Parents should be patient, correct the bad habits of procrastination of children, and do not rush. Focus on cultivating children's learning habits so that they can make better use of their time.
A trick to deal with children's procrastination, parents can try to do this:
First move: one-minute special training
(1) Cultivate children's ability to focus on problem solving. Depending on your child's current level, prepare a few simple questions in advance and specify to complete them within a minute. Let your child know that he can complete more than ten questions in a minute and think about why he has only completed so few problems before.
(2) Practice Chinese characters for one minute. Look for strokes that are appropriate for your child, words that are difficult to write, observe that children can write up to a few words a minute, and understand their growth through comparison.
(3) Practice one-minute digital writing. My kid was writing very slowly and badly, and the math teacher asked him to practice a minute of "0123456789" every day to see if he could write a few words a minute, while he could only write five words a minute, and now he could write nine words, and the words were more beautiful.
The above training can let children understand how precious a minute of time is. At the same time, it can also speed up the efficiency of children's work. In training, once a day, slowly increasing to three to five times a day. Each time, record your child's scores and make a comparison.
The second tip: don't keep urging, keep praising
Most parents will yell at their children when they are rubbing, but it has no effect, which will only make the children more angry. In fact, you can also try to do the opposite, for example, you can give your child some simple questions, and when they are done quickly, the parents will exclaim: "How can you be so fast?" ”
In short, it looks very exaggerated, and then pay attention to the child's performance, and praise the things that are completed quickly in time. Be careful not to say, "Now you're dressing faster!" If you can finish eating quickly, it is better", don't say the shortcomings when praising, praise can stimulate the joy in the child's heart.
Trick three: Let the kids allocate the time saved by themselves
Many parents will assign extra homework to their children, and after completing the school homework, they also have to complete the English reading tasks assigned by their parents, and after completing the English, they also have to do some math problems.
Parents assign a lot of homework to their children, and they gradually find that they will be assigned learning tasks by their parents as soon as they have time. So, he decided to slow himself down in order to procrastinate more without extra homework.
Response:
Based on your child's current abilities, estimate the time it will take to do your homework and leave it to him for homework outside of class. It takes about an hour and a half, and if you can do it on time, you can play by yourself at other times, such as playing with your favorite things and doing some sports. Once in this habit, children can quickly complete their homework in their own time.
Fourth tip: Develop good habits
So start with your daily life, let him have a plan, let him know what to do. One mother said she was annoyed that her daughter had gotten up in the morning and had been dressed for ten minutes and hadn't finished it yet.
Response:
Make games to make your child finish faster, like playing with parents and wearing socks. First teach the child how to quickly put on the socks, practice hand in hand, and then slow down the movement slightly in the game to make him feel that he has a chance to win, or deliberately let him win, so that he feels that he can quickly put on the socks. Let children complete faster and better, let them learn quickly.
If a child completes his homework within the specified time, give him a ""★," ★ "Enough to fulfill one of the child's wishes."
Fifth tip: can not complete the task within the specified time, as soon as the time comes to stop.
Some students do their homework at night and go to bed late, resulting in them not having energy in class and reducing their academic performance. This creates a vicious circle, so it's best to give your child a time to complete the task.
To ensure the child's sleep, parents ask them to go to bed at nine o'clock, and at nine o'clock, even if the child is not done, go to bed.
Because he did not finish his homework, the teacher would scold him, so he would slowly improve. This is a very powerful method, parents should decide how long their children sleep according to the amount of homework they have.
In short, parents should have the patience to correct the bad habits of procrastination of children, and do not be too anxious. Focus on cultivating children's learning habits and teaching them to make better use of their time.