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In the current life, most of the elderly are also very open to the matter of second marriage, so many elderly people will continue to find their own true love in life after they lose their old partners or two people end the marriage of two people because of inappropriate personalities, and then spend their old age together.
But in life, if two people are married for the second time, in fact, the purpose of marriage has changed. The reason why most of the elderly will choose to marry for the second time is to find a partner for themselves to live with when they are old, so there is actually no deep feeling between the two people, and the feelings between the two people can also be described and compared with "the husband and wife are the same forest bird, and the big trouble is about to fly separately". In short, the relationship between the husband and wife in the middle of the road is very unstable.
Recently, in life, the 63-year-old Aunt Qi was more and more asked by her second wife after the second marriage.
Lonely old age
Aunt Qi is 63 years old this year, and she has been living on her own for ten years, because her wife died of illness when she was 53 years old, and Aunt Qi's son also has his own family, so Aunt Qi has been living alone since her wife's death. Although Aunt Qi's son lives not far from Aunt Qi, Aunt Qi feels that now that her son is married and has her own family, as an old man, she can only do not add chaos to her son, which is already the best help for her son, so she also tries not to trouble her son in life.
However, in such a person's life, although Aunt Qi did not need to worry about other things, she also felt endless loneliness in such a life. Although Aunt Qi has been living on her own for ten years, she still has no habits, so she usually goes out to dance square dance with others and play mahjong for entertainment in order to alleviate her loneliness, but every night after returning home, she returns to the loneliness of no one to speak.
Therefore, Aunt Qi's old age has always been very lonely, although Aunt Qi also lived in her son's house for a period of time at her son's invitation, she originally wanted to take this opportunity to alleviate her loneliness, but after living in her son's home, as she lived longer and longer, there were also some contradictions between her and her daughter-in-law, and in order not to let the feelings of her son and daughter-in-law be affected by herself, Aunt Qi also chose to return to her own home to live alone.
After returning to his home, although the contradictions between him and his daughter-in-law were eliminated and the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was improved, Aunt Qi's loneliness also returned. In such a situation, Aunt Qi also considered the idea of a second marriage under the advice of her friends around her.
Choose a second marriage
Because the friends around Aunt Zhao did not have the example of second marriage, it is said that Aunt Zhao was still a little hesitant after listening to the suggestions of the second marriage proposed by her friends, and she was also afraid of making her son unhappy because of her own practice, so she also asked her son's opinion at the first time. After Aunt Zhao told her son what she thought, she did not expect that her son and daughter-in-law did not even object.
Both of them felt that Aunt Zhao had lived alone for so many years, and now that she was older, she didn't live around herself, and if she had a headache and brain fever as a child, they couldn't catch up at once, so they didn't have any opinions on the matter of Aunt Zhao's second marriage.
After obtaining the consent of her son and daughter-in-law, Aunt Zhao was also very happy, so she also began to look at her second marriage partner in her life with peace of mind. Because Aunt Zhao's friends introduced her to people nearby, Aunt Zhao quickly chose a nearby Uncle Li after a blind date and began to understand.
In fact, as an elderly dating friend, there is nothing to understand, after all, the idea of two people is only to make their later life less lonely. Therefore, the two people also chose to remarry quickly after asking for the opinions of each other's children. Originally, Aunt Zhao's original intention of remarrying was to find someone who would love herself, but she did not expect that after getting married, she found out that Uncle Li was not such a person.
Crying after marriage
Soon the two of them had a meal with their children and then moved in together. However, originally Aunt Zhao thought that after she got married, it was the beginning of her own happiness, but she did not expect that under Uncle Li's strong desire for control and machismo personality, Aunt Zhao was miserable after marriage.
After the two people just got married, Aunt Zhao was also very diligent, not only keeping the family in order, but also almost responsive to Uncle Li. However, this also makes Uncle Li almost treat Aunt Zhao as a nanny in his life, and not only that, because Uncle Li's temper is also very poor, so as long as Aunt Zhao does something that does not meet his wishes, he will be furious in life, which also makes Aunt Zhao soon unable to bear such a life.
With the growth of the time for the two people to get married, Uncle Li's requirements have become more and more numerous, not only requiring Aunt Zhao to give him all the pension, but also not allowing Aunt Zhao to give her grandson too much money, and even requiring Aunt Zhao not to interact with her son too often, which also makes Aunt Zhao more and more unbearable.
Soon after she got married, she couldn't help but cry with her friends: "I want to be loved, but my second wife has more and more requirements, and I can't meet it." Under such a marriage, Aunt Zhao soon could not accept it and separated from Uncle Li. After Aunt Zhao returned to her single state, she realized how happy she was in her current state. After ending the remarriage life of a chicken feather, Aunt Zhao also regained her state.
Now in life, we can often see the remarriage of the elderly happening. The reason why most of the elderly choose to remarry in life is because the life of the elderly is too lonely, so they will think of finding someone to accompany themselves in life. But in life, this is only the idea of some people, there are many elderly people, the reason why they will continue to look for their other half in life, is to find a nanny-like person in life to serve themselves. Therefore, when they are old, they will have the idea of looking for the other half.
Because when they choose to marry for the second time, they do not choose to enter marriage because love has some other purpose, so even after marriage, when they live with their other half in life, they also have their own purpose. Especially halfway couples, after two people are together on the one hand, the first thing they think about when they encounter things must be their own children. Therefore, such a married life is actually very unnecessary.
Because most of the elderly, the reason why they will find a person to continue to live after they are older is because of the loneliness in life, so they actually have no feelings for their remarried partners, especially when comparing their old partners and their children, they will not hesitate to choose their children, and the old partners who are combined halfway will also be abandoned by them.
In fact, no matter what age it is, as long as two people can be together, it is driven by fate, so after we enter marriage, we must cherish the fate of two people, in the process of getting along with two people, only if we first pay our own sincerity, can we get the sincerity of others, and the marriage of two people can go on for a long time.
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