Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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Can raising children and daughters prevent old age? It's really an unknown.
Sometimes it is not that children do not honor the elderly, the key is that they are weak in heart. Don't put all your old-age hopes on your children.
Everyone will grow old one day, we don't have to be too afraid, if the other half leaves first, we must live well.
When we were young, we were not afraid. But at a certain age, you must serve the old. And when you're old, who can you rely on?
Many elderly people, why do they have a bad old age? It's because they don't know how to plan for the rest of their lives.
How to spend the rest of your life? We cannot resign ourselves to it, it is better to rely on who to rely on, and when people are old, they must firmly control their fate in their own hands. When people are old, their children cannot be relied on, and their wives cannot rely on them for a lifetime, and they can only rely on themselves.
As the saying goes: "People have no far-reaching worries, they will have near-term worries" People who live alone in their old age should make such preparations as soon as possible. Whether the children are filial or not, they must plan well in order to enjoy their old age in peace.
【1】Take care of your body
Schopenhauer once said, "The greatest mistake a human can make is to trade health for something outside of the body." ”
Only when people reach a certain age do they know that without health, everything else has lost its meaning.
A healthy body is a person's greatest confidence, and it is also the strongest support on our life road. With a healthy body, the quality of life in later life will be higher, and the body will be better, one is that you do not suffer sin, and the other is not to cause trouble to your children and your family.
In this life, the most precious wealth is not money, but your physical health. For the elderly living alone, after reaching a certain stage, the maintenance of the body must be the focus that cannot be ignored.
【2】 Cultivate your own interests and hobbies.
Life, but a moment. When people are old, they must know how to please themselves.
The increasing number of young people going out to work has led to the inability to take care of the elderly at any time
In life, no one can avoid getting old. However, how to grow old, you can choose. People who live alone can regain their interests when they are old, do what they like, and let themselves live every day healthy and happy.
Hobbies are the best teachers, and it is difficult to buy and like. In old age, please live a little more expensive. Read newspapers, read books, raise flowers, raise fish, listen to music, go to university for the elderly, cultivate sentiments, and feel different lives.
When people are old, having fun in old age is a heartfelt emotional sustenance and dependence, and it is also the spiritual pillar of the elderly. Therefore, the elderly should cultivate their hobbies and interests, regulate their emotions, and live the rest of their lives is the last word.
[3] Keep your pension money.
Money, after all, is the most realistic existence in this world.
As the saying goes, "If you have grain in your hand, you don't panic in your heart." ”
When people reach middle age, they must start planning to save some pension money for themselves, otherwise they will not be able to earn when they are old.
Without money in hand, your old age is only "the immediate and the present". When capable, the elderly must work hard to accumulate wealth, learn to plan for the long term, and only by taking precautions can they face it calmly in old age. Even if that person is his own own son and daughter, it is not as good as having money in his hands to be steadfast and at ease.
People who know how to save money, when they are seven or eighty years old, do not have to worry about life problems. And when you don't plan ahead for the future, there must be countless difficulties waiting for you in the future.
Before entering old age, people who live alone have prepared money, houses, and pensions for themselves, and they can live a worry-free life in the future. People who live alone in their later years can do these three things well in order to spend the rest of their lives in peace.
In short, people who live alone in their later years must know how to leave a way back for themselves, so that they can make their lives worry-free.
A girl who likes words, I am glad to meet you in my words, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.