The preference for sons over daughters is a focal point that the mainland has been talking about since ancient times. This is a concept that people blindly adhere to in their hearts under the influence of the feudal tradition of the mainland. Although people's minds have become more and more open, many women are still victims of patriarchalism.
Aunt Feng and her wife gave birth to a son, a daughter and two children. In the process of raising two children, because Aunt Feng and his wife are planning to "raise children and prevent aging", the two of them have a special love for their son, and they are very indifferent to their daughter.
In normal times, no matter what the son wants, even if the family conditions are not good, Aunt Feng and his wife will try their best to meet the requirements of their son. In contrast, the daughter even had to think about the money to buy the homework book for a long time and was scolded by Aunt Feng to get it.
Today, the daughter and son have grown up. Although the son has reached the age of thirty, he has nothing to do all day, eating, drinking and having fun on the street, and when he has no money, he goes home to find Aunt Feng and his wife.
Although the daughter married early, she and her husband are diligent people, so with a certain amount of savings in hand, they bought a house in the city, away from the original family that made her childhood full of sadness.
However, the world is uncertain, Aunt Feng's wife suddenly fell ill some time ago, and she urgently needed money for surgery. But all their money was taken by their son, and he was really poor in his hands.
To this end, Aunt Feng found her daughter and hoped that her daughter could help. At the moment when her daughter was thinking about it, Aunt Feng suddenly knelt down and begged her daughter to sell the house they had just bought in the city to save her father.
Aunt Feng's behavior surprised her daughter, but then her daughter changed her look and angrily said, "Why don't you let your son sell the house?" Growing up I was suffering, he was enjoying himself, and now it's time for him to do it. The daughter's words made Aunt Feng suddenly freeze, and she could not speak.
In fact, there are many patriarchal families in life who ignore their daughters' desire for parental love in the process of raising children.
So, what impact does a parent's preference for sons affect their children?
1, let the daughter become rebellious
Because their parents prefer sons to daughters, they are always very cold to their daughters. And it is this indifference of parents that will make the daughter's heart full of incomprehension and even resentment towards her parents. In the long run, the daughter is likely to become rebellious because of this. They go on a rampage with their parents as a way to express their inner dissatisfaction.
2. Affect the development of the daughter
Because of the preference for sons and daughters, parents will attach great importance to their children's learning. In contrast, many daughters drop out of school or even go out to work at a young age because of their parents' requirements. Even if the daughter's grades are good, they cannot continue their studies, which affects the development of many girls.
3, let the daughter's family concept is weak
Daughters have long lived in patriarchal families, and they have never received the attention of their parents. So they don't have a definite idea of their parents or their families. When parents are old, neglected daughters are often unable to let go of everything to selflessly take care of their parents.
4. Affect the relationship between parents and children
Many parents prefer sons to daughters, not knowing that doing so will make their sons also have a contemptuous view of their daughters. In this way, there will be a hostile tension between sons and daughters, and even when they grow up, their relationship will be difficult to ease. The parent-child relationship between parents and daughters will be affected.
Sons and daughters are the blood of their parents, and they are also the crystallization of their parents' love. If parents have an unequal attitude toward their children, then sons and daughters cannot be completely filial to the elderly. Therefore, parents should abandon the idea of preferring sons to daughters and treat their children equally. What do you think about son preference? Welcome to discuss!
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning: If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
Colleagues show this book to children, usually children also tutor mathematics, sometimes feel that cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also use what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!