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Love someone, always hope to get the other person's response.
It's just that feelings have no reason to speak of, and the sincerity you pay may not be able to exchange for sincerity.
Looking back, you carefully curry favor with someone and pay for him wholeheartedly, even if you are wronged, you are desperately trying to find a reason to comfort yourself.
You are reluctant to take him, unreservedly entrust your true heart to him, you think you love deeply, and finally find that the other party does not take you seriously at all.
As Zhang Ailing said:
"Not loving is a lifetime of regret, and love is a lifetime of tribulations."
Falling in love with him will make you deeply experience what it means to meet someone unladylike and really make a mistake.
Love, has always needed to pay in both directions, no love, no feelings, do not give the other party the opportunity to hurt themselves.
Communication between the opposite sex, men have not given you three things, stop loving.
01 Single-minded, that is a preference
In the movie "Soul Breaks the Blue Bridge", there is a line like this:
"I've loved you, I've never loved anyone else, and I never will, that's true."
Indeed, a man who truly loves you will give you a single preference and will always love you alone.
He will give you the security you want, consciously distance yourself from the other opposite sex, and give you the singleness and preference you want.
On the contrary, those men who are always half-hearted in their feelings and ambiguous with other people of the opposite sex are not that he does not know how to keep a distance from other people of the opposite sex, but he does not love you so much.
Feelings are specific and exclusive.
The person who loves you will not let you think wildly, and if you also meet such a man who is unwilling to give you a singleness and is unwilling to give you a preference, don't continue to love.
02 Patience, that's a kind of inclusion
Particularly envious of a passage:
"You don't have to be deliberately gentle, you can throw a little tantrum at me, I can give you all my patience, you come over, I will coax you." 」
Indeed, the person who truly loves you will definitely give you enough patience to tolerate your little temper and coax you.
He is not willing to make you sad and sad, so when you are angry, he will take the initiative to bow his head to you, accept the counterattack of your negative emotions, give you patience and tolerance, and coax you to be happy.
On the contrary, those who always speak ill of you and hurt you when they are arguing do not really love you.
In feelings, patience is more important than fit, and understanding is more important than love.
A man who truly loves you will not be willing to make you sad and sad, and if you meet such a man who is unwilling to give you patience and is unwilling to tolerate you, don't continue to love.
03 places, that's a kind of recognition
To love someone, you always want to be recognized by the other party.
I want to stand by his side in a proper and generous way, affirmed by him, and made public by him.
But after being with him, he has been reluctant to disclose your relationship and give you the name you want.
You are not willing to give up, always have expectations for him, and constantly take the initiative to approach him and contact him, but he always has an attitude of unclear acceptance and refusal.
With him, you always feel insecure because he never gave you the name you wanted.
In the relationship, if it starts inexplicably, it will end inexplicably.
If he really loves you, he will not give you a vague relationship, and when you ask for disclosure, he will be torn apart and hidden.
The person who truly loves you is not willing to let you be wronged, and if you meet a man who is so unwilling to accept and refuse to admit you, don't continue to love.
Meeting a wrong person is like getting into the wrong car, you can't be reluctant to get out of the car because you have invested coins, because the wrong car will never reach the end you want.
If a man does not know how to give you fame, patience and single-mindedness, then don't continue to love.
As Suzen said:
"Maintaining a relationship is never about seeking perfection and achieving success."
Don't love someone who doesn't love you, turn back in time to make room for someone worthy of love and talk about a sweet love.
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