In the hit drama "Heart Residence" starring Haiqing, Tong Yao and Zhang Songwen, Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu finally divorced, and the audience may regret that the first love of this pair after adulthood has such an ending, but it is not worth regretting at all!
The source of generosity in marriage is humble and deserved
At first, I liked Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, but after marriage, I found that Shi Yuan became more and more inferior because of the gap between himself and Gu Qingyu, which was quite painful.
Because in the eyes of many viewers, he is a very backbone and a very responsible man.
He picks up the burden of the family alone, obviously he can eat soft rice in a fair and honest way, but he chooses to fight on his own; he will try his best to protect his wife in front of his mother, he will come home after a tired day and cook a table for his wife...
Because he had an inferiority complex, he wanted Gu Qingyu to look up to him.
But no matter how humble you are, you can't lose the bottom line of being a human being. Before the divorce, he actually wanted to spy on gu Qingyu's labor results for his own future.
Even if he didn't read the project plan, he won the project with his own efforts and strength, but he had moved that bad mind after all.
Whether or not he ended up stealing, he had this thought, he had done it, he had said something similar, he had left evidence for others, and he had harmed his wife.
The source of self-esteem, not humble, deserves!
Gu Qingyu, who was dumped, was sadly deserved
Since Shi Yuan did not pass the college entrance examination, Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan have been people of two worlds.
What Gu Qingyu has always liked is only the shi yuan in the fantasy, the two people have been separated for so long, the family background, living environment, and ideological concepts are too different, and it is difficult to be together.
But Gu Qingyu was reluctant to wake up from the dream and forcibly brought Shi Yuan into her dream.
After marriage, Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, in each other's mutual temptations, each with their own hearts and a careful and cautious life, have long been doomed to the brevity of this marriage.
Therefore, I hate Gu Qingyu more than Shi Yuan. Shi Yuan, who became an adult, was originally such a failed and wasted man, and Shi Yuan, who opened up to receive fake divorce work for money, was clear and clear, and the audience would not expect him to do anything big.
Looking at Qingyu again, the winner of life, Bai Fumei, turned out to be a good hand of cards to play sparsely, and pasted such a useless phoenix man.
Before getting married, Shi Yuan had already reported to his family that he did not want to marry him and wronged Gu Qingyu, but Gu Qingyu was hot-headed and in love, and he forcibly brought Shi Yuan into his dream.
But in this short dream, Shi Yuan was trying to change himself.
He married Gu Qingyu because he wanted to be self-motivated and live like a person, so he was not fed by the food, did not want to add benefits to this marriage, and only wanted to work hard, by working more jobs, and trying to make money to prove himself.
Even after the evil idea of stealing a plan book. He can let the bottom line in his heart overcome the evil thoughts, which is the process of struggle. Shi Yuan did it, this is his growth and transformation.
Therefore, in this short marriage, Shi Yuan loved Gu Qingyu, felt that he could not live as Qingyu wanted, and proposed a divorce, which was the last thing he could do for Qingyu, and it was also a relief.
On the other hand, Gu Qingyu has not grown, she is still the same she, and she has never changed.
She had more compassion for Shi Yuan now, standing on a high place looking at Shi Yuan and feeling that she was his bodhisattva.
Secretly watching Shi Yuan's work, watching Shi Yuan peel crabs for a group of foreign children, shi Yuan's heart aches.
What did Gu Qingyu do when he returned home, her husband's meals were all ready, and the soup was all for her husband to come.
What did the parents and wives bring to Shi Yuan? But he's been trying to be nice to them.
Shi Yuan worked so hard and struggled at the bottom, and you knew that he was not easy, and he couldn't serve a bowl of soup for him.
For this reason, I support Shi Yuan's divorce, the husband and wife are too upright, there is no such breath of life, Shi Yuan is too tired and too hard in this marriage.
Therefore, for Shi Yuan, divorce is his best ending.
He can be himself again. You can go find the neighbor Lily who is in the city with you and sloppy with you.
For Gu Qingyu, losing to a woman who sells fish is not unjust at all.
Love can transcend classes, but it is difficult to smooth them out.
After marriage, even the bowl of soup was not willing to give to her husband, and Gu Qingyu's love had always been only the white moonlight of his youth.
Before meeting Shi Yuan as an adult, she had been looking for Shi Yuan's stand-in. Through the costume modeling, let the other party be a stand-in for the white moonlight in their minds.
When he met Shi Yuan's Buddha-figure, Shi Yuan had been carefully protecting this person in order to maintain the image of the white moonlight in Gu Qingyu's heart.
So she would mind Shi Yuan doing all kinds of odd jobs, because it didn't fit the persona of White Moonlight in her mind.
To put it bluntly, Shi Yuan is also making a stand-in for Gu Qingyu when he was young, he can't be himself, in this marriage, Shi Yuan has no self.
And Lily is different, this woman who sells fish likes the most real source.
She can accept and understand Shi Yuan, who works all kinds of odd jobs for her life, and Shi Yuan can frankly play mahjong, say dirty words, and be sloppy with her is the life That Shi Yuan wants.
Lily would let Shi Yuan buy him something, and in front of LiLy, Shi Yuan was the object of admiration, worship, and dependence.
After all, the feelings of youth should still be appropriate, like is not necessarily appropriate, and finally just destroys Qingyu's youthful dreams and cuts off all the beauty in the memory.