In relationships, many women choose the other half by the same standard: be good to themselves.
Yes, if you can find a partner who is really good to yourself, can know the cold and the hot in your daily life, and always pamper yourself, women will feel happier.
But in relationships, in addition to being "good to you", many other things are also very important.
A man, even if he is good to you in his usual life, if he can't give you 4 "things", women still don't want to be silly to continue, and it is wise to let go as soon as possible.
1, can not give you trust
In life, we can always hear everyone emphasize the importance of trust, as a collective, trust is the cornerstone, no trust is an empty shell, and even trust can become the key to determining the success or failure of a thing. Trust is also particularly important in emotions, without trust between two people, they cannot become a community, and the suspicion in your heart will undoubtedly push the other party out of your world, and you are always separated by an invisible wall.
Therefore, in love, women should know that if men can't give you complete trust, always don't trust what you do, and have suspicions about the people you come into contact with, even if he is good to you, it is difficult for you to go to the end, because every suspicion will consume a part of love, and more suspicion and love will be gone.
2, can not give you loyalty
Loyalty to a relationship needs to be consciously observed, no one will stare at you all the time, and loyalty is also a necessary condition for maintaining a long-term relationship, and nothing can be guaranteed without loyalty. Love can only be a man and a woman one-on-one, love can only be one-on-one, if a person really loves you, there will only be you in his heart, if he has others in his heart, it means that his love for you is not firm and loyal.
Therefore, in love, women should know that if a man cannot be 100% loyal to your feelings, there are other women in his heart, even if he is good to you, it is difficult to have results between you, it is better to let go early.
3, can not give you the heart
Feelings are not child's play, not jokes, but a serious thing that needs to be taken seriously. Talking about love requires more heart, and the feelings of not walking the heart are only superficial, but also soulless, which is a kind of deception. In a relationship, if you are distracted, the other party is not distracted, he does anything you can not feel the temperature, like a robot, then it is difficult to continue, unless you do not care about his heart, only care about his people are not around.
Therefore, in love, women should know that if men take good care of you in all aspects of life, they are perfect boyfriends and full warm men in the eyes of outsiders, but they can't give you true love, and it is mostly difficult to go to the end between you.
4, can not give you marriage
In life, not everyone will choose to get married, not all people are married because of love, but marriage is still the final choice of most lovers, from love to marriage, for people who really love each other, it is love that finds a home and has been dependent since then. Although the other party is willing to marry you, it does not mean that the other party must love you, but most of the people who are unwilling to marry you do not love you enough.
Therefore, in love, women should know that if a man is very good to you, but just does not marry you, when you clearly express a strong desire to marry, it is still impossible to give you marriage, indicating that he has not yet identified you, or he does not want to be bound by marriage, in short, your concept of marriage is inconsistent, it is difficult to go to the end.
Not all feelings will have results if they persist, and not all efforts will have a harvest in the end.
When women realize that the essence of feelings is a mistake, even if they don't give up, even if they have paid more before, they must understand the reason for stopping losses in time.
Your persistence and dedication will not impress the other party, not to love is not to love, not because you are not good enough, but the door of his heart is locked, you can not walk into his heart.
True love is mutual, and your efforts must be rewarded so that the feelings can continue. Otherwise, love has become a one-man show, and no matter how superb your performance is, there is no audience under the stage, what is the point?
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