What is the beginning of a relationship? It is often a strong psychological desire to be emotionally close to each other by the good feelings of appearance and personality.
Attraction determines two-way approach, mutual enthusiasm, mutual response, if it is always just that you want to get close to each other, it is impossible to have results.
Grasp the relationship between men and women, the core cornerstone of the relationship between the sexes, do not be complicated and diversified.
Finding the point is just that you are attractive and the problem of attraction loss. Thus forming a natural process, whether it is coming together or going to the strange.
Similarly, if you want to solve your single problem, you should only start from yourself and strive to cultivate your own attractiveness, rather than always thinking of pleasing and pandering to the other party to love you. This is easy to form a deformed romantic relationship, which is not conducive to the development of feelings, and later family building.
When you want results too much, or focus too much on results, this often exacerbates the loss of your own attractiveness, which is counterproductive.
How can I attract the opposite sex?
1, strive to be a happy person.
You must work hard to make yourself a truly happy person, extremely extrusive, and the most attractive person. The optimism, sunshine, cuteness, confidence, and calmness you show in your body are more likely to bring people a good feeling, in fact, no matter who they are, they are willing to approach such people.
People are all animals that seek advantage and avoid harm, and even if they cannot arouse emotional desires, there will be no dislike and resistance. In fact, a truly happy person is also the most attractive person in the world.
Relationships, friendships, romantic relationships, all of them, the happiness you show will always bring you many unexpected gains.
It's like a giant magnet suction sheet that forms the center of some kind of magnetic field with your pleasure.
I don't believe that those who look at those with sour expressions, indifference and worry, even if they have a good face, will make people stay away.
Between the opposite sex, feeling is important, especially to make a good first impression, and feeling is more important than paying attention to the other person's appearance, height and dress.
2, come up with your best instrument.
The Weakness of Human Nature says:
"It is true that people are not made of clothing, but the impact of clothing on our lives is far beyond our expectations. Bring you dignity, strength and charm, so that you can earn the respect and admiration of others. ”
Deeply.
If it is inevitable, the shabbiness of the performance may not be disgusting, but the sloppiness makes people disgusted at first sight. No one can understand your beautiful heart through your sloppy appearance, everyone is a common man, no one is tall.
Therefore, when meeting with the opposite sex, try to show your best appearance as much as possible, which is also a kind of respect for the other party. Dress appropriately, not necessarily expensive, even if cheap clothes, as long as they are kept clean, can also reflect the greatest charm in simplicity.
Men and women are the same, and there is a lustful heart hidden under the dignified and generous appearance. Natural beauty is important, but you must not drag down your temperament and destroy your physical attractiveness because of makeup.
Only through external images, bringing a good feeling to the other party, it is possible to approach you and understand your desires.
3. Talk about other people's interests.
Chat well, the atmosphere can not be tense, it is easy to make people lose the interest in talking, the more relaxed, comfortable, pleasant, the more can open the other party's box. So there is nothing wrong with talking about something that others are interested in, don't argue, have to change and correct each other's views.
Whether it is dispute or criticism, this will not have any good effect, it will only be counterproductive. Before a certain emotional basis has been cultivated, a clash of wills occurs, which is extremely fatal to the development of the relationship.
If you want to have a pleasant conversation, you should let the other party say more, and the more the other party says, the more beneficial it is to the development of the relationship.
If you turn it the other way around, you will only talk about some things that interest you, and these things will make the other party extremely bored, and basically there will be no chance to talk next time.
Try to make yourself a qualified listener and let the other person know that you are listening carefully, responding at the right time, and expressing your opinion.
The reason is very simple, if even the desire to talk is lost, how can the relationship go further.
4, do not take the other party too seriously.
The more you care and be serious, the other party will not take you seriously, change it to an attitude of indifference, and will find a different world. It's because when you're too serious, you don't even find yourself, it's easy to lose your personality, and you want to have a result with the other party too much.
On the other hand, if you show a generous attitude, the confidence, calmness, and calmness hidden in this attitude will amplify your attractiveness.
The better the other person's conditions, the more useless it is to kneel and lick.
Your attitude is often caused by an over-desire for results. Even if the other party is very good-looking and the conditions are excellent, no matter how much you like it, you must remind yourself in your heart that the big deal is that there is no result.
No result is not terrible, you can not have results with anyone, very eager to be together with the result, will inevitably affect the charm of the process.
Sometimes, the more you show that you don't care and don't care, the other party will be interested in you because of your attitude.
The relationship between men and women is like this, it is best not to let a person understand you thoroughly, maintain some mystery, in order to always show a self that makes the other party unexpected. What moves you make, what performances you perform, are all expected by the other party, and there is no unknown experience.
Don't move to behave low, think about going to the bend to meet, even if the feelings are frustrated, what's the big deal, you have a self, you can definitely attract a person.
Don't panic, don't panic, what kind of self you have, what kind of people you can attract, it hasn't appeared yet. But if you lose yourself, you lose your real sense of attraction, and you turn the relationship between men and women into a real relationship of interest.
Everyone doesn't hate you, but they don't have that special liking for you, and in the end they can only work on the material and affect each other's decisions and choices. Attraction is important, and being able to show your attraction is even more important.
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