Have you noticed that having a girl has become the happiest thing in many families?
One thing that happened to me was that my cousin Yan Yan had recently had a conflict with a friend. Originally, Yan Yan and Sweet were a pair of girlfriends. They were both mothers of two, married almost together, and the two children were about the same age. The only difference is that the children's gender is a bit off.
Sweet Dabao gave birth to a son, Yan Yan gave birth to a daughter, and the two often played with their children. Five years later, both of them gave birth to a second child, Yan yan gave birth to another daughter, and a few months later, Tiantian gave birth to another son. The two children are about the same age and often get together to play.
The moms have a good relationship and the kids have a good time together. Some people joked: "In the future, you can change from girlfriends directly to relatives." ”
Sweetie was very happy to hear it, who knew that the girlfriend's face immediately turned cold, she said: "In the future, my daughter will never marry the family of two sons, and suffer more sins." ”
Tiantian is not happy, should she be discriminated against if she has two sons? She felt that since she had given birth to two sons, her girlfriends had always consciously or unconsciously showed off that she had two daughters, and often worried about her: "You have two sons, you have to buy two houses in the future, and you want to marry them a daughter-in-law. "Even when I usually go shopping, my girlfriend doesn't call her together."
Not only in reality, but even on the Internet, there are many such cases. The family members waiting outside the delivery room were elated when they learned that they had given birth to a daughter, and those who gave birth to a son were discouraged.
Having a son is terrible, and if you have two sons, it would be very unfortunate. When, the status of "son" has been so low, it is really incredible.
"Having a child is guilty" is caused by the fact that there are more men and fewer women, and it is difficult for sons to find a partner
Why didn't the son eat well, because everyone's eyes were shining. We can see that many parents who have given birth to sons have worked hard all their lives to earn money, and finally used them to buy houses, cars, bride price gifts for their sons, and some will be in debt.
One son works hard all his life, and many ordinary families with two sons cannot afford it. It is difficult for sons to find a partner, parents who raise sons need to pay more hardships, and giving birth to a son is not only not popular, but also labeled as "burdensome".
Having sons is no longer popular because of the rise of women's social status
Previously, if a family did not have sons, they would be looked down upon. Because, the family business needs the son to inherit and carry forward, and the parents' pension also needs the son to bear. Now, sons are not so important in many families, because daughters can also be very good.
There are many women who have achieved great results in many fields and can be worthy of great responsibilities. In terms of parents' pension, because women's personality characteristics are more careful, good at taking care of their parents more thoughtfully, so daughters pension, happier in their later years is also the idea of many parents.
Son preference, preference for women over men, is a kind of harm to children
Some people prefer sons to daughters, and some people are willing to be daughter slaves, if you have only one child, pay attention to the child's education, care about the child's life is the right thing to do. However, whether it is a son or a daughter doting is a harm to the child, it is easy to let the child's personality growth, living habits, learning ability and many other aspects be affected. However, if parents have sons and daughters, then the preference for sons and daughters will bring the same harm to children.
The concept of equality between men and women should be cultivated by parents from the time their children are young.
The concept of equality between men and women in a child is very important for his own growth and development. If there are sons and daughters in the family, it will have an impact on the harmony and happiness of the family and the unity of the children, and the parents' future pension will be affected.
Equality between men and women should be achieved between parents.
Fathers and mothers want someone to earn money to support the family, and someone to take care of the children and do housework. The distribution of these tasks should be as equal as possible between men and women, and the influence of parents' family status on children is very large. If parents achieve democratic and equal family relations, the concept of equality between men and women will take root in the hearts of children.
Equality between men and women between children.
Parents for their children, to achieve equality between men and women, regardless of the child's gender, age, can try to look at them fairly, so that children feel the care and love of their parents at the same time, for the child's character growth, habit formation are good.
Boys and girls are just as good, as long as the children are cultivated into talents, the parents' lives are happy.