Wen 丨 Qingxin Junyue
Ge Yue may be the most distressing character in "Heart Residence".
Her husband Gu Xin married her for the sake of his career, and he did not have half feelings for her, let alone the care and affection that he should have. Gu Xin was not only ambiguous with his ex-girlfriend Sun Qi, but later cheated on Feng Xiqian.
Mother-in-law Su Wangdi is a powerful mother-in-law with sharp teeth, who is open and sarcastic, picky and picky, and looks like her precious son has been robbed.
Father-in-law Gu Shihai is a hand-throwing treasurer, although his mouth is not poisonous, but he is neither as sensible as Gu Shihong, nor as good as Shi Yuan's father, who knows how to reconcile family conflicts, which is completely a state of watching the fire from the other side and not caring about himself.
Such a married life was completely lower than Ge Yue's initial expectations.
But the father, who gave strong support, had another accident. Without the backing of her father, Gu Xin did not have any jealousy, not only became more and more contemptuous of Ge Yue, but even during her pregnancy, what she thought was divorce, so that she could live with her ex-girlfriend.
Even so, Ge Yue still loved Gu Xin wholeheartedly, forbearingly, flattering, and seeking perfection, which became the state of her marriage throughout the entire marriage after marrying into the Gu family.
I have always believed that Gu Xin, who was cold and thin in nature and scummy to the bottom line, ruined Ge Yue's life, so that she could only "sneak her life" in a tragic marriage.
It wasn't until I read the original book that I found that it was not Gu Xin who really pushed her into the bottomless abyss, but her parents.
Carefully selected "good son-in-law"
Ge Yue is a kind and simple girl.
Her parents protected her well from an early age, never making her feel the so-called sinister heart or experiencing any setbacks.
Before marrying Gu Xin, she was almost a blank piece of paper in terms of feelings. I only kissed each other twice, and I didn't end it.
The reason for this is that on the one hand, Ge Yue is actually an extremely ordinary girl in addition to her family lineage, especially her appearance. On the other hand, there is a bureau-level father, and it is difficult to be autonomous in marriage matters.
Regarding Ge Yue's appearance and personality, there is such a plot in the original work:
When the Gu family had dinner and saw Ge Yue's photo from Gu Xin's mobile phone for the first time, except for Feng Xiaoqin, who said "very clean and beautiful", the rest of the people did not make a sound, and even the perfunctory words were omitted.
Mother-in-law Su Wangdi once commented on her like this:
"On the other hand, look at the daughter-in-law, short and thin, eyebrows are unfocused, talk like mosquitoes, but some like their own useless men, there is no way to get their hands on it."
Su Wangdi and Gu's family have all seen Gu Xin's tall "school flower" ex-girlfriend. In contrast, Ge Yue was indeed a big difference in appearance and ability.
Therefore, the family background has become the only advantage for Ge Yue to choose a mate.
However, the combination of her and Gu Xin does not exist at first sight, and there is no drama of not marrying. The reason why she married Gu Xin was entirely facilitated by Father Ge.
In the original work, Ge Yue and Gu Xin worked in the same building, although they were barely colleagues, but they had never seen each other, not to mention too deep contact.
When Gu Xin began to pursue Ge Yue frantically, she was surprised and confused. She had thought countless times about why the tall and handsome Gu Xin would pursue herself, of course, even if she was stupid, she could tell the reasons.
Therefore, for Gu Xin's courtship, Ge Yue did not agree at first, and always had concerns.
Until the father said to her:
"With such a personality as yours, if you really find a man as pure as distilled water, your mother and I are not at ease." Living a life, too vain head and empty brain can not be, too real and realistic can not work. Take ten thousand steps back, and Dad will watch for you. ”
From this passage, it can be seen that Gu Xin is the son-in-law carefully selected by Ge Father.
In the unit, no one does not know who Ge Yue's father is, and ordinary people approaching her with the purpose of "climbing high branches" are bound to be warned or stopped by Ge Yue's father. Unless it is a state of acquiescence, no one will pursue Ge Yue with great fanfare without Father Ge's consent. Even if you really like it, you have to weigh your own pounds.
Therefore, Gu Xin's pursuit of Ge Yue was tacitly approved and approved by Father Ge.
