You will eventually understand that after the age of 40, what "looks" you have determines what life you have

01

Words follow the heart, and words follow each other's hearts.

A person's words and deeds will change with his heart. A person's appearance will also change according to his wishes. Everything is a matter of the "heart".

This is the same as looking at the mountain.

The realm is not enough, we will see the mountain is the mountain, and the water is the water. That look and appearance, after all, is still a little childish.

The realm has reached a certain level, and we will see that the mountain is not a mountain, and the water is not water, all of which are transformed with the inner realm. That posture and appearance can be said to have matured a lot.

When the realm reaches the highest level, we will see the mountain as the mountain, the water as the water, and the inner gradually washes away the lead and returns to the pure. That look will be plain and self-assured, like a fairy.

In fact, these three levels illustrate a truth - the state of mind of man, the realm of his thoughts, ultimately determines his appearance. How it looks, it is not the simple skin bag, but the connotation of the heart.

What is "appearance"? To put it mildly, it's just how we look. At a deeper level, it is our overall posture from the inside out, what is it.

You will eventually understand that after the age of 40, what kind of appearance you have will determine what life you have.

02

Before the age of 40, most people are in a more confused period.

Due to insufficient experience, the pressure of life increases, and more and more problems encountered, I believe that we will become more and more haggard, and we do not know where the road is. The worry and emptiness in that look was not a good omen.

It's just that all the sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty, we all need to go through it. In other words, years and experience are the root of shaping our hearts and changing our appearance.

The innocence of children will eventually be replaced by the reality of adults; the innocence of young people will eventually be replaced by the maturity of middle-aged people. Everything is a process of "continuous replacement".

Just like the appearance of people, in fact, it will change dramatically after the age of 40.

Because people have experienced and more or less understood this world, their hearts have changed at the first time. Slowly, all blessings and misfortunes will come to us.

If we can't see away and are too depressed inside, then our overall image will derive a "negative" atmosphere. This kind of negative appearance is actually not a good start.

Just imagine, a person who has a sad face all day and does not even have any happiness, can he really reap the blessings? This is absolutely impossible.

There is a saying that "blessings come from the yang, and misfortunes come from the yin." ”

People who are too negative will not be blessed. People who are too pessimistic are prone to go astray. Everything seems to be a problem of appearance, but in fact, it is a problem of "mentality".

03

After the age of 40, there must be these three "looks".

A really good appearance often has to have these two conditions - the thought and mentality should be good, and the overall posture should be plump and full.

In daily life, only these three "appearances" meet the conditions.

Appearance one: down-to-earth, calm and measured.

People, all their lives, need to be "grounded", do not engage in those who do not have, but on the basis of reality, be a down-to-earth person, do things steadily and locally, and do not have the slightest exaggerated ideas.

We only have to look at the big bosses to know that there is no one who is not calm. Just like "tea leaves", find your own "center of gravity" in the ups and downs and clear your position. In this way, it is a blessing for a person.

Appearance two: plump and full, atmospheric posture.

Many people think that fullness means "fat". This understanding is actually incorrect. True fullness is the fullness of one's spiritual thoughts and the overall image.

The realm of thought is high, that is the spiritual fullness of others. The overall image is good, and at a glance, it is rich and noble, that is the posture of others. The unity of these two is the best rich and noble appearance in middle age.

Appearance three: not impatient, calm and self-assured.

There is a way to "let the wind and waves rise, and sit firmly on the Diaoyutai." "People like this kind of composure, in general, can achieve something big. At least, ordinary people can't be calm.

Don't be entangled in a little thing, don't be pessimistic about the gains and losses of a city and a pool, look at the world, fight for the longevity of life, and treat it indifferently, so as to be a true hero.

04

When a person is over forty, what "phase" you are, you have a life.

Speaking of this, I believe we will understand that the so-called appearance is not at all as simple as the appearance we see every day. In fact, it is a combination of the human spirit and the human character.

Some people read a lot and exude a charm that others can't match, which is incomparable to the most beautiful face.

Some people have a relatively good connotation of literacy, no matter how they dress and dress, they are particularly temperamental, which is incomparable to people without connotation.

Some people have extraordinary temperament as soon as they appear, and when they smile, they are like the stars and the bright moon in the sky, which is incomparable to the most handsome people.

If we want to change our fate in the second half of our lives, then we may as well improve our own qualities, enrich our personal connotations, and most importantly, enhance our ideological realm, which is the beginning of a good life.

No matter how beautiful the face, it will disappear in time. No matter how handsome the face is, it will eventually be annihilated in nothingness. Only the cultivation and realm of human beings can be preserved for a long time, until the end of time.

That's all.

Wen/Shushan has deer