In the world of feelings, if a person is still willing to argue with you and argue with you, it means that he still cares about you. But if a person starts to be silent about you, it means complete disappointment, and there is no hope.
You know, silence is a person's greatest disregard for things. No one is silent to a person for no reason, and the reason why they are reluctant to say anything is because it is not worth it, let alone the meaning of saying it.
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I don't know if you've ever asked yourself:
When did you start when you'd rather be alone than tell anyone!
When did you start, you'd rather swallow your grievances yourself than explain it to anyone!
When did you start, you'd rather suffer a little more yourself than let anyone suffer!
However, in the world of feelings, no matter how small the contradiction between you, or how much quarrel, when one party begins to be silent, the other party actually has too much helplessness. You look at the way he wants to talk and stop, you may be angry, maybe more angry. But, too, your silence has left him at a loss.
Cangyang Gyatso said: "How many secrets a person needs to hide in order to skillfully spend a lifetime. ”
I think there are many words buried in each of our hearts, in other words, we have been isolated for a long time, overgrown with weeds. However, in real life, we can have some people who can let you let go of your troubles and spit out the bitter water in your heart, which is actually a great blessing.
Maybe your silence is just that you were a little tired and didn't want to talk at that moment, but you know what? Your silence is undoubtedly worse for him.
Maybe your silence just wants to make yourself a quiet space, but you know what? Your quiet silence is the loneliest shadow on the street for him.
02
Li Ao once said: Sometimes explanation is unnecessary: the enemy does not believe your explanation, and the friend does not need your explanation.
We all know that it is a very difficult time for two people to go from not knowing anything to caring for each other, and because they have been together for a long time, there will be a lot of disputes, followed by various contradictions. Feelings are like water in a bottle, as the air slowly evaporates, the last drop will evaporate.
I don't know from what day it began, but the conversation between you became less and less, and even for several days, you couldn't say a word. You know something is wrong between you, but you don't know what's wrong. You ask him, but he's always silent, silent...
In the past, you always thought that no matter what contradictions appeared in the relationship, as long as two people sat down to communicate well, nothing could not be solved. But you forget that if he doesn't want to say it, then you can't do anything. You can only watch this relationship slowly fade.
Helpless and isolated, you seem helpless, because you know that you still have expectations of him, and he treats you as an outsider. He talks to friends, he talks to strangers, but only to you, he says, "There's nothing to say." ”
However, is love really like this? Is it from the fiery intensity at the beginning to the silence, and the last bit slowly disappears completely?
I don't think so. From the moment you decide to love each other, be prepared for the test. Because love is constantly creating problems and constantly eliminating problems.
03
Some people say that the water is clean, not because it has no impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate. Because no matter how turbid the water is, as long as there is a long period of precipitation, it can become clear.
So, if the days are light, go on a date; if you accidentally argue, bow your head and apologize.
Among feelings, silence hurts the most. The so-called love is that I am willing to give you patience, accompany you to do many, many things, and say many, many things to you.
If you like it, add a point of attention to praise it, talk well, in order to love each other well.
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