In the original work, Father Ge said to Ge Mu after Gu Xin's accident:
"I knew that this was the case now, but I might as well have looked for the fool with the surname Lu, his uncle had been promoted to mayor of the town, and his future development would not be bad."
This is enough to prove that Gu Xin is the son-in-law specially selected by Ge Father for his daughter. From appearance, to family lineage, to ability and personality, all have been considered by Ge Father.
If the door is too high, he may not be able to look up to Ge Yue, and even if he can really look at it, he will also worry about his daughter being inferior everywhere in the in-laws' house. If the door is too low, he will feel wronged by his daughter. Like Gu Xin, the family is generally poor, but both parents and family are in Shanghai, and I am young and have potential, which is the most suitable.
Just like Yue Yue's uncle's evaluation of Gu Xin in the original work:
"Gu Xin is a person who looks like a water, but the scene is thoughtful, the speech and behavior are extremely measured, quiet when it should be quiet, and open-minded when it should be lively. He thought that the old fox of the brother-in-law had chosen this son-in-law, and indeed he had his reasons. ”
In Ge Father's view, Ge Yue married Gu Xin, and he could push his son-in-law on the career path. In this way, the son-in-law and the family will definitely hold their daughters everywhere, not to worry about their future lives and Gu Xin's dare to have two hearts. After all, he had already warned Gu Xin in advance how to deal with his ex-girlfriend.
It was Ge Father's persuasion that completely dispelled Ge Yue's concerns and came together with Gu Xin.
In her opinion, her father's words must be correct. Moreover, under the courtship of Gu Xin, the "veteran of the love field", how could Ge Yue, the "little white of feelings", be overwhelmed, and it was absolutely false to be unmoved.
If Father Ge hadn't had an accident, then Ge Yue's relationship with Gu Xin might have really been as he expected.
However, he did not calculate that he had an accident shortly after Ge Yue got married. And his carefully selected good marriage for his daughter has since become the beginning of her daughter's tragic life.
How can a man who can ignore ten years of feelings in order to ascend to the throne be a good match
When Gu Xin just married Ge Yue, he had been trying to play a "good husband" and "good son-in-law", and he was basically obedient to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and he was flattered by his face, for fear of upsetting the other party. In front of his parents, he will also try his best to defend Ge Yue and speak for her.
After Ge Father's accident, his attitude came to a one-hundred-and-eighty degree reversal.
Without jealousy, without the value to be exploited, he revealed his original face.
He ignored his pregnant wife Ge Yue, even omitted perfunctory, had no respect for his mother-in-law, broke off his connection with his ex-girlfriend, and even moved his mind to divorce.
In the original work, Gu Xin once gritted his teeth and complained:
"I don't know much about it. First people were scolded to eat swan meat, and now the swan has become a duck, both ends are lost, and the face is all gone. ”
In his opinion, he is the most aggrieved person. In the face of criticism, he married a wife with ordinary looks, so that he could borrow the power of his father-in-law and go farther. However, the force did not borrow but caused a commotion.
After the evaluation title failed, Gu Xin vented all his resentment on his parents. When his mother advised him that the road ahead was still long, he said:
"You can pick anything under the sky, but your parents can't pick it." So is Ge Yue, and so am I. ”
In short, Gu Xin blamed the failure of his expectations on others, and even the parents who gave birth to him became the object of his complaints, and he did not have any problems. But the road was chosen by himself, and his wife was also pursued by himself, and he could not blame anyone else at all.
How could such a selfish and unconscionable man treat Ge Yue kindly after the loss of Ge Yue's family?
As for Father Ge, who personally chose his son-in-law, did he really not know Gu Xin's personality?
In fact, he knew.
From the beginning of acquiescing to Gu Xin's pursuit of Ge Yue, he knew that Gu Xin had a girlfriend who had been in contact for many years. And when he threw an olive branch to Gu Xin, Gu Xin did not hesitate to turn his back on his girlfriend and chose Ge Yue.
How could such a man who could do whatever it took to ascend to the throne be a good match for Ge Yue.
In the original work, Feng Xiaoqin once thought of matching her sister Feng Xixi and Gu Xin, and later dispelled her thoughts because she had met Gu Xin's ex-girlfriend. When she learned that Gu Xin had abandoned his ex-girlfriend for Ge Yue, she concluded that Gu Xin was not a good match.
