Every child is a seed, and I would like to be the sunshine and give them warmth; I would like to be the rain and dew to give them moisture; I would like to be the soil and give them vitality.
As the saying goes, "if the youth is strong, the country is strong", cultivating an excellent child is the dream of countless parents.
Parents in the world all hope to be able to hope that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes, but not everyone can become dragons and phoenixes.
If they cannot be able to have both moral integrity and ability, then they must also cultivate morality, which is also the foundation of education in our country, and the cultivation of moral education is the creed that all colleges and universities abide by.
Therefore, it is very important to cultivate a grateful heart for children from an early age, and children who know how to be grateful will generally not be too bad in moral character, at least they will live a safe life.
Recently, a driver in Shanxi was driving a night car, and he happened to encounter a mother and daughter walking in front, the sky was dark, and the driver wanted to take them for a ride but was refused.
However, the incident did not end there, and the driver slowly followed in the car behind them in order to illuminate the way home for their mother and daughter.
I saw the little girl following behind her mother, and suddenly the little girl stopped and turned, bowed deeply to the driver, and then continued to move forward.
The accompanying driver was particularly touched to see it, and planned to send their mother and daughter home all the time, who expected the little girl to stop again without going far, and bowed to the driver again.
The driver did not understand what was going on, only to see that when the little girl stopped and turned and bowed, the little girl's mother did not continue to move forward, but stopped and turned to look at her.
At a distance of less than a kilometer, the little girl turned around six times in a row to bow to the driver, who was completely touched by her.
After they arrived home, the little girl still obediently stood at the intersection and waved goodbye to the driver, and the child's mother also said thank you to the driver, it was you who illuminated the way home for our mother and daughter.
Seeing the girl's mother say that, the driver felt a little embarrassed, and said to her that I should thank you, you let me see the difference in life, you are very successful in educating children.
According to the driver: It was more than nine o'clock in the evening, and I was driving just past where I was going home, and I saw their mother and daughter walking in front, probably because it was too dark, and they did not ride.
I saw that the weather was also quite cold, so I got out of the car to ask if I needed to take them for a ride, and the little girl was the first to say that my uncle didn't need it, and our home was not far away.
To tell you the truth, when the little girl said such a sentence, my heart was deeply touched, and she looked like she was only seven or eight years old, but she was very sensible!
I drove behind, and the little girl and her mother didn't get far before she turned and bowed to me, and in one bowing motion she did six times in a row.
I wanted to take a video and record it, take it home and show it to my son, sometimes there is really no comparison and no gap.
My 11-year-old son, compared to this little girl, is really naughty, and he will only grab his parents' mobile phones to play games every day.
When you go out shopping and see anything, you must buy it, and if you don't agree to it, you will make trouble there, which is a stark contrast to this little girl.
Shooting this video, mainly to let my son see how to be a grateful person, rather than just unreasonable trouble, I hope he can get a little inspiration after watching the video!
In fact, there are many such well-behaved children, but they have not yet been discovered, and such positive energy videos should also be disseminated, so that more parents and children can see.
In a person's life, no matter how much achievement there is, if it fails in education, then other successes are not real successes.
As the saying goes, "education is the greatest success in life", what can be more important than raising a child, and the child will naturally live comfortably in his old age.
Some netizens said: Give this kind driver and this well-behaved little girl a thumbs up, they are all good, and her family education is also very successful.
So how do parents educate their children?
Cultivate a grateful heart
Many parents and children have a little bad habit, they will not rush to correct, always feel that the child is still young, they will naturally understand when they grow up, do not know that education needs to be grasped from an early age, it is urgent to cultivate a grateful heart for children, otherwise it will make the child always know only to take, and psychologically become more and more selfish.
2. Know good and evil, and know right from wrong
Children only have a grateful heart is not enough, they also need to have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, may be young when they do not understand right and wrong, they need parents to correct and carefully guide, long-term naturally in their hearts will shape a standard, let them know what to do and what not to do.
brief summary:
Education is the future of a country, whether it is a school or parents should pay attention to, in recent years, our country is also vigorously improving educational facilities, to create a good teaching environment for students and teachers, so parents and friends can not be left behind, let the school and parents and friends work together to cultivate excellent children!
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