Many women have to go out to work, but also have to wash and cook with children, and at the end of the day, they are exhausted and exhausted, and the whole person is not good. Women work so hard without getting their husbands' understanding, which is where they are most aggrieved.
Those men enjoy the care of their wives with peace of mind, do not care about their wives' efforts and hard work for the family, they even feel that this is what women should do, it is the duty of women, this kind of thinking can easily lead to family conflicts.
When couples quarrel, women often hang a sentence on their lips: "Please a cleaning nanny to be more than 3,000, ask a babysitter with children to be more than 2,000, ask a tutor to be more than 2,000, I have done all these jobs, I have saved you so much money and you are not satisfied, I am a free nanny!" ”
This sentence speaks to the hearts of women, they hope to be respected by their husbands, but also hope that their efforts are affirmed by their husbands, the reality is often very cruel. Many men turn a blind eye to their wives' efforts, and also look for various opportunities to taunt their wives, men who hold this idea are very hateful, how can they be happy to marry such a man?
Uncle Sun is 83 years old, there are more than 3,000 yuan of pension every month, Uncle Sun has a 60-square-meter house, Uncle Sun does not worry about eating or wearing, there is no burden, and life is quite good.
When he is idle, Uncle Sun likes to practice words and chant poetry, and sometimes Uncle Sun will improvise poems. When he was young, Uncle Sun was a poor boy, but he was handsome and talented, and Uncle Sun won the favor of his wife with these skills, and he married his wife with a good family and high education, which was the capital that Uncle Sun was proud of.
Uncle Sun's wife has been dead for more than 3 years, and his relationship with his wife is very good, and he will burst into tears when he mentions his wife Uncle Sun. In order to get rid of the pain of widowhood as soon as possible, Uncle Sun had the idea of finding a wife again.
Uncle Sun has high requirements for the other half, he wants to find a woman who is healthy enough to take care of him and accompany him, and at the same time, the other party must be diligent and thrifty to run the family, and it is best to be young and beautiful to be worthy of him. Uncle Sun knows that such a woman is not easy to find, but Uncle Sun feels that he is attractive and will definitely meet a satisfactory wife.
Under the arrangement of the Red Lady, Aunt Guo came to go on a blind date. Aunt Guo is 80 years old, before retirement, Aunt Guo was a senior engineer at a research institute, Aunt Guo has a title and ability, a pension of more than 4500 yuan, is a very good woman.
Aunt Guo and her ex-husband have a very good relationship, they are both high-level intellectuals, have a common language, a common pursuit, and have spiritual communication, and Aunt Guo and her ex-husband have lived happily for most of their lives. After the death of his wife, Aunt Guo was depressed and depressed, often felt lonely and lonely, and when she encountered things, she had no master and no one to discuss, so Aunt Guo had plans to remarry.
Aunt Guo's good conditions for the other half's requirements are naturally not low, she requires the other party to be in good health, to have spiritual communication with her, and to accompany each other and take care of each other to spend the rest of their lives together.
Red Niang asked Aunt Guo why she didn't look for a nanny to find a wife, to which Aunt Guo explained: "The nanny only takes care of people, it is hired at a cost, and I have no in-depth communication with the nanny." The wife is different, we are husband and wife, you can say the words of the heart can communicate feelings, this is what I care about the most. ”
Aunt Guo has the ability to hire a nanny but does not hire a nanny, on this issue she understands very well, the nanny takes money to take care of people without the obligation to accompany, the wife can accompany her to enjoy the old age can also let her feel the warmth of the family and the happiness of marriage, because of this, Aunt Guo still insists on finding a wife despite the 80-year-old age.
Aunt Guo meets Uncle Sun's criteria for choosing a mate, can they spark love?
After meeting, Aunt Guo's first impression of Uncle Sun was quite good, and Aunt Guo praised Uncle Sun's tough appearance. Uncle Sun did not look at Aunt Guo, Uncle Sun hated That Aunt Guo was short and not good-looking, and Aunt Guo's conditions were much better than That of Uncle Sun, and Uncle Sun was not satisfied, and he really did not know who gave him the courage.
In order to please Aunt Guo and Uncle Sun to show his housekeeping skills, he inadvertently recited a poem: "Rough tea and light rice to ensure three meals, early and sweet and evening sweet." The cloth is warm and brocade, and it can be worn long or short. Aunt Guo was attracted by Uncle Sun's talent. Uncle Sun showed the skill of calligraphy on the table again, and Aunt Guo repeatedly praised and doubled her good feelings.
Uncle Sun took advantage of the hot iron to tell his requirements for the other half, and Uncle Sun wanted to find a sympathetic wife, and the two people spent the rest of their lives together. Uncle Sun said the voice of Aunt Guo, and Aunt Guo appreciated Uncle Sun even more.
Uncle Sun frankly said that he does not like to do housework and does not love to cook, usually always confused, he hopes that his wife will take on all the housework while cooking for him, taking care of his food and clothing, which is the ultimate purpose of Uncle Sun to find his wife.
Aunt Guo tentatively asked Uncle Sun, "Why don't you find a nanny, these things nannies can do." Uncle Sun replied quite cheerfully: "My pension is only more than 3,000, where do I have extra money to hire a nanny?" I want to find a wife who can serve me until I am old and don't want money. ”
Uncle Sun's meaning could not be more obvious, his income is limited, there is no spare money to hire a nanny, but his body is not as good as a year, he can't do without people around, he plans to find a wife. Uncle Sun did not want to give his wife money, but asked his wife to serve him well and provide him with quality service, and Uncle Sun's wishful thinking was too shrewd.
Aunt Guo was angry enough, and she directly replied: "What cheapness has allowed you to occupy, where are there so many good things under the sky?" I want to find a wife who can take care of each other and support each other, I don't want to be a free nanny for others! ”
Aunt Guo's good feelings for Uncle Sun instantly disappeared, and there were huge differences in their concepts, and the blind date was so unhappy that they dispersed.
The family division of labor model of "male outside the female protagonist" has a long history, men are responsible for making money to support the family, women are responsible for washing and cooking with children, while serving the elderly to take care of their husbands, husbands and wives work together, so that the family will become happier and happier, and life will be more and more happy.
With the enhancement of women's sense of independence, a large number of women have the conditions to go out to work, women can not only not be attached to men to live, but also can get the life they want through hard work, which is the progress of society and the result of women's struggle.
Women are not only "inside the Lord" but also assume a part of the responsibility of "outside the Lord", women make considerable contributions to the family, it is reasonable to say that men should be considerate of their wives to take care of their wives, take the initiative to ask for warmth and warmth to let the wives feel the love of their husbands and the warmth of the family, which can enhance the feelings of husband and wife and make wives willing to pay, which is a good thing to kill two birds with one stone.
Many men ignore this problem, they only care about their own dashing and happy, do not care about the feelings of their wives, and even turn a blind eye to their wives' efforts, and sometimes sneer at their wives, these behaviors will undoubtedly destroy family unity and affect the feelings of husband and wife.
Uncle Sun is a good negative teaching material, the purpose of his wife is not to accompany each other to take care of each other, but to require his wife to serve him unconditionally, Uncle Sun feels that his conditions are good and charming can charm many old ladies, he is too confident, the result can be imagined.
Do you think Uncle Sun can find a satisfactory wife? Do you think women would be willing to be free babysitters? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.