk into marriage again, the process is still very healing. Life is what it is, someone hurts you, someone gives you warmth and redemption.
When depicting the second marriage of two people, the TV series also describes a large number of details to portray the performance of two people, from the different performances of two people in two marriages, showing the different effects of divorce on two people.
Let's first look at Fang Yinuo, in getting along with Xiao Lu, Fang Yinuo compares himself, after having a child, all his energy is more focused on the child, and Xiao Lu's fatigue directly chooses to ignore. Just complaining that he didn't give her a handle when the child woke up in the middle of the night, and that he wasn't home when the child was sick.
When all the family conflicts broke out, Xiao Lu also revealed his fatigue and helplessness, and Fang Yinuo realized that her husband was not easy. She hugged him and cried bitterly, at this time, she saw Xiao Lu's vulnerability as a man. She just saw it, but did not pay enough attention, her energy was still on the child, and after giving birth, she had always refused to be intimate with Xiao Lu, completely ignoring Xiao Lu's physiological needs as a man, which should have directly led to Xiao Lu's derailment.
It wasn't until Zhu Zhu ran to the birthday party to make a big fuss that Fang Yinuo felt that his marriage was indeed wrong. At this time, she still only blamed and complained to Xiao Lu, did not forgive, and did not think deeply about her own problems. She is too stubborn and very egotistical, and she will not tolerate or learn to compromise.
In her second marriage, we have seen her transformation, she is no longer self, she pays attention to the feelings of everyone around her, knows that Xie Tianhua's mother is not in good health, as long as she is at home, washing clothes and cooking are hers; and in the first marriage, when she is with Xiao Lu's mother, it is Xiao Lu who washes and cooks.
Xie Tianhua's sister did not accept Fang Yinuo from beginning to end, sneering every day, Fang Yinuo, who was once so unreasonable, but accepted all the cold words of the eldest sister, just after the eldest sister taunted, I still remember to leave a bowl of rice for the eldest sister, only because I saw that the eldest sister did not eat enough when she ate.
Because of forbearance and compromise, Fang Yinuo was recognized by everyone except the eldest sister in the Xie family, and although Hehe was not a child of the Xie family, he did get the love of everyone in the Xie family. In the two marriages before and after, Fang Yinuo went from a little intolerance to a hidden tolerance everywhere, from intolerance to tolerance everywhere, and Fang Yinuo, who completely lost himself, made people feel painful. Think about it, what makes people so humble? It was the failure of the first marriage.
In the three years of divorce, Fang Yinuo must have thought deeply about what was wrong with herself a thousand times, and finally, she thought that she was too strong and too inconsiderate of other people's difficulties, so in the second marriage, she treated people with leniency everywhere and put herself very low and very low, thinking that this would make her marriage boat no longer hit the rocks. Fortunately, this time she married the right person, Xie Tianhua understood her, but also hurt her, when she was sad, gave her hugs and comfort in time.
Xiao Lu was the wrong party in the first marriage, because of his own cheating, which caused an irreparable situation. Therefore, after three years of divorce, in the face of Dong Fan, who likes himself, he refuses to get married from time to time. From the perspective of personality, Dong Fan is indeed gentle and generous, thinking about Xiao Lu everywhere, in Dong Fan's gentleness, Xiao Lu learned how to express his concern, instead of moving his mouth and legs. From a person who only says good things and is not diligent on all fours, he has become a warm man who can cook for his wife and gently stroke her hair.
After the divorce, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo have a very big change, they have more or less corrected the mistakes they made before, they have learned to compromise and tolerate, if they learned these in the first marriage, their marriage should not be so easy to disintegrate. However, then again, if there was no such mistake, how could there be Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu now?
Divorce did cause harm to two people, but it also promoted the growth of two people: Fang Yinuo learned to compromise from being strong, and Xiao Lu changed from throwing his hands to being in charge and learning to be considerate of his wife. Therefore, when we watch TV dramas, we can't just see the mess of chickens flying and dogs jumping, but also learn the healing and growth that life gives.
There is no kind of growth in the world that does not come at a price, and the deeper the pain, the faster it grows. In the face of harm, we may be in pain and cry, as long as we face it bravely, there will always be good gains. If the wind and rain are unavoidable, it is better to take the opportunity to exercise your wings.