Looking back at history, in fact, in the traditional culture accumulated by us for five thousand years, the wise ancestors explained the matter of family education clearly, but those ancient precepts were gradually forgotten in the change of history.
What are "seven no responsibilities" and "five no complaints"? Review the teachings of our ancestors and inherit excellent culture, let's take a look at the educational wisdom handed down from the ancient Chinese precepts
01
Not responsible for the crowd
In public, do not rebuke the child, but give the child dignity in front of everyone. Children who are often blamed in the public eye not only cannot reflect on their mistakes, but their personalities are also prone to becoming timid and cowardly, lack of trust in people, and have inferiority or excessive self-esteem.
02
Remorse and irresponsibility
If the child is already ashamed and regrets his mistake, the adult should not blame the child.
The purpose of criticism is to hope that children can reflect on mistakes, excessive accusations will make it difficult for children to forgive themselves, and if it is serious, the child's personality will become heavy and the ability to resist setbacks will be weakened.
03
Twilight is not responsible
Don't blame your child before going to bed at night. At this time, he was blamed, and the child went to bed with a depressed and lost mood, either not sleeping at night or having nightmares.
The quality of sleep directly affects the child's physical health and mental state, which will be harmful to the body and mind in the long run.
04
Diet is not responsible
Don't blame your child while you're eating. At this time, blaming the child can easily lead to the child's spleen and stomach weakness.
05
Rejoice
Don't blame your child when he's particularly happy. When people are happy, the meridians are in a unimpeded state, and if the child is suddenly reprimanded, the meridians will immediately hold back, which will cause great harm to the child's body.
06
Sorrow is not responsible
Don't blame your child when he cries. When people are sad and crying, their physical energy is extremely low, and they need to vent, and it is foolish to criticize him at this moment.
07
Illness is not responsible
Don't blame your child when he's sick. Illness is the most vulnerable time for the human body, and children need the love and warmth of their parents more, which is more effective than any drug.
Don't complain about parental incompetence
There are high and low trees, everything in the world is uneven, there is more than the top, there is more than the bottom, no one is omnipotent, parents have given us life, and it is not easy to raise us to adulthood.
Relative to many people, it is already the biggest effort. Instead of complaining about the parents not being able to give themselves the home and platform they expected, it is better to make an effort to create it yourself.
Don't complain about parents being wordy
The communication between the two generations will inevitably have a generation gap, and the chatter of parents is to hope to use their own experience to give you care and help, to tell us to dress, eat, and be safe, only those who truly love you will go to you, and parents will never go to a person who has nothing to do with them.
Don't complain about parents complaining
Parents complain about us, just not satisfied with what we are now. When we do well enough, they crave us better!
They are not for themselves, maybe they have a lot of dissatisfaction in life, maybe they are very hard at work, but they can't talk to anyone, so they want us to be better.
Even if we don't hope to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix, our parents still hope that we will be blue and not like them.
Don't complain about parental slowness
When we are older, we have limited mobility, and we should never abandon our parents for being slow to move, because we can never imagine how patiently they taught us to walk when we were young.
When my parents were younger, they were probably more spirited than we were! It was for us that my parents were tired and bent over.
If one day, the parents have become old, the legs and feet can not be roped, we must remember: to see the parents is to see their own future, filial piety must be timely.
Don't complain about parents getting sick
No matter how busy our parents are, no matter day or night, rain or wind, as soon as we are sick, they will immediately put down everything they are busy with, rush to see us, and love us all night.
But how much can we do when parents are sick? There are often news in society that children do not support the elderly, which really confirms the saying that there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time. I hope that we can all become people who take care of our parents with responsibility and filial piety.
"Seven no responsibilities" for children, "five no complaints" for parents. The seemingly simple ancient admonition contains profound truths, I don't know if it inspires you? Welcome to leave a message to share~
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