Sister is the sixth grade homeroom teacher, the other day she complained about a boy in their class, this child has a particularly poor concentration, does not follow the rules, often the class bell rings and does not enter the classroom, but also impolite to the teacher, the sister said that she corrected the child's behavior but there is no effect, she asked the child's parents, the child's parents said that the child followed the grandparents when he was a child, they ignored the child's education to lead to the current situation.
There are boys who spend more time in the family, boys are more mischievous when they are young, the speed of psychological development is also slower than that of girls, from the musical point of view, the baby is just born when there is no self-awareness, until nine months of self-awareness is slowly emerging, 9 months to 6 years old is also the baby's self-awareness development of the key period, parents must seize this period to guide the child, cultivate the child's psychology and personality.
Families with boys should teach him "4 abilities", no later than six years old
1. The child's ability to live independently and autonomously
Chen Zhiyan, a professor at the Institute of Psychology of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, said that Ma bao's personality characteristics can be found in the cause of children's growth
Some parents love their children, especially some grandparents are especially fond of their children, almost responsive, help their children do some things every day, let the children "clothes to reach out, food to open their mouths", my friend's children are like this, they are nine years old and will not wear shoes themselves, every day is a friend to help him wear, his school bag will not be packed, it is completely a "mother's treasure".
"Ma Bao" is not good for children, children will not do anything, feel that the mother to take care of themselves should be, to a certain age, children do not have the ability to take care of the entire family to drag the family to find parents as rice worms, parents must cultivate the ability of children to live independently from an early age, you can let the children do some things on their own, do not do everything for the child.
Second, the child's concentration
Concentration is part of the child's IQ, but also the decisive factor in the child's future performance, parents must cultivate concentration for their children.
Parents do not disturb children when children play games or write homework, read books, many families have such a phenomenon, when children play or write homework to ask children whether to eat or drink, such behavior is wrong, is not conducive to the cultivation of children's concentration.
Parents can give the initiative to their children, let the children play by themselves, and talk to the children after the children have finished playing, so that they will not disturb the children and affect the child's concentration training.
Third, the ability to follow the rules
As the saying goes: no rules, no squares
Boys are originally more naughty, when doing some things may not abide by the rules, parents must teach their children to abide by the rules, so as to ensure that the children can abide by the rules of the school and the company in the future.
People who don't follow the rules are generally difficult to succeed.
Fourth, the ability to think logically
Logical thinking is a skill that enables efficient, deep, and comprehensive thinking to help solve problems in all aspects.
In the movie "The Godfather", there is such a sentence: Those who spend half a second to see through the essence of things, and those who spend a lifetime can not see the essence of things, are doomed to a completely different fate.
Logical thinking ability is very important in mathematics, generally good mathematics children's logical thinking ability is very strong, parents can cultivate logical thinking ability for children, so that children can learn with half the effort.
How to cultivate children's logical thinking ability?
Doing mathematical thinking games is a good way, 4-6 years old is the most important "mathematical sensitivity period" in children's lives, this time children are very interested in mathematics, if parents grasp it, the child's logical thinking ability will become very strong.
This set of "Gomi Taro Thinking Game Book" can let children cultivate children's logical thinking ability in the game, which is a set of thinking game books, and there are many benefits for children's brain development.
This set of books has a total of five volumes, "find a look, become smart", "count, become smart", "think, become smart", "play, become smart", "do a do, become smart", each book has 12 games, a total of 60 games, the difficulty of the game is also similar, will not let the child have a feeling of difficulty, the types of games in the book are also very rich, can effectively attract children's attention, for the child's concentration training has many benefits.
For example, this book is to let the child guide the child to observe by finding key features, which can cultivate the child's concentration.
The number maze can be a good way to cultivate children's logical thinking ability and let children think all the time.
This set of books can also improve the child's mathematical level, it includes the concept of the book, spatial imagination, logical reasoning ability, etc., to train children's mathematical ability, this set of books can also cultivate children's observation, concentration, hand-eye coordination ability and so on.
The content of the book is in line with the developmental ability requirements of children in the mainland's "Guide to learning and development of children aged 3 to 6 years old", which is very useful and cost-effective.
The author of this set of picture books is Gomi Taro, he is a well-known Picture Book Writer in Japan, who has won numerous awards, and children like his picture book works very much, and this set of books will naturally be no exception.