Everyone craves friends for themselves, and so do children. When the child sees the children playing, but does not know how to join, then we adults need to guide her and help them make friends with their favorite children.
1. Encourage your child to learn to be brave
Introverted children, to the unfamiliar environment will be slower and hotter, want children to quickly integrate into the environment, teachers and parents should guide such children to bravely greet children, when nervous can smile more, so that people will look more friendly, but also improve their confidence.
When we want to play with our friends, we have to politely say, "Can I play together?" Shall we play together? "I want to join you, okay?"
2. Encourage children to learn to be humble
Some children's personality is more domineering, love to grab children's toys, teachers and parents should guide such children to learn to be humble and share, so that he understands that only by learning to be humble and understanding unity, children are willing to play games with him.
3. Encourage your child to learn to communicate
When children have conflicts, teachers and parents should encourage children to communicate with children in language, solve problems independently, and enhance friendship between friends. If you make your friend angry and apologize, you can continue to be a friend "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said that about you!" "I'm kidding you, I'm sorry, I'll never do that again..." "Please forgive me, will we still be friends in the future?" "I'm sorry, please accept my apology!"
4. Encourage your child to distinguish between right and wrong
"Near Zhu is close to the ink black" is a lot of parents worried about the problems encountered by their children in the process of making friends, teachers and parents should establish a good view of friendship in the usual education, what kind of friends we can make more, what kind of friends we can't make.
5. Encourage your child to learn to be strong
Many one-child families, because of the pampering from childhood, especially girls may be more squeamish, at this time parents should encourage children to be strong, sometimes the friction and collision between children, to tell children that everyone is not intentional, although it will hurt but to be strong and other words, I believe that under our encouragement children will grow up faster.
6. It is important to encourage your child to be themselves
Every child has their own independent personality, always have a strange idea, in the absence of friendship, adults should establish a correct view of friendship, guide them not to pander to others and pretend to make their own favorite looks, just to gain the favor of others, to understand the fragrance of flowers has its own butterfly reason.
We want to tell the child: "When making friends, the best way is to take the initiative yourself to explain that you want to make friends with him, rather than waiting for others to come closer to you." "Teach children to be honest with anyone and to help others as appropriately as they can. You must have a pair of eyes and understand what kind of people are worthy of deep friendship. At the same time, we must remember: do not do to others what you do not want.