Pity the hearts of parents in the world. Parents all hope that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes, which is the common sentiment of people and is beyond reproach. Excellent children are loved by everyone, and parents feel decent and proud. In front of children, I think parents must have a good attitude.
In the face of the child's success and failure, we must encourage, guide, and inspire positively, and do not hit the child when he is lost, laugh at him, hurt him, or dislike him, which can only push him to destruction. It is necessary to encourage enlightened children to establish a correct outlook on life, values and worldview. Three hundred and sixty lines, lines out of the yuan.
After spending millions of dollars on tutoring, I finally accepted the mediocrity of my children
My child has not been smart since he was a child, in order to give him a make-up lesson, I found famous teachers in the city, and also sent to study at a summer camp abroad, spent hundreds of tutoring fees for more than ten years, and then the child was finally admitted to only two universities, which made me very disappointed.
But I now accept that fact. There are thousands of paths to success, depending on how he chooses the path that suits him best. My point of view is that parents should communicate with their children more, listen to their children's opinions and ideas, as long as the child can support himself, do not expect the child to become a phoenix, but hope that he will not add chaos to you and break the law. Emphasize the normal heart, the child is happy, sensible, and healthy is very good. There will be no great disappointment without hope.
The arrival of the child is not to pin your hopes, but the happiness and happiness he obtains when he comes is the most important, he is unhappy and disappointed, so why have a child.
Although I don't have children, I feel that every time I eat with my parents and frolic together, many times I am happy and happy, they watch me grow up, and I grow old with them, which is also a happy thing.
To explore children's interests, parents should guide their children to contact different things, there will always be children like. Parents should observe the advantages of their children, and no one will be useless. Children are very smart in the eyes of their parents, but later they will find that their children are not as smart as they think, and they have not grown up according to their expectations.
So it will be more and more disappointed. First of all, we must correct our mentality, do not have too high expectations, what is the dragon and phoenix, the most important thing is that the child must have a happy childhood. What your child likes and what kind of person your child wants to be, not what kind of person you want your child to be. If your child's ideas are not excessive, let him boldly do it, so that you will have a lot easier. Need to confirm what kind of mediocrity you call mediocrity, learning in general?
Work is generally or what, everyone must have their own advantages and disadvantages, do your expectations of children meet the child's own strengths? If you are a good learner, you insist that he have something to do in sports, and Luo Ji's thinking is good, but you want him to focus on words, which is inappropriate.
Secondly, I have to say that we have spent a lot of effort and sweat, in fact, we have lived an ordinary life, which is the vast majority of the situation. The leaders of the industry are very few people.
Millions of tutoring fees, and finally only went to a second university, I regret letting my child "numb" to learning
Not everyone can become a general, and being a good soldier is also a thing worthy of recognition. The child's mediocrity is not the child's own fault, parents also have problems, parents want to let the child highlight what aspects, combined with the child's own interests, and arrange for the child to further learn?
Everyone is unique. Accept the mediocrity of children, because we are also ordinary people. Peace and health are also blessings. Everyone has his own reason. Naturally, maybe he has a lot of other talents, such as being polite, caring, loving, and so on.
Parents all over the world may like you to want their children to have a better future, which is very understanding. I hope that the children will go well on the road of life in the future, but this road is ultimately their own, we just need to grasp the general direction is not wrong, on the formal road can be, I hope he can have a tenacious spirit, the future will definitely encounter setbacks.
And this tenacious heart can help him face setbacks, have a healthy physique, face the future environment, and have an optimistic mindset, even if it is a bad thing, he can find the good side. Have a certain learning ability and can gradually improve themselves.