"A hundred years of repair can be crossed by the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can sleep together." It is not an easy task to be married, and we must cherish this hard-won fate.
But even between husband and wife, there will inevitably be times when conflicts occur. At this time, we must solve the problem first, not vent our anger.
At the child's birthday party, the husband angrily beat his wife and mother-in-law
Lovers are the people we have the most contact with and the most intimate people, and we should not put our fists out to our lovers at any time.
But at the son's birthday party, husband Xiao He (pseudonym) directly hit his wife and mother-in-law, what is this for?
Xiao He and his wife had just turned thirty years old, and they were once very sweet and were the envy of their friends around them. After a year of marriage, the two had a lovely son. The son was one year old, so the two families discussed a birthday party for the child.
According to his wife, on the day of the birthday party, her mother saw Xiao He wearing a red dress for her son and felt dissatisfied, and her mother never let her child wear brightly colored clothes, feeling that it had an impact on health. So he reprimanded Xiao He, but unexpectedly, the husband immediately hit back, the mother fell to the ground instantly, the husband still felt that it was not enough, so he pulled up the mother's hair and pulled it out forcefully, he pulled the husband away, but it attracted the attention of the husband, and the husband kicked and punched himself. Both I and my mother were injured.
Is Xiao He really so violent? Because of a piece of clothing, you beat up your mother-in-law and wife?
The husband was right: What did she do in the car?
Xiao He did not feel the slightest guilt about the adult, and firmly believed that he and his mother-in-law were just arguing, because it was the mother-in-law who did it first.
Xiao He also said that he was not angry because of this one thing, and then Xiao He snorted coldly, "Why hit her?" See what she's doing in the car? It turned out that when Xiao He came home from work, he accidentally found that his car was moving, so Xiao He, who was very curious, recorded the video with his mobile phone. The face of the wife and another strange man is clearly seen in the video.
Xiao He went home and questioned his wife, who said that it was just a friend, and the two did not cross the final bottom line. And said that he would not do such a thing again, although this matter has passed, but Xiao He's heart has always had a hurdle.
Xiao He also said that after this incident, although he did not find his wife's misdeeds, his wife's requirements for herself became more demanding in life. Moreover, he is very disrespectful to his mother, always saying in front of Xiao He that his mother is not, and quarrels often break out between husband and wife.
Netizen: Letting go is also a relief
Xiao He also said that he did not want to end this marriage, but his wife pretended not to understand every time, leading the topic to other aspects, and he did not want to argue with his wife about these issues. But after all, there are still children, and I have not made a good decision about how to do it in the future.
Netizens have said that "letting go is also a relief" and some netizens have said "once unfaithful, a hundred times do not use". But how to choose depends on how the husband and wife communicate.
The author believes that husband and wife should abide by their duties, which is not only responsible for the other half, but also responsible for themselves and their families. If irreconcilable problems do arise, they should be resolved peacefully, and violence will only make things worse.
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