Single, it seems, is also divided into many kinds.
Some people are single, really don't want to fall in love, don't want to get married, think that two people are too troublesome, one person is very good.
They enjoy being single, don't feel that marriage is necessary, and really don't easily enter into marriage with anyone.
There are also some people, although they seem to be single, have not established a relationship with anyone, and have not admitted that they have an object, but they have always been surrounded by people, and there has never been a shortage of people.
All along, there have been a lot of ambiguous objects, and there are also a lot of spare tires.
In addition to these two situations, there are also some people who have been single for many years, not because they don't want to be in love, but because they have never met the love they want, and they have not touched the beginning they want.
Yes, there is a kind of singleness, seemingly desireless and undemanding, but the heart is actually turbulent.
All of it is just waiting, waiting for someone to come to their side.
There are people in my heart who hope to be reunited.
I know a girl, I've known her for ten years, and she's always been single.
During this period, there were many men with good conditions in all aspects who showed favor to her, and she refused all of them.
From beginning to end, she never even gave anyone a chance, did not want to get to know anyone close to her.
Whenever someone shows a little favor to her, she will only directly and very clearly indicate that it is inappropriate, that it will not be possible for each other, and then let the other person choose to give up and not waste time on her.
For a while, many people thought that there was something wrong with her, which is why she was so cold to love, but in fact, she did not, but in the depths of her heart, there was always a person hidden.
Many people seem to be like this, at a certain age, met a person who is particularly fond of, that person stunned their time, but unfortunately, each other has not had time to do something, each other's love has just sprouted, it has begun to run things.
Later, the man went to a different place and began to have a new life, but he never gave up.
Compared with forgetting after separation and not thinking back, there are always people who will always remember and will always remember that love.
With a person who has always liked the person in her memory, she really has no way to fall in love with anyone else, no matter how good, how good, no matter how perfect, she will not be moved at all, there is no way to respond.
In the years that have passed, she will only feel that she and that person are not finished, and it is still possible, and she has been waiting for the day when they meet each other again and continue the frontier.
Didn't meet a favorite, want to wait.
The more we have a certain age, the more we will clearly realize that it is not so easy to meet the person we like, although there are always people in this world who are just right for us, but if you want to meet, you really need luck.
For a while, when a person has lived for more than twenty years, it is really possible that he has never met a person who makes him really like.
I have never met, and I have a certain age, there will indeed be many people who can't hold back their hearts at all, and will only hurry to find someone at random, so that they look like they are also in love and married.
However, there are always many people, and she really doesn't want to settle down, and there is no way to be with someone she doesn't like.
You can't accept the other person into your life, you can't have some intimate actions with the other party, you can't go to this life with the other party, you just live a life without any feelings, just very boring.
When the people around her continue to enter the marriage, she still has her own persistence, and she still wants to continue to wait and see.
One day, on the way forward, I just met a person who I liked very much, but also liked myself, agreed with each other, had the same three views, and really wanted to spend the rest of my life with each other, and I could get along very happily.
Before meeting that person, she was not willing to waste her time on the wrong person, but just wanted to be single first, live alone first, and live her life well first.
First make yourself good enough, first make yourself mature enough, and when you meet each other, give each other a good enough other half.
Maybe she didn't know how long she had to wait, but even so, she wanted to wait.
There is a kind of singleness, not that you don't believe in love, it's not that you don't want to get married, you just don't want to give in casually.
A lifetime so long, I don't want to love easily, nor do I want to be with someone easily.
Waiting, if there is someone in your heart, then instead of waiting for the other party to appear, waiting for the other party to come to your side, it is best to act on your own and fight for yourself.
Because the other party may not know that someone is waiting for them, even if they feel that there is such a possibility, they may not be so brave.
Since we all have a goal, blindly waiting, it is not OKAY, waiting and waiting, each other may never have a future.
And if there is no one in your heart and there is no suitable person around, just wait a little longer, it is not impossible.
However, you can wait, but you must not always stay at home, always do nothing, just fantasize about someone who can just appear at the door of your house and say that you will be with yourself.
Still try to find it, or when you think a person is not bad, do something, fight hard, try hard.
Text/Tan Meng
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