The plot of "Dear Child" is heart-wrenching, but it is very realistic.
I said before that many of the troubles and problems that couples will encounter are almost concentrated in the homes of "Xiao Lu" (played by Qin Hao) and Fang Yinuo (played by Ren Suxi), especially after the two gave birth to their daughter "Hehe", almost every day they live in chickens and dogs.
The accumulation of long-term family conflicts and trivial troubles has gradually crushed the two people's initial commitment and yearning for marriage. Xiao Lu became more and more reluctant to go home, and Fang Yinuo became more and more sharp.
In fact, Zhu Zhu is right, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu's marriage has long had problems, divorce is only a matter of time, and Zhu Zhu's arrival is only a fuse in advance.
Fang Yinuo's intolerance and Xiao Lu's absolute love
Fang Yinuo is right with what his girlfriend said, unmarried people have higher expectations for marriage, but married people continue to lower their standards after marriage, until they reach the bottom line, they can't help but file for divorce.
It's just that in the moment before the signing of the divorce, the heart will still waver.
In fact, it can be felt that Fang Yinuo obviously hesitated before signing, although she was stubborn and could not be persuaded. But if Xiao Lu could really crave it again, she might change her mind.
Unfortunately, xiao Lu did not perceive the subtle change of Fang Yinuo after apologizing and promising, and after helplessly sneering and sighing, he signed it happily.
Seeing that her husband signed it so happily, Fang Yinuo did not hesitate to complete the final formalities, and the two people were completely divorced.
The details here, the lens captures very delicately, the state of the two people before the divorce, respectively, is reflected very accurately, and several shots present the differences between the two people.
Marriage is so realistic, after coming out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Xiao Lu also hugged a promise, the two have had a few years of feelings, to the step of divorce, infinite sighing.
But soon, the little warmth and guilt that remained after the divorce was consumed in the process of dividing the property after the marriage, and even a little terrible.
Divorced, it is no longer a family
Yours, mine, must be clearly distinguished.
But living a life, it is not a couple, you and I are so simple, Xiao Lu also has an indisputable brother, after marriage, he constantly borrowed money, and has borrowed more than 20,000.
Therefore, once the other party's family is involved, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo instantly become enemies.
When the two men broke the old accounts of each other's family, they actually completely broke out the resentment accumulated in the marriage for many years, especially Xiaolu.
Xiao Lu angrily accused that he had paid for his mother-in-law and father-in-law to travel abroad, and he had spent tens of thousands of dollars, but his mother Gao Caiping had not enjoyed it!
Xiao Lu's outburst also shows the grievances and unworthiness of him and his family in this marriage.
Gao Caiping's conditions are poor, the cultural level is not high, and Fang Yinuo's mother is completely a person of two worlds, so Fang Yinuo's mother opposed her daughter marrying the Xiao family.
And at the beginning, Xiao Lu had no house and no car, which was also the source point of the Xiao family's humility.
It is precisely because of the poor conditions at home that xiao lu's family is very grateful and cautious when marrying a wife like Fang Yinuo, which is also the fundamental reason why Xiao Lu is distressed that his mother has not traveled and broke out.
In Xiao Lu's view, the money he earned was spent on his wife and his parents-in-law, but his own mother did not get half a light and did not enjoy the blessings of his son!
Not only is it a small matter of travel, in daily life, Xiao Lu also gives more money to his parents-in-law than his own mother.
This is the most aggrieved and indignant helpless thing that accumulates in Xiao Lu's heart, he is distressed that his mother has been wronged, but there is no way, because the actual conditions determine this "unfairness" between the parents of both sides.
Xiao Lu's grievances became deserved in Fang Yinuo's eyes, and she angrily accused Xiao Lu and did not let him treat him differently, it was he himself who was willing to commit a crime and do so.
Fang Yinuo's final lack of appreciation was the reason for the complete anger of Xiao Lu, and the two began to tear their faces, constantly attacking each other's weaknesses and deficiencies.
In Fang Yinuo's view, his own mother and father did not take advantage, and when they got married and decorated the house, their parents gave 30,000 yuan to Xiao Lu.
See, everyone remembers the efforts of their families, they are protecting the interests and dignity of their families, and when divorce has become a fact, the complaints that were once there will surface.
In this post-divorce quarrel scene, the most lamented thing is that Fang Yinuo mentioned the grievances and resentments that suffered when giving birth to children.
In her opinion, isn't incontinence caused by giving birth to a child for the Xiao family?
He made such a big contribution to the Xiao family, but he did not get the gratitude of his husband, but in exchange for the crazy scolding after the divorce.
