To say a word of scolding, seeing that in "Dear Child", Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo divorced, I was actually a little happy.
Although I also know that the main responsibility for their dispersion lies with Xiao Lu, we have to admit that every party has the responsibility to go this far.
Although I knew that even when it came time to change the certificate, although Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo both said absolutely, in the depths of their hearts, they still left a place for each other.
However, when Zhu Zhu appeared at their children's first birthday party, their marriage had already come to an end.
Even if we don't consider the face of the empty head and make such a scene, it is basically impossible for them to continue. In other words, even if Fang Yinuo had endured all this for the sake of the child, the diaphragm in their hearts was doomed to be unable to be eliminated.
What was fatal was that Ming Fang Yinuo was already planning to let go, but Xiao Lu still couldn't help but meet with Zhu Zhu, although it was the last time, but that kind of harm was far greater than Zhu Zhu's appearance at the child's full birthday banquet.
I agree with a sentence in the bullet screen, not that Fang Yinuo did not give Xiao Lu a chance, but that Xiao Lu has not cherished it.
Of course, they are not without the opportunity to reunite, but now they have not yet realized where their problems are, if they insist on forgiving, it is estimated that they will only be left with the torture of each other.
According to the synopsis, they still came back together for the sake of the children, but I think that at that time, they would definitely be different from now.
Thinking about it carefully, what prompted Fang Yinuo to go to the step of divorce was not just because of Zhu Zhu's incident, but the result of so many years of disappointment.
If they had realized this sooner, they might not have been able to get there at all.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
From the plot alone, Fang Yinuo was disappointed for the first time, or the time when she gave birth to a child, when she came out of the ward, she did not see Xiao Lu's figure.
Although I am a man, but in the oral tradition of the elders, I also know the saying that "children run to life, mothers run to death", in the era of underdeveloped medical technology, women giving birth to children is undoubtedly a back and forth on the ghost door.
Even at the end of the last century, I heard the news that women died in childbirth.
Although modern medical technology has developed, the world has never been 100% safe, so for most women, at such a critical moment, they still want their other half to accompany them.
In fact, changing to a man is almost the same, when we are sick and hospitalized, what we most hope for is that our other half is around.
To tell the truth, even if I could accept that Xiao Lu was not in the hospital the first night, I really couldn't accept his performance the next day.
When Xiao Lu rushed to the hospital, the child had already been born, when the nurse handed the child's placenta to him, he immediately went to send the placenta to Gao Caiping, and when Fang Yinuo came out of the operating room, there was no one at the door, and finally the nurse helped to send her to the ward.
The funny thing is that after Xiao Lu returned from sending the placenta, he didn't even know which operating room Fang Yinuo was in, if it wasn't for Xie Tianhua calling him, he didn't know how long Fang Yinuo would wait in the ward to see his other half.
It is not difficult to imagine how uncomfortable Fang Yinuo's heart really felt when she was lying on a stretcher and listening to the nurses' discussion.
Although this incident was an accident, this accident, to some extent, was completely caused by Xiao Lu himself. Moreover, later, Fang Yinuo also knew everything, and the pain naturally became doubled.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
Fang Yinuo's second disappointment was also in the ward.
Because he had just given birth to a child, Fang Yinuo was incontinent.
At the beginning, I was still touched by Xiao Lu for two minutes, when Fang Yinuo was embarrassed and kept trying to drive him out, but Xiao Lu did not dislike Fang Yinuo and personally cleaned up for Fang Yinuo.
At the time, I thought this man was not bad.
But turning around, Xiao Lu immediately changed his face——
There is a detail that if it is not Fang Yinuo mentioned, it was almost ignored by me, that is, when Xiao Lu changed fang Yinuo's clothes and went to wash his hands, he has been smelling whether there is a peculiar smell on his hands and a look of disgust.
(I think that if one day, When Xiao Lu can't take care of himself and is lying in bed and needs to be taken care of, Fang Yinuo will definitely not be like him.) ）
If Fang Yinuo hadn't seen this scene, it would have been better, but Fang Yinuo had seen everything, but she didn't say it at the time.
At the beginning, I thought that Fang Yinuo was being pretentious, but then my point of view changed - when she let Xiao Lu out, she was afraid that Xiao Lu would dislike herself, although Xiao Lu helped her clean up, but his disgusted expression could not be fake at all.
When I changed it to a normal time, it may not be much, but now that Fang Yinuo has just given birth to a child, and such a thing has happened, naturally there will be a psychological shadow.
If the two of them could communicate more, maybe the shadow would slowly disappear, but since the birth of the child, the two of them had not had the opportunity to sit down and talk about it, and the matter would have remained there.
Later, after the Zhu Zhu incident occurred, all the unhappiness came to mind, and this "small thing" naturally became the last straw that crushed the camel.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
Fang Yinuo's third disappointment was the time when the child was sick.
During that time, Xiao Lu had already mixed up with Zhu Zhu, and that night, it was raining heavily, and the child was sick again, but when Fang Yinuo called Xiao Lu, Xiao Lu was staying with Zhu Zhu and did not answer the phone.
In the end, Xie Tianhua called over, Xiao Lu answered the phone, and by the time he arrived at the hospital, the child's examination had already been done.
What is fatal is that on the way to the hospital, Fang's mother also fell.
For Fang Yinuo, what she needs most is not how much money Xiao Lu makes, but when she and the child need him, he can be around. However, at this time, he was not there, and he was naturally disappointed.
What is heart-wrenching is that Xiao Lu said that he was socializing outside, but in fact he was with Zhu Zhu, not to mention Fang Yinuo, the party, even me, a man on the outside, felt that there was no way to accept it.
Fortunately, there was Xie Tianhua, if it were not for Xie Tianhua's help to send the child to the hospital, and then running in the hospital and running after the busy work, I don't know what Fang Yinuo would be in a hurry to catch fire.
I don't deny that there are some unpleasant women in this world, but I think that although most women have such and such problems, their biggest expectation for their other half is that when things happen, their other half can be with themselves.
Even if there is no Zhu Zhu thing, Xiao Lu is also a problem, during that time, because the family chickens fly and dogs jump, he is not willing to face it directly, has been evading, many times, his overtime to see customers, in fact, is an excuse.
Fang Yinuo was already anxious for the child, coupled with Xiao Lu's absence, the two mouths have always lacked communication, and the contradictions naturally accumulate and become bigger.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
Thinking about it carefully, Xiao Lu did much more wrong than that.
For example, the two sons have been married for many years, he has been living in his own world, and wants to give Fang Yinuo the "best life", but this so-called "best" has always been the best he thinks is the best, not what Fang Yinuo wants.
In other words, although the two had been married for many years, Xiao Lu had never really understood Fang Yinuo.
For example, because of Xiao Xu's affairs, the family made a lot of noise, xiao Xu was a virtue, he knew, and according to Gao Caiping, Xiao Xu had always listened to him the most, and if he had stopped it earlier, he would not have erupted into such a fierce quarrel.
Although it is only a small detail, it is not difficult to find that in the relationship between his brother and mother and his wife, he has always been in harmony with the mud.
A marriage has come to an end, it will never be only the responsibility of either party, in this matter, Fang Yinuo also has her own responsibility, for example, since having children, she has put all her thoughts on children and completely ignored Xiao Lu's feelings.
Just like Xiao Lu himself said, he was busy outside all day, and when he returned home, he had to coax one by one.
But in this matter, no matter from which point of view, Xiao Lu's responsibility is greater, especially the matter of his mixing with Zhu Zhu, there is no way to forgive.
After all, Fang Yinuo's problem is because of the child, and the child is the child that the two of them have in common.
At this point, Xiao Lu's mistake is much more serious and outrageous.
In this way, even if there is no Zhu Zhu thing, they may also divorce, Zhu Zhu's fuss at the child's birthday party, just put everything on the surface, speed up the progress of their divorce.
However, in that kind of separation, the other party's commitment is much less harmful.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
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