"Come back when you have a chance, okay."
"I'll turn myself in."
The conversation took place a few days ago: A woman in Chongqing received a call from a Cambodian fraudster who told the scammer that she was going to turn herself in.
In just 8 minutes of talking, the scammer went from being justified at the beginning to being broken by her sentence "8 years, it is still not easy".
Finally, he introduced the girl to a bunch of anti-fraud methods and reminded her how to identify scams.
However, not all scam stories have such a ridiculous ending.
A Shanghai woman who was cheated of 2.92 million yuan stood on the roof of the building and opened her mobile phone to live broadcast to the man:
"I don't want this money, I just want to see you as a person."
"I can't go back." The man replied.
The woman jumped and ended her life.
Before I die, I still want to see the last side of my "husband".
But in the emotional deception of "killing pigs", how can the butcher have compassion for the "pigs"?
01▼ Every time I feel that I have found true love, every time true love is false
The "husband" that Shanghai women are looking for, the dog baby, is in an "industrial park" in northern Myanmar at this time.
In this industrial park, you can see almost all the fraudulent means: lottery, daigou, funds, stocks, foreign exchange, naked chat, Huang Bo...
The outer wall is an iron fence, and armed with guns patrols in circles, day and night.
In the eyes of everyone, the stupid dog doll of Mu Ne opened a large order of 2.92 million, which became a "reference case" of the company and was repeatedly publicized at each conference.
Another employee of this "company", Xiao Yang, successfully defrauded a northeastern woman of 1.76 million.
The other party sold the car and the house, and only then did it come up with more than one million.
These are two of the most well-known examples of companies.
Of course, the company also has Heilongjiang women who have been cheated 3 times, Wuhan women who have been cheated 370,000 times...
Specific fraudsters are commonly known in the industry as "dog push", and the process of establishing feelings with "customers" is called "raising pigs".
After adding friends, a woman will meet a man like this:
They are either personable or humorous;
They are warm men who are always online, will give care, generously express their appreciation for you, and will also say heartwarming love words;
They took the initiative to share their lives and even told stories of his hurt, as if to tell you, you see, I took my heart out and showed it to you.
They feel like they've found true love.
But every true love is fake.
They don't know that the true destiny in their minds doesn't exist at all—
In addition to the voice chat people did not change, a team of thirty or forty people, in turn to chat with her.
The "true love" treatment that every woman can enjoy is not more than 15 days.
After the relationship is determined, the dog pushes them to trick them into investing money, which is called "killing pigs".
15 days, the latest time to kill a pig.
At the beginning, she will make money, and then say that it is too slow to make money this way, and for the sake of our future, we should do a big wave.
They will promise to come to her when they earn money, drive a Mercedes, go on vacation in the Maldives...
"It's called dreaming, and after dreaming, it basically won't wake her up."
The Wuhan woman, who was cheated of 370,000 yuan, also asked the dog to push "borrowed" 80,000 yuan. Of course, that 80,000 is just a virtual number.
The dog kept calling her to urge her to pay her money, scolding her for not having money to play anything? The woman on the other end of the scolding phone kept crying.
All this is done to make women feel guilty and blame themselves.
All the suspicions and thoughts of calling the police were completely gone after some accusations.
Women who have been killed by pig killers are called "pigs" by fraudsters, and after being deceived, the outside world will also laugh at them for being "too stupid".
However, in the elaborate pig-killing scam, it is difficult for women with high education or women with rich life experience in their forties and fifties to escape.
02▼ I love you, I am in danger: only you
Women who have seen the "Tinder Fraud King" live-action documentary may be shocked into a cold sweat.
In the film, Cecily is a master's student at the University of London, and through Tinder she meets a handsome man: Simon.
There are many photos in his homepage: wearing a variety of suits to business meetings, raising a glass and laughing at parties, traveling around the globe ...
During an hour of coffee in a luxury hotel, Cecily saw how gentle and polite this man was, and how successful he was—
The son of an Israeli diamond tycoon with $1.6 billion in assets, his family ranks 782 on the world's richest list.
Simon invites Cecily to join him on a private jet trip to Bulgaria, where the driver drives her home in a Rolls-Royce to pack her bags.
On a private jet, Cecily saw Simon's ex-wife and son.
The ex-wife told her that Simon was a very good dad and had been raising and caring for their mother and son even though they were separated.
Cecily marveled that this was a man of responsibility.
In Bulgaria, Simon looked affectionately at Cecily in the elevator and kissed her.
She said, "It was passionate, it was the perfect first kiss you could ever have." ”
During the relationship, Cecilia touched the scars on his back.
Simon's explanation for this was that he had been betrayed in South Africa, had been imprisoned, and because he was Jewish, he had been brutally treated in prison.
