The correct three views and positive attitude can make a person become sunny and positive, and life will go to the right way. Every parent hopes that their children can become dragons and phoenixes, how to cultivate children with strong hearts and sunshine? I think the following points should be done.
1. Let children learn to be independent
As children grow, they all need a sense of security, and this sense of security requires that they have an independent space and can think quietly alone when they have ideas. This requires parents not to care about everything and dare not let go. Letting children be independent is not to let go, but to give full trust and guidance, so that children have a sense of security and have their own space.
2. Enable children to face setbacks and rejections correctly
Don't follow the child in everything, give it a proper refusal, properly let the child face difficulties and setbacks alone, and let the child gradually learn to face setbacks and solve problems. Teach children to face difficulties bravely and firmly believe that they will be able to overcome difficulties. Tempered in the face of repeated setbacks and problems, children will build the ability to solve difficulties on their own and strengthen their self-confidence.
3. Be sure to insist on participating in physical exercise
Sports is an effective means for children to strengthen their physique and exercise their will, so that specializing in learning a sport will help children throughout their lives. In sports, children can establish a sense of teamwork, can establish rules in the rules of the game, can learn how to win in competition, and at the same time learn how to "lose" with dignity and dignity.
4. Communicate with children diligently
Parents come from the age of the child, to a certain age, because of the reason of estrangement, the child does not want to communicate with the parents, but likes to communicate with their peers. At this time, parents should pay attention to the dynamics of their children, communicate with their children frequently, and understand their psychological ideas so as not to go astray. At the same time, parents should guide their children to establish the correct three views.