Feng Xiaoqin could think of this layer, how could Ge Father, who had been in the official arena for a long time and read countless people, not think of it?
However, at that time, Ge Yue's father was too confident, he thought he could control Gu Xin, and he thought that he would always be Ge Yue's solid backing.
It was like a gamble, he bet on Gu Xin with his daughter's marriage as a bet. He thought he would win, not only to win a good home for his daughter, but also to ensure that after he retired, the Ge family would still have an advantage in the official arena.
But he lost, lost the happiness of his daughter's life. It was Father Ge who personally pushed Ge Yue into the abyss.
Ge Yue's bottomless tolerance for Gu Xin stems from his parents' "words and deeds"
Although Ge Yue had a good family background, in front of Gu Xin and Gu's family, he had always behaved very timidly, and never dared to say a "no" word. This situation was even worse after Ge Father's accident.
First, the personality itself is like this, and second, she does not have much confidence in front of Gu Xin. Part of the reason is that she really fell in love with Gu Xin, and Gu Xin didn't love her.
In the world of feelings, the loving side is always inferior to the unloving party.
Therefore, even if Gu Xin has not been good to her after marriage, even if she can only go to the maternity examination alone, even if she is repeatedly picked by her mother-in-law, she blindly endures and gives in.
In the original work, Ge Yue, who was pregnant, accidentally burned her arm, and on the way to buy burn cream, she accidentally saw Gu Xin sitting in a café chatting with her ex-girlfriend.
At that moment, Ge Yue also seemed to leave, as if he had done something wrong. She then sent a message to Gu Xin asking him what he was doing, and Gu Xin lied that he was at work.
In the face of Gu Xin's deception, she didn't even have the courage to get angry, but instead stared at the mobile phone screen and thought:
"If the man adds something like' to the end, such as 'What did you eat for lunch' and 'how did your body feel' – she forgave him."
After waiting for a few minutes without any movement. Ge Yue sighed again, "How about forgiveness, how about not forgiving." ”
For a long time after that, Ge Yue pretended that nothing had happened, and the relationship between the two had always been like a stranger living under one roof. In the original book, it is written:
"Before, it was also light, but it was light, eating lightly, unlike now, it is really "light" from the inside, so light that it makes people cold. He never argued with her, and he didn't support or object to what she said, just as if there wasn't this person. Even the perfunctory process is omitted. He made a fool of her. If she is really a fool, she is not stupid to go home. It's even harder. ”
For Ge Yue, even if she was wronged and uncomfortable, she never thought of leaving Gu Xin, and what she thought about was still living a good life with Gu Xin.
Even when he first discovered that Gu Xin and Feng Xiqian had an ambiguous relationship, Ge Yue did not question a word, but instead bought a new dress in order to please Gu Xin and sang Yue opera to Gu Xin.
The reason why Ge Yue was able to tolerate Gu Xin's actions without a bottom line was to a large extent influenced by his parents.
Father Ge in the original book has cheated more than once. In her memory, her mother often guarded against the woman outside her father, and sat down many times. But even so, mothers and fathers rarely quarreled about it, let alone divorced.
In Ge Yue's heart, his father's repeated cheating on his mother could tolerate it. Then, Gu Xin is ambiguous outside, and there is nothing she can't stand, after all, she didn't "catch the adulteress in bed" .
From this point of view, Ge Yue's parents made a very bad "example" for her. Let her mistakenly think that it is normal for men to steal, and women can only choose to suffer in silence.
Until the end, Gu Xin had an accident and went to prison (for Feng Xixi), Ge Yue, who had become a mother of two children, in order to help Gu Xin, was ready to betray hue and go to ask for help from Xiao Lu, whose uncle had been promoted to mayor of the town...
Looking at the original work, you will find that if it were not for ge's father's persuasion and persistence, Ge Yue would not have let go of his worries and been with Gu Xin; if it were not for her mother's bottomless tolerance for her father's cheating, Ge Yue would not have insisted hard in the unfortunate marriage, completely lost herself, and did not have the courage to restart her life.
Gu Xin's scum and coolness are outrageous, but it is her parents who really push Ge Yue to this man. How sad.
Qingxin Junyue, an emotional observer, ta said book critic, film critic. Warm you, me with words.