The two of them complained about their dissatisfaction, and finally rose to personal attacks and began to swear wildly, and finally Fang Yinuo broke out and began to smash things, while Xiao Lu was angry and smashed the chair.
The emotions of the two had reached their peak, and Qin Hao and Ren Suxi's sword-rattling acting skills had also exploded.
Qin Haoren Suxi's acting skills are real
Qin Hao's quarrel scene is really real, waving impatiently, yin and yang weird way of speaking, constantly accusing the stacking of roaring emotions, and finally brewing to crazy smashing things and scolding.
Especially the action and expression when the door was slammed at the end, Qin Hao acted real enough and terrifying enough, the anger to the facial features twisted, and the reaction of the angry slamming door not wanting to look at his ex-wife again, too realistic.
And Ren Suxi also caught Qin Hao's performance the whole time, hysterical during the quarrel, and finally Ren Suxi's voice was eight degrees higher, and the tone of the voice changed because of extreme anger. It was enough to feel the loss of control of the noisy red eye as the two erupted.
In the end, Ren Suxi inadvertently moved the details of the shoe cabinet, which was simply a stroke of genius.
The fallen shoe cabinet suddenly stops the madness of the previous moment, showing the current situation of life being broken.
And the audience and netizens also have a lot of feelings about this quarrel scene.
Some viewers said: This is the most terrifying place, and the most loving couple is also a chicken feather after divorce.
The audience also said: This section made my scalp tingle, and when the shoe cabinet finally fell, I wanted to cry.
Netizens also said: The actors in this scene are too good, Qin Hao and Ren Suxi's acting skills are very good, and my heart trembles when I see it!
Obviously, the real acting skills of Ren Suxi and Qin Hao have allowed many viewers to bring into the plot and feel the horror and reality after the divorce.
In fact, many aspects of marriage are realistic enough, and when they are in love, they are the envy of everyone, sprinkling dog food to show love. However, once divorced, it will turn its face and become an enemy ruthlessly, especially when it comes to money, and it will show the true hearts of both parties.
The last decency, erased together with traces
After a crazy quarrel, Fang Yinuo came to his original home alone to clean up his and his daughter's things.
All the furniture was not wanted, but Fang Yinuo took away a pot of green lotus and some small potted green plants from the family.
Looking closely at this shot, when Xiao Lu went home and turned off the lights, when the camera swept through the bookcase and desk, the lush green plants that were originally on it were gone, and it was quiet and quiet.
Therefore, it is obvious that these small flowers and plants are taken care of by Fang Yinuo every day, and she is really running a small family well, but she is helpless to go to the step of divorce.
The divorced Fang Yinuo, who was not at ease with the flowers and plants he took care of, also chose to take them away.
In addition to taking away all the daily necessities and miscellaneous things about himself and his daughter, Fang Yinuo also conscientiously cleaned the house inside and out before leaving.
Doing so, on the one hand, is to leave with dignity, and on the other hand, Fang Yinuo has erased all traces of his and his daughter's lives from this home.
After all, at the divorce banquet, Fang Yinuo finally informed Xiao Lu not to see his daughter again and completely severed the relationship.
After the divorce and a big fight, Fang Yinuo was completely dead hearted, no longer left any feelings for Xiao Lu, including the details of life, she wanted to completely withdraw from Xiao Lu's life.
30,000 property, look at the sadness of strong women and weak men marriage
If the feelings are gone, then the money is clearly divided.
At the beginning, I felt that Xiao Lu should not share the family property with Fang Yinuo, the two talents only had tens of thousands of yuan of deposits, plus the old accounts of the relatives of both sides, and finally got 29,100 yuan, which was 30,000 yuan.
Why didn't Xiao Lu be generous, and directly give Fang Yinuo all of them.
But looking back at the more and more fierce conversation between the two, I finally understood why Xiao Lu did not even let go of the 30,000 yuan of property, which was not only the grievance of drinking and pulling customers to earn money to support the family every day, but also the debt to his mother!
In the marriage of strong women and weak men, Xiao Lu has always been a humble and sacrificial party, and even more a sad party!
Although Fang Yinuo did not force her husband to treat her mother-in-law badly, as a Xiao Lu, he only felt that he had not treated his wife and parents-in-law badly if he had wronged himself and his mother.
Now that Xiao Lu's marriage is gone, and his mother is also old, the most important thing is his marriage from beginning to end, and the only thing that brought his mother Gao Caiping is a grievance.
His last stinginess was for himself and for his mother.