"Why do people who love each other kiss each other?" "Should I confess to someone I like?" "Why do people die?" "Can you imagine these are all questions that 6-7 year olds ask their parents? If your child asks a serious question, how do you respond?
There is a good answer in the book "LaRousse's Encyclopedia of Children's Psychology":
"People who love each other will kiss each other to express the emotions in their hearts. Kiss, have a magical power! ”
"Love takes a little time, you have to learn to know yourself, increase your self-confidence, and then your heart will change from yellow to red." 」
"Knowing that you're going to die makes you realize that you have to make good use of every moment of your life, and that gives meaning to life!"
The book is a collection of 60 questions raised by elementary school students (ages 6-11) about life, affection, love, friendship, school, family, relationships, and even death, beliefs, and fears.
The answers in the book are all the opinions of the French clinical psychologist and psychotherapist Carin Simone when communicating with the children, in fact, she feels that everyone can find a more suitable answer for themselves, because she believes that children themselves discover the world through thinking and asking questions.
The author, Carin Simone, has been with sick children for 25 years, during which time she provides effective psychotherapy for sick children and supervises and mentors professionals responsible for early childhood work.
Child psychology is a very complex science, because people themselves are complex advanced animals, and parents must understand the psychological world of children in the process of accompanying and raising children.
The post-00s and post-10s children are faced with much more information and receive knowledge than their parents did when they were young, so their thinking is more active and the questions they ask are more philosophical.
How do we, as parents, enter our children's inner world and understand the hidden meaning behind their questions? How to explain it in plain and easy-to-understand language, better erase their doubts and gain a deep understanding?
Maybe after reading this book, you will have different ideas and thoughts, because Karin Simone has made a good demonstration, she always accepts and appreciates the child's questions first, and then emotionally empathizes with them, inspires the children to think positively in a follow-by-the-way way, and establishes and strengthens the children's positive values.
The author's guidance methods and answers can give parents a lot of reference and inspiration, in order to help children grow better, parents should do a good job of teaching by example, to make themselves parents with methods and wisdom, when children encounter confusion, there is sadness and sadness, we can face and help children to solve the doubts in their hearts, become the guardians of their childhood.
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Larousse Encyclopedia of Child Psychology
