1. Harry Today: Go Ahead!
September 23, 2019 was undoubtedly a great challenge and transformation for Harry. On major social media platforms, he published articles with great courage to declare to the world: "I, Harry, am a gay man".
This brave and candid statement has accompanied him through countless days and nights, and has also allowed him to find his place in this world.
"I'm gay, and I'm incredibly proud and proud of that. Harry wrote in the article, his tone full of determination and strength. As the son of famous Taiwanese singer Yu Chengqing and actor Yi Nengjing, Harry has been in the spotlight since he was a child because of his parents' popularity.
However, this brave act of coming out has undoubtedly aroused widespread attention from all walks of life again.
There was a flood of comments on the internet, and people had different opinions on Harry's choice. Some admired his courage, others doubted whether he was hype. In the face of these doubts, Harry did not make any response, he just hoped that in this way, more people could understand the rights and interests of sexual minorities and eliminate the misunderstanding and prejudice of the public.
Since then, Harry has been sharing his life on social media. He was dressed more and more femininely, with long flowing hair, sometimes carefully groomed into a delicate hairstyle, sometimes casually tied back at the back of his head.
In the choice of clothing, he unabashedly wore skirts, with popular permed hair colors and delicate makeup, showing his unique fashion taste.
All of this shows that Harry has completely broken free from the shackles of traditional gender concepts and bravely revealed his true self in his heart. While his actions may be seen as "bold" or even "deviant" to outsiders, Harry doesn't seem to care about the stares and comments of others, and only wants to live the truest and freest life.
Second, the haze of parents' divorce
Looking back at Harry's upbringing, his parents' divorce left a deep imprint on him. When he was seven years old, the news of Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing's announcement of their divorce spread throughout the entertainment industry, and Harry fell into unprecedented confusion and helplessness.
Perhaps at that age, Harry didn't fully understand the impact of his parents' divorce. However, as a child, he clearly felt that the warmth of family was gradually dissipating.
His parents, who once held him in the palm of their hands, began to devote more energy to their new love lives.
At a young age, Harry became a spectator in the new family his parents had rebuilt. He is often isolated, his eyes full of loss and confusion, or inadvertently revealing a deep sense of confusion and dissatisfaction.
For Harry, who was still immature, witnessing the breakdown of his parents' relationship was undoubtedly a heavy blow. He began to question the true meaning of family affection, and developed a new understanding and awareness of "home" and love.
Home, which is supposed to be a symbol of warmth and happiness, has become so far away after the divorce of my parents. Harry, who once had a full family, had to face the reorganization of his parents' new family, which was undoubtedly a difficult challenge for him.
In the process, he often felt that he was forgotten and neglected by his parents. Sometimes, he even wonders if he would have been able to avoid all these troubles and pains if his parents had not divorced and the family had remained the same.
The impact of a parent's divorce on a child is immeasurable, and Harry is not immune. Over time, he gradually developed an independent character, tightly sealing off his lonely inner world and rarely opening up to others.
3. Study in the United States and seek opportunities for change
Leaving his familiar homeland to study in a foreign country may give Harry a new direction and hope in life. When he turned eighteen years old, he finally realized his dream and was successfully admitted to a well-known design school in the United States for in-depth study.
Here, Harry was finally able to break free from the shackles of his family and bravely become himself. The free and open atmosphere of the university campus inspired him to experiment with different styles of clothing, fully demonstrating his love of fashion and unique talent.
Sometimes she is dressed in a sleek short-haired suit with steady and elegant steps, and sometimes she is transformed into a woman with a long skirt and a shawl with long hair, showing charm and gentleness in her gestures.
Harry exudes confidence and energy that makes it difficult to associate him with the introverted and shy teenager he used to be.
Although the students were a little surprised by Harry's "refreshed" image, everyone has the right to choose to be their truest version of themselves on this campus that celebrates individuality. They quickly got used to and embraced Harry's unusual dress and lifestyle.
Perhaps it was in this open, diverse, and inclusive environment that Harry finally realized that his views on gender identity were at odds with traditional ideas from an early age.
He began to break free and bravely explore every possible way of life.
In the free and open land of the United States, Harry, who was originally introverted and shy, finally regained his courage and enthusiasm for life. He is firmly determined to justify his sexuality and lifestyle, and no longer needs to hide or disguise his true self.
Harry chose his favorite major in fashion design, and continued to experiment with new and unique styles throughout his time at school. Judging from his past relationship with his mother, his previous sexual orientation was not abnormal, and he even had several girlfriends.
Therefore, the "transformation" he experienced in the United States is likely to be closely related to the learning environment in which he lived and the free and open campus atmosphere.
Fourth, the wholehearted support of her mother Yi Nengjing
Although Harry has not yet disclosed his sexuality to the public, his mother, Yi Nengjing, has long recognized that her son is unique in this regard. As an enlightened mother, she did not intervene or blame excessively, but chose to care for this "special" child in a tolerant and supportive manner.
At all stages of Harry's growth, Yi Nengjing always paid attention to his mental state and provided the right guidance at the right time. She knows that building a sense of identity is a long and challenging journey for every child, and it requires the patience and care of their parents.
Once, Harry was bullied and ostracized by his classmates at school, and he was depressed and depressed all day long. Yi Nengjing took her son home without hesitation, and comforted her with gentle words: "The world needs time to understand and accept different people, and you have done nothing wrong.
Mother's heartfelt words poured into the coldest corners of Harry's heart like a warm current. He was moved to tears, and poured out his truest feelings to Yi Nengjing for the first time.
In such an atmosphere of tolerance and deep understanding, Harry gradually broke free from his psychological defenses and learned to accept and fall in love with the unique and "unusual" part of himself.
He has gone from avoiding talking about sexuality to gradually mastering the art of being open to what he really feels inside.
What Yi Nengjing has done undoubtedly shows her deep care and understanding for her son. She sent a message to Harry that no matter what lifestyle he chooses in the future, she will be unreservedly supportive and tolerant.
It was thanks to his mother's strong backing that Harry was able to gradually muster up the courage to show his true self. He began to share his life on major social platforms, and his dress became more and more feminine, making no secret of his inner sexuality.
When Harry finally decided to come out publicly, Yi Nengjing immediately expressed her unwavering support for her son through social media. Mother's love is the most selfless and broad love in the world.
Yi Nengjing interprets the true meaning of this love in her own way, and at the same time illuminates the road ahead for her son, bringing hope and light to life.
Fifth, the understanding and support of his father Yu Chengqing
Compared with his mother Yi Nengjing, Yu Chengqing also experienced some inner struggle and confusion when he first learned about his son's sexual orientation.
As a father in the traditional sense, he instinctively hopes that his son can live the life of an "ordinary person", which is a deep-seated expectation in his heart. However, his son's "difference" made him feel at a loss, and he didn't know how to deal with it.
However, after a period of in-depth thinking, Yu Chengqing realized that as a father, it is crucial to give his son understanding and support. He understands that the support of his family is important for a growing child.
If there is a lack of understanding and love from the family, then the child is likely to fall into negative emotions such as self-doubt, low self-esteem, loneliness, etc., and then go astray. In order to prevent Harry from having such thoughts, Yu Chengqing resolutely put aside his prejudices and chose to fully accept his son's sexual orientation.
When Harry came out publicly on social media, Yu Chengqing immediately published an article openly expressing his full support for his son. "Loving someone, it has nothing to do with the person's orientation, no matter what, I will always love my son.
Yu Chengqing wrote this passage affectionately.
As a father, Yu Chengqing has really gone through a process of gradual comprehension from doubt. However, it was because of that precious time that he was finally able to put aside his prejudices and truly accept and fully support Harry's decision!
A person's sexual orientation can never define his moral character, which Yu Chengqing has a deep understanding. He hopes to guide more people to learn to look at the "differences" in daily life with an open and broad mind.
The support of our family is undoubtedly the most solid and reliable pillar of our growth journey. With the meticulous understanding and tolerance of his parents, Harry had the confidence to stride forward and move forward firmly in the face of public doubts.
Despite the pressure of public controversy, Harry was hesitant and even reluctant on several occasions. However, at every critical moment, he always recalls the deep love and encouragement from his parents, and absorbs the courage and strength from the depths of his heart.
It was thanks to the unwavering support and affirmation of his parents that Harry was able to remain calm and courageously move forward on his own path in life after publicly announcing his sexuality.