For men, happiness means marrying a woman who will live a life of thrift and thrift, having several healthy and lovely babies, loving each other as a family, and enjoying a good life together.
Men's requirements for the family are not high, and it is most appropriate to use "wife and children hot kiln head" to summarize.
There is a popular saying on the Internet: "Men can accept the failure of their careers, they can accept the embarrassment of life, they can accept the calculations of their friends, but they cannot accept the betrayal of their wives." ”
Life is a little bitter and tired a little man does not matter, career success or not men do not care, men pay attention to marriage and happiness and family satisfaction, which is both the guarantee of stable life and related to the face of men, in this issue must not be sloppy, once the wife's behavior touches the bottom line of the husband, the family will face a disaster.
Mr. Liu has been married for many years, looking forward to having a child, and his wife is pregnant with a dragon and phoenix fetus in October, which is a happy thing for everyone, and what happened next caught Mr. Liu off guard.
After giving birth to the child, his wife ran away from home and filed for divorce, Mr. Liu suspected that his wife had done something sorry for him, and Mr. Liu was dumbfounded after learning the truth. Why did the wife abandon her husband and son and run away from home? What kind of emotional entanglement do they have?
Mr. Liu is a city person, his family is not very well-off, his work is generally good-looking, and he is an ordinary person. When he was young, Mr. Liu was introduced to Ms. Wang, and they felt good about each other, and after half a year of dating, they got a license to get married.
Ms. Wang is a few years younger than Mr. Liu, sometimes playing with small characters and sometimes making some excessive demands, Mr. Liu did not take it seriously but felt that this was a small interest in life. They are gracious and loving, and they are very happy.
After marriage, Ms. Wang gave birth to a son, Mr. Liu and Ms. Wang have stable jobs, raising children is not a problem, they enjoy the joy of accompanying children while enjoying the beauty of life. The wife is gentle and considerate, the children are smart and lovely, the work life is smooth, and Mr. Liu lives the life he dreamed of.
Mr. Liu's relatives and friends have given birth to a second child, Mr. Liu also has the conditions to have a second child, he and Ms. Wang on this issue they hit it off, they began to actively prepare for pregnancy.
Because of the physical reasons, Ms. Wang has never been pregnant, and after the examination, it was found that she suffered from reproductive diseases, and Ms. Wang saw many doctors and took a lot of medicines with little effect. Ms. Wang is getting older, and in a hurry, Mr. Liu proposes to have IVF surgery.
After some hard work, Ms. Wang finally became pregnant, and was pregnant with twins, during pregnancy, Ms. Wang could not eat and sleep and her stomach was surprisingly large, even if she was tired and tired, Ms. Wang had to give birth to the child, which was both a belief and a commitment to Mr. Liu.
Ms. Wang encountered a lot of trouble during childbirth, and the doctor even issued a critical illness notice, and after 4 hours of surgery, Ms. Wang successfully gave birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus. Ms. Wang risked her life to give birth to a child Mr. Liu is quite touched, and he vowed to treat Ms. Wang kindly in the future, treat her two children kindly, and let Ms. Wang's mother and son live a good life.
During the month, Mr. Liu tried his best to serve Ms. Wang, their relationship was originally very good, and their relationship went further after having this pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses. They take care of their children together and look forward to a better future together, and everything is developing in a good direction.
In order to celebrate the 100 days of the child, Mr. Liu specially invited relatives and friends, and everyone at the banquet talked about wine and said a lot of auspicious words, and Mr. Liu and Ms. Wang were very happy.
Shortly after a hundred days, Ms. Wang behaved abnormally, she often went alone in a daze, sometimes secretly shed tears, one day Ms. Wang suddenly did not quit, then Mr. Liu panicked. Ms. Wang did not answer Mr. Liu's phone and did not reply to Mr. Liu's message, and Mr. Liu searched all the places without Ms. Wang's whereabouts.
Mr. Liu has to take care of two children and can't go out to work, and at the same time he has to look for Ms. Wang everywhere, he is physically and mentally exhausted, very stressed, and the whole person is not good. Mr. Liu couldn't figure out why Ms. Wang ran away from home, he thought about it all day, and even had the idea that Ms. Wang would elope with someone else.
Ms. Wang sent a few dynamics in the circle of friends, she missed the child but she had to leave the child, seeing these contents, Mr. Liu's heart was full of mixed feelings.
Half a month later, Mr. Liu found Ms. Wang at the home of Ms. Wang's girlfriend, ms. Wang was in a very poor state, and it could be seen that she was not doing well during this time. Ms. Wang was very excited when they met, she refused to follow Mr. Liu home, and she even offered to divorce.
Mr. Liu did not find the man's belongings in Ms. Wang's residence, mr. Liu's biggest worry did not happen, since Ms. Wang is not divorced because of emotional problems, then what is the reason for her divorce? Ms. Wang's girlfriend told the truth.
After giving birth to the child, Ms. Wang has been low-grade fever, after the diagnosis of Ms. Wang suffered from acute myeloid leukemia, the treatment of this disease not only to find a bone marrow match, but also to spend more than 500,000 yuan in treatment costs.
In order to have a child, Mr. Liu spent all his family's savings and owed more than 200,000 foreign debts, and At this time, Ms. Wang's illness was nothing less than worse for the family. Ms. Wang does not want to bring more pressure to the family, nor does she want to drag Mr. Liu down, she plans to leave Mr. Liu alone.
After learning the truth, Mr. Liu wanted to cry without tears, he did not expect that Ms. Wang would suffer from such a disease, and he did not expect that Ms. Wang's divorce was not because she did not love him, but precisely because Ms. Wang loved him too much. Ms. Wang bears the pressure alone and does not want to carry a greater burden on the family, how can such a good wife not be moved?
Ms. Wang is at the low point of life, she needs the care and encouragement of her family the most, Mr. Liu naturally does not want to abandon Ms. Wang, he intends to face it with Ms. Wang. Mr. Liu asked Ms. Wang's family for help, and Ms. Wang's brother and Ms. Wang were successfully matched, but they could not raise 500,000 yuan for treatment.
As the saying goes: "Husband and wife are the same forest bird, and they fly separately when the big trouble comes." "We see many similar things in life, when husband and wife are facing the test of life and death on the one hand, the other party is not thinking about finding ways to save people, but their own interests. Some people throw their wives aside, some people take all the money in the family and leave them, and this ruthless and unjust behavior is despised.
When getting married, everyone should make a solemn vow: "Whether the other person is rich or poor, healthy or sick, young or old, I am willing to accompany him to take care of him and work together to grow old." ”
Marriage is a commitment is also a contract, from the date of marriage husband and wife should be blessed with the same difficulties, together to meet the various challenges of life, to enjoy the beauty of the struggle together, this is what a husband and wife should have.
Ms. Wang worked hard to give birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus for Mr. Liu, but she suffered from leukemia because of it, and Ms. Wang did not tell Mr. Liu the truth of the matter, she planned to carry everything alone. Ms. Wang did this for the sake of the family, she did not want to increase Mr. Liu's burden and did not want to let the children suffer because of her, her idea was understandable, but she ignored an important matter.
Husband and wife are a community of destiny, the sweetness of life should be shared together, the suffering in life should be borne together, no matter what she encounters, she must tell her husband at the first time and discuss with her husband. If the other party can only share the blessings and not the suffering, such a husband should not do it.
Ms. Wang is seriously ill and does not want to drag her husband down, how do you think about this? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.