My mother-in-law brought me twin sons, I gave her 5,000 yuan a month, the first birthday feast of twin sons, my mother-in-law actually took out 100,000 yuan in red envelopes for my two sons, I think too much

Mother-in-law brought me twin sons, I gave her 5,000 yuan a month, twin sons first birthday banquet, mother-in-law actually took out 100,000 yuan red envelopes to my two sons, I think too much, and do not want to receive, but the mother-in-law let me accept anyway, did not expect that he suddenly put forward a request later, but let me and my wife be embarrassed! I don't know how to be good.

I am 28 years old, married to my wife for two years, and a year ago my wife gave birth to a pair of twin sons for me, and I was very happy, because my wife couldn't see it alone, so I proposed that my mother-in-law come and help take care of it.

I think this is a good idea, after the mother-in-law came, I gave the mother-in-law 5,000 yuan a month, just as the salary with the child, soon the son will turn one year old, the wife proposed to celebrate well, I think it is also good.

Soon it was the day of the twin sons' first birthday feast, and we invited all the relatives and friends to book more than twenty seats to celebrate the son's first birthday.

This day is very lively, fortunately the two children did not make a fuss, sent away all the relatives and friends that night, this time the mother-in-law called me and my wife aside, and then took out 100,000 red envelopes, saying that it was a red envelope for my son, my wife and I felt too much, unwilling to receive.

But the mother-in-law cried and said that we should accept it anyway, she said that she had a request, hoping that my wife and I would agree to her, but I did not expect that after my mother-in-law said it, she was now directly stunned.

The reason for this incident has to start from my wife's brother, who is also my brother-in-law, who is a year younger than my wife, and my father-in-law died when my wife was very young.

There were only three people left in the family, my wife and brother-in-law and my mother-in-law, and at that time, the family was poor and had no labor, not to mention how difficult life was.

Like my wife, I am from the countryside, we were classmates in high school, at that time we liked each other, and then we talked about love, although we were early love, but we did not delay studying at all, vowed to study well, and in the future we will be admitted to the university we like together.

At that time, we encouraged each other, and then reviewed together, went to class together, and thought that after half a year's efforts, we could be admitted to the university of our choice, but what I did not expect was that she usually had good grades, and she actually fell behind in the college entrance examination, and I was successfully admitted to the university.

I wanted to comfort her and ask her to re-study for another year and then take the exam, but she dropped out of school, saying that because the burden on the family was too heavy, her mother could not afford to study for her.

In order to relieve the pressure on her mother, she chose to go out to work, and later her brother dropped out of school because of his poor grades, and then went out to work.

Although my wife did not go to college, we have been in touch since she was born, and sometimes she sends me living expenses from time to time.

At that time, my family was also very poor, and if it were not for my wife's support, I might not be able to finish college, so in college I silently vowed to repay her well in the future.

In the four years of college, I was not idle, I was always trying to make money, and then I opened a shop online because there was no start-up capital at any time, and then I asked my wife's brother to borrow a sum of money, and then I set up a company, and when I didn't graduate from college, I had already earned the first pot of gold in my life.

By the time I graduated, when others were still worried about what job to find, I was already the boss, which made me more and more confident.

Soon after graduating from college, I proposed to my wife, and then she happily agreed to me, knowing that without her and her brother's support, I would not be where I am today.

After marriage, I used the money I earned from starting a company to buy my first house in my life, and soon my wife became pregnant, and a few months later I gave birth to twin sons, and then I asked my mother-in-law to help take care of it.

The brother-in-law had no culture, dropped out of high school before finishing high school, and then worked as a cook in a restaurant, and one day the floor was too slippery in the kitchen, and accidentally spilled a pot of boiling water on his body, resulting in all the burns on his lower body.

After being sent to the hospital, after more than a month of treatment, the wound was better, but still left a disability, the doctor said, it may affect fertility in the future, let us be mentally prepared, the mother-in-law is also because of this is always sad and tearful, so this time the mother-in-law wrapped 100,000 red envelopes for my son, want us to inherit a child to the brother-in-law.

To tell you the truth, after I heard this request, I was very embarrassed, of course, this red envelope we will not accept, I know that my mother-in-law is really not easy, this red envelope is not a small amount for them.

The wife said to her mother-in-law: Mom, you don't think so much about it now, we will consider the matter of my brother, but I didn't expect my mother-in-law to listen and cry even harder.

At this time, the brother-in-law also came, and the brother-in-law knelt on the ground and said that if you did not agree, I would not get up, and I immediately pulled him up with my wife.

I said brother, you hurry up, after your business is our business, isn't my child also your child? Wait for us to discuss.

I pacified my brother-in-law and mother-in-law! Now that I'm in a dilemma, what should I do? Do you want to pass on one to your brother-in-law? #Emotion# #情感咨询 #

@High Cold Sentiment Analysis :

Listening to your account, your mother-in-law's family is indeed very kind to you, and you have not disappointed them, but your mother-in-law and brother-in-law have made such a request, for you, it is indeed difficult to advance and retreat, and it is indeed difficult to deal with.

I think that the medical conditions are so good now, it is not so rare to want a child of your own, there is always a way to solve it, even if you can't solve it in the end, you can also let your child send your brother-in-law to the end of the pension, and it is necessary to pass on to his name.

You want to know that this is a good thing, but this method is not right, I think it is unfair to the child, after all, the child is his own, you can think of other ways, what do you think?