Why do some women seem very ordinary, but they are very attractive to men? Some women told me: This world is not fair, I have a sister who is not as good looking as me! But the man's relationship is particularly good, is it that I am born without manhood? In fact, each of us is an ordinary person, so why do some women attract people? We've summed up some of the inner qualities in them that we can actually do, and you can be the woman who is very attractive to men. Which ones?
First of all, let's talk about ordinary women, the so-called ordinary, many of us are visual animals, we all think that this person looks very ordinary, why is it so popular with men? But what attracts men may be more intrinsic, what are they?
First: no excessive personal defense
Why don't some women like it? It's because they're not good, it's because she may pull herself far away from others and invisibly put a layer of armor on herself. For example, in an occasion when the cold is not speaking, in fact, many people are not high cold and do not speak, just because they are afraid of saying the wrong thing, so they dress themselves up as a high cold look, then this kind of defense, will invisibly open the distance with others, others do not want to talk to you, is not afraid to talk to you.
Second: the comfort of personality
What kind of people do you want to be with, people who are more comfortable and less calculating, let me give you an example: what do you like to do most when you are in school? In order to get close to a girl, he may go and get someone else's textbook, pull someone else's pigtails, and so on. So what kind of girls will have more fun with boys, that is, those who are not very calculating. You said the same thing, tugged at the girl's pigtails, and the girl ran over and knocked off all his desks and smashed all the books, basically the two of them had nothing to do with each other later.
But you said that if you drag someone's pigtails, and people chase after him, in fact, they are laughing and giggling, then such a girl, the man's relationship will be very good. Because everyone will think that she is not so calculating, it is very comfortable to get along with her, do not have to worry about her being angry, I still have to coax her and so on. Therefore, to attract men to like, a very important point is that it is comfortable to get along.
Third: Know how to provide emotional value
The point of knowing how to provide emotional value, in fact, the simplest point is to be able to see the advantages of others. That is, no matter what we do, we all want to be recognized by others.
Then the same if you can see the advantages of a boy in life, and can say it, he will feel full of emotional value. He will be attracted to you because of this emotional value, and will even want to get more of this emotional value.
For example, let's say a very common thing you're in his car, he reverses and he falls into it very easily, and he thinks it's easy for me, but if you suddenly come up with a sentence: "Wow! Hello awesome! Usually I have to do a good job here for a long time! "He will feel very happy at once, then the person will have this characteristic, and after he feels this recognition in you, he will try so hard to show it in front of you, so that he can get more of this recognition."
Then you will find that this relationship will be transformed, that is, originally you want to get close to him, and then it becomes that he wants to be close to you, and he wants to show more in you, so you will find a person who knows how to see the advantages of others and speak out in life, her popularity will not be too bad.