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Someone said: "A woman who cheats is like money that falls into a pit of dung, not picking it up, not picking it up, and feeling disgusting when she picks it up." ”
Although the words are a little rough, they do speak the voices of many men.
The famous thinker Marx once said: "If you want to live a beautiful life, only two people are united, because the half of the ball cannot roll, so the important task of each adult is to find the half that matches himself." ”
This is only half true, and not only must everyone find the half that matches them, but the person must also remain absolutely faithful to the marriage.
If she betrays her family, there is no way for the two hemispheres to form one ball, because their hearts are no longer together.
Many men are asking how to be good in the face of cheating wives, and many psychologists are also helping men solve problems, in fact, when things happen, no matter how good the solution can not return to the beginning.
Therefore, for a man, it is more important than anything to find a woman who is loyal to the marriage, and in this process, everyone has to block some women who are doomed to be restless in marriage, and this kind of woman usually has the following characteristics.
Gold-worshiping snobbery is easy to be tempted
Feng Xixi in "Heart Residence" knows that Gu Xin has a wife and children, but she still confesses to him and maintains an extramarital relationship with him.
The reason why she did this was not to be carried away by love, but to be confused by money.
She wanted to stay in Shanghai so much that she did whatever it took, and even lost her etiquette and shame.
There are many similar women in real life, who have made it their goal to marry a rich man before marriage, and have not given up their fantasies after the failure of the plan.
Some people don't need temptation from others, and when they see the power of money, they become extraordinarily proactive.
They have forgotten their duty to be wives and mothers.
Heras once said, "Money is either a slave or a master, and there must be one or the other." ”
A woman who is supreme in money can easily become a slave to money, and she is easily captured in the face of a little temptation.
Under the temptation of money, she will not only forget the identity of the other party, but also forget her own situation.
Obviously, he has become a wife and mother, but he still has a vision for the flower world outside.
Love to compare, easy to be influenced by others
Once knew a woman who especially liked to compare with people, she was very jealous, the people around her had, she also wanted to have, and if she didn't get it, she would show her jealous face without a doubt.
She later divorced her husband and married a man who was 15 years older than herself.
The man was richer than her ex-husband, but his personality was not as good as her ex-husband's, but she couldn't manage so much, she just wanted to live like a girlfriend.
Her girlfriend is a school flower, but also an only child with a superior family, a few years after graduation, she married a man with a very good family condition, usually do not have to do housework, because there is a nanny at home, she eats and wears the best, because they both have high incomes.
She looked in her eyes, jealousy in her heart.
There is a kind of woman who has never worked hard for life, but always attributes her misfortune to her husband's incompetence.
She was like that, so after constantly abandoning her husband, their marriage came to an end.
Comparison is a very terrible existence in human nature, it will stimulate a person's desire to win and lose, and then make the person do whatever it takes to achieve the goal.
In real life, many women lose their marriages for this reason.
They are not satisfied with the current life, always like to compare with others, complain that their husbands are not out of work, complain that their fate is not good, and stir up the original quiet life.
The love history is rich, and the bottom line is low
Many people do not understand why many men are very concerned about women's past, is it because of the remnants of feudal ideas?
Admittedly, many men still have traditional thinking, but the reason why they mind women's past is not entirely for this reason.
A woman's rich emotional experience shows that she is open-minded, has a low bottom line, and is irresponsible for her feelings.
A woman who is responsible for her feelings is unlikely to experience so many men, and after experiencing two or three failures, she will be extra cautious about feelings, rather than continuing to fall in love.
A woman in more than 5 relationships is relatively casual, if more than seven or eight loves, then it can only show that this woman has a playful mentality.
How can a woman who does not know how to protect herself at all, and even loves to play, be able to keep herself safe in marriage?
Selfish, not for the sake of children
Some women are particularly selfish, with only themselves in their hearts and no one else, including their own children, and this kind of woman is also difficult to settle down.
When a woman betrays her family, she does not only betray her husband, but also her own children.
Normal people know how a mother's bad reputation will affect the child's life, a mother who loves her child will not hurt her child, and she must think of the interests of her child before doing anything.
But there is a kind of person who does not, they have no children in their eyes, they only want their own joy.
epilogue:
The old man often says that marrying a wife does not give birth to three generations, but marrying a virtuous wife wang for three generations, which is not an exaggeration at all.
Men must pay attention to selection in the matter of choosing a mate, rather than changing.
The ancients often said: "The country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to move." ”
Once a person's personality and disposition are cultivated, it is difficult to change, so everyone must avoid those restless women when choosing a mate, so as not to bring disaster to their marriage.
I am Shadow, an original author who focuses on the field of emotion.