On February 15, a woman in Lanzhou, Gansu Province, and her boyfriend became pregnant before marriage, and after the two discussed, the woman followed her boyfriend to Lanzhou to officially meet her parents, but the attitude of her in-laws and sister-in-law made her never expect it.
On the same day to see the in-laws, the woman received a red envelope from her mother-in-law, opened the red envelope to see, the first time they met, the in-laws only gave her 300 yuan, usually the little couples will send red envelopes between 520 and 1314, it is estimated that the woman did not want to understand why the in-laws will give her 300 yuan.
After the boyfriend saw the amount of the red packet, he was obviously aware of the change in his girlfriend's mood, and he comforted his girlfriend not to care.
Because the boyfriend's parents also have to help their daughter to see the child, so the boyfriend took the woman outside to eat rice noodles at night, and when he came home, the boyfriend's sister told them that since the children were there, the two of them directly took the certificate.
After the experience of the "ugly" daughter-in-law seeing her in-laws, the woman's mentality changed, and she began to hesitate whether this marriage certificate should be obtained.
Seeing this situation, netizens have exploded the pot, and some netizens said that when you have the idea of retreating, it means that you already know the answer.
Just because of unmarried pregnancy, the woman has been despised by all the in-laws, the first time the in-laws gave the meeting red packet, I think even in the countryside, it should not be less than 1,000 yuan, generous even will wrap a red envelope of 10,000 yuan, and then put an extra dollar, implying that this daughter-in-law is their family to choose a thousand.
Therefore, 300 yuan shows an attitude, that is, the in-laws' contempt for women, even the eldest sister who has married and started a family can make demands on them at will, especially in this process, her boyfriend has been defending his family and giving them reasons.
Such a family, if you really marry, it is to dig a pit for yourself, and then pounce on the initiative to jump into it.
Men and women love each other, unmarried cohabitation, has long been nothing new, but many girls are often easy to lose themselves in love, credulous to the promise of boys, do not know how to protect themselves, the result is pregnant, if you meet a reasonable family, most of them will successfully marry and have children, in case they encounter this kind of family in the video, think that once the woman is pregnant, it is a cooked duck, and she can't fly, since she has been tied up by the child, then their family still has to invest so much cost to marry her, simply get the certificate directly.
So girls, talking about love can be wanton youth, but some bottom lines and principles must be kept, remember, marriage is never a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, do not give others the opportunity to belittle you in this matter, so that you can maintain a dignified posture in love and marriage.
