For people who have never been in a relationship, they will be nervous before the first date, and even toss and turn the night before, constantly imagining the next day's relationship in their minds.
Some people will even rehearse good words or related actions in advance to prevent themselves from making a mistake on a date and causing an embarrassing situation.
On March 20, in Jinan, Shandong Province, a college student shared a rehearsal video of their roommate before dating to the Internet, and became popular on the Internet, causing a large number of netizens to watch.
According to the informed college student Xiao Lu (pseudonym), that night, the big Liu (pseudonym) in their dormitory changed his normal state and became sullen from the original image of Sven Andya, and he pleaded with his roommate Xiao Fat (pseudonym) to rehearse with him for a date the next day.
Xiao Chu initially refused, saying he couldn't do it. But under Da Liu's soft and hard bubble, Xiao Fat finally agreed to his request and rehearsed with him seriously.
They went from meeting and holding hands at the beginning, to the emotional pulse, to the movement of the wall. During this period, both of them were interrupted many times, especially when the wall was banging, Xiao Fat really couldn't hold back, and finally they all laughed.
In the end, the rehearsal between them ended under the laughter of the housemates and the "resistance" of Xiao Fat.
Netizen opinion
A netizen joked, is there such a possibility?
In fact, the girlfriend is a disguise, he really wants to wall is you, you have to be careful!
Some netizens also said that the psychological quality of this man is not good, such a scene still needs to be rehearsed, how to do big things in the future? If her girlfriend knew, she didn't know if she would break up with him.
More netizens suggested, dating well, just go with the flow, don't be too nervous, the more nervous the easier it is to make mistakes. It is better to relax in your heart, and then act according to the opportunity.
By observing the comments of netizens, we can find that most netizens do not support the practice of men rehearsing dating scenes in advance, and are also worried about men's feelings.
Xiaoxiao's point of view
For the object of conversation, Xiaoxiao feels that it is better not to deliberately disguise herself, show the true side to the right, if you can talk about it, she will tolerate your small shortcomings.
On the contrary, if you blindly hide your shortcomings, when you really live in the future, she will become extremely disappointed, because the expectations you gave her before are too high, then you will have many contradictions.
Stress on a first date is normal, and you have to learn to deal with it calmly. Here, Xiaoxiao also suggests that men and women in love should not be too hasty, feelings need to heat up step by step, the personalities of two people also need time to run in, if she is really your dish will naturally run into your bowl.
At the same time, Xiaoxiao also wants to give a piece of advice to young people: don't be too casual about your marriage, too will.
To comprehensively consider a person, do not be moved by his short-term performance, you accept the other party in one brain, to have a flash marriage, which is very undesirable. Countless examples have proved that impulsive marriages are ultimately exchanged for regret and helplessness.
I hope that everyone can meet the right person at the right time, hold hands together, and go to a better future together.