When the perfect man reveals his vulnerable side, Cecily thinks to herself, "This is the kind of person you want to save." ”
After establishing the relationship, Simon became a model boyfriend: sending messages in the morning and evening to say hello, explaining where he had gone, sending her photos and videos, often expressing thoughts and love, and sending her a big bouquet of roses.
He asked Cecily to find a cohabitation apartment for two people in London, with a budget of $15,000 a month.
At three o'clock in the morning, he flew to London to see her, and Cecily was so moved that she was about to cry: "So busy a man, said that he appeared." ”
What woman's heart wouldn't fall for it? Cecily added a small red heart to the note of his name.
After a month of dating, Simon said he was going to complete a $70 million deal project, but would run into all kinds of dangers.
Simon receives bullets in his mailbox, someone brings a funeral wreath, the enemy breaks into the apartment, the bodyguard Pete is shot, covered in blood...
Cecily had been in constant fear.
So when Simon told her that the enemy had targeted him based on his credit card spending records, hoping to borrow her credit card for two weeks. She didn't hesitate at all.
She kept applying for loans, and Simon kept giving comfort and commitment.
Simon is in a more dangerous situation and asks for more and more money, but Cecily can't stop:
"If he can't use that card anymore and something goes wrong, then he's in danger." What happens if I don't help him? ”
Credit cards were blown up one by one, and repayment slips kept coming. Faced with debt pressure, Cecily had to urge him to repay the loan, and finally Simon gave her a check, but when they met again, he was very cold.
Back in London, Cecily waited four days, but nothing happened to her account.
The bank told her that the check could not be cashed.
03▼ Love Ponzi scheme
In Sweden, Pete, a bloodied bodyguard, is sitting in the middle of a group of beautiful women.
And the man next to him in a suit and shoes, wearing sunglasses and smiling charmingly, is Simon.
Yes, they are all "actors" involved in this scam.
Simon, Pete and the other two ladies had a lovely summer. They traveled from France to Vienna, from Switzerland to Spain, and traveled most of Western Europe.
Cecily's $250,000 life-saving money is being generously squandered in the extravagant pleasures of parties, yachts, and trips.
One of the women, Penella, is a 31-year-old independent woman. What she asks of her partner is not to take care of her, but to be funny.
She and Simon met through Tinder, an hour of pleasant meeting and chatting that made Penella feel like they had known each other for 10 years.
They chatted frequently online, made voices, called, and he would fly in at 12:30 a.m. just to have a cup of coffee with her...
She then receives a distress message from Simon:
He was implicated in a diamond smuggling case, and when the police intervened, their accounts and credit cards were suspended, and his security was threatened.
Again and again, Peñera sent him money.
At that time, their relationship was only a confidant.
When the reporter contacted Penella to tell Simon her true identity, she didn't want to believe it. She went to ask Simon, who said it was the enemy taking information.
But reality forced her to believe. In order to get the reporter to capture Simon's footage, Penella pretended to trust him and dated him again.
In the familiar Munich restaurant, the waiter said, "Welcome back." ”
Penella was disgusted: Who's paying for this dinner tonight?
The money That Penilla "lent" to Simon is being spent on a girl named Irene, Czech.
They dated for 14 months, and Irene ended up cheating him out of $140,000.
Simon perfectly made a love version of the Ponzi scheme:
Spend Cecily's money on Peñella, use Penella's money on Irene...
When Cecilia and Penella reveal Simon's true colors, they receive a lot of ridicule.
"Women are really too gullible."
"Haha, waste! How naïve! ”
"Attract greedy people..."
"Only saw his money, gold worshipper, she deserves it!"
Those who ridicule and ridicule lightly define them as a gold-worshiping and stupid woman.
How would they know: Cecily, after learning she had been deceived, sent herself to a mental hospital. She looked at the fairy tales on her phone and couldn't delete the heart behind Simon's name.
When 30 professional fraudsters work together to "sincerely" plot to encircle and suppress a woman;
When a handsome man who packages himself impeccably is a thousand dollars for you, catching a plane late at night just to accompany you for a cup of coffee;
When he has imagined a wonderful future with you countless times, promising you to be the wife of the future, the mother of the child;
When the loved one is in danger, and his life hangs on the line, only you;
Expecting love and romance, who can be indifferent and remain rational and indifferent all the time?
They are just women who believe in love and indulge in it.
And why do women always gamble for love, reckless and fearless? Is it stupid, is it stupid?
Of course not!
It's just that since ancient times, women have been disciplined and bound by "love".
"Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", the most superficial old saying, limits the value and pursuit of women.
Even if you become an independent career woman, but you are older and single, you will inevitably endure irony and discussion.
When the liar uses feelings as a weapon to attack women, he seizes the lifeblood of most women -
A perfect partner, an ideal marriage, a full family, become something that women strive to struggle for.
Therefore, they must trust their partners, assist their partners, and get used to giving and giving willingly.
Like the Shanghