The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth exists in the heart
As a parent, after raising their children with hard work, although they do not ask them to have any return for themselves, they also hope that when they are old, they can often go home to visit themselves, but such a little request, as a child, many people can not do it.
In fact, in many cases, it is no wonder that parents are eccentric, although the children can not come back often when they are outside, but the kung fu of taking time to call is still there, for the children who often call themselves and the children who have never taken the initiative to call, the difference between the two before is clear at a glance.
After 01 years of age, it is basically the eldest son who takes care of it
Aunt Wang is 70 years old this year, she has two sons, but now she has been living in the eldest son's family, living and living in the care of the eldest daughter-in-law.
When Aunt Wang was young, she thought that she could not treat her two sons with eccentricity and could not ignore one or the other, so when the two sons got married, aunt Wang prepared the same things for them. Even if the last two sons have children, as a grandmother, Aunt Wang has never been partial to either side, and the two grandchildren are treated equally.
Later, the younger son took the family to the field of development, the eldest son and the eldest daughter-in-law stayed in the city of their hometown, because the distance was relatively close, so the eldest son and the family would return to Aunt Wang when they had time to chat with her about some household routines.
But on the other hand, the younger son's family, since they left, even the phone almost did not pass through Aunt Wang several times, over time, Aunt Wang and the eldest son's family are naturally much intimate, for the younger son's family, naturally there are quite a few words.
Later, when Aunt Wang reached old age, she took the initiative to mention that the two children should jointly undertake the obligation of old-age care, but the younger son was unwilling to bear the inconvenience of returning home because of the distance, so Aunt Wang was angry for a long time.
Later, the eldest daughter-in-law told Aunt Wang: Mom, the younger brother does not care about you, but I manage, in the future you can rest assured, I will accompany you to take care of you.
After hearing these words, Aunt Wang was touched for a long time.
02 Aunt Wang has always had a retirement salary, but no one knows
So, ever since Aunt Wang was old, she had been living in her eldest son's home.
The younger son almost never talked to Aunt Wang on the phone, and he never took the initiative to care about Aunt Wang's recent situation.
In fact, in Aunt Wang's heart, the temper of these two sons is naturally very well understood, the eldest son's family is thick and honest, but the younger son, after getting married, somehow, always thinks that he is partial to the eldest son, but as Aunt Wang herself, she can ask herself that she has never been partial to which family.
However, since the younger son thought so, Aunt Wang naturally did not want to defend anything.
In fact, Aunt Wang has always had a secret that no one said, when she was young, she was a veteran employee of a company, and later in order to thank Aunt Wang for her hard work for so many years, the company decided to give her retirement salary every month after Aunt Wang retired.
Aunt Wang did not tell anyone about this, including her own son.
Therefore, from beginning to end, Aunt Wang has a certain confidence, and she also wants to take this opportunity to see what attitude her two sons will have when they are old.
However, as far as the current situation is concerned, it is obvious that the eldest son's family is more intimate with herself, and her own retirement wages, Aunt Wang also intends to leave the eldest son's family.
After the 03 youngest son heard about it, when he returned home, Aunt Wang reproached: Over the years, I have met you several times
After learning that Aunt Wang still had retirement pay, the eldest son's family seemed very surprised, because in their hearts they had always believed that taking care of their parents was a natural thing, and since their younger brother did not want to take on this obligation, as the eldest brother, he could not sit idly by.
When she learned that Aunt Wang wanted to keep this retirement salary for herself, the eldest daughter-in-law was a little flattered, and she said: I can't give it all to my family, and the little uncle's family must also have a share.
Aunt Wang was very satisfied in her heart, and she naturally knew the temper of the eldest son's family.
But these retirement jobs are Aunt Wang's own, and how to distribute them is also her own decision.
But this matter did not know how to be known by the younger son, so he made a special trip home, and as soon as he entered the door, he clamored to divide Aunt Wang's retirement salary equally.
Seeing the appearance of the younger son, Aunt Wang was angry, so many years, it was the eldest son's family to take care of themselves to eat and drink, the younger son Shenlong saw the beginning and did not see the end, when he needed him, no matter what, he could not find him, and now there are benefits, knowing that he is going home.
Aunt Wang said angrily: These properties belong to your brother and sister-in-law, and they have nothing to do with you.
The younger son was also angry when he heard it, and he began to accuse Aunt Wang of being eccentric, and Aunt Wang also had sufficient reasons for this: For so many years, I have seen you several times, you have returned home several times, if it were not for your brother and sister-in-law taking care of me for so many years, how could I have a happy old age?
Perhaps the younger son also knew that he had done something wrong for so many years, so he slipped away.
After the eldest son listened to his mother's words in the family, he was also very moved, after all, he also fulfilled his responsibility as a son when he took care of his mother, and he did not expect that such a small act would make the mother make up her mind to keep the property she had.
Conclusion: In fact, in many cases, as a parent, the requirements for children are not too high, but in the subsequent relationship, children may make parents chill because of certain things. Parents will also have a biased behavior, but this is also a common human feeling, after all, parents will only be close to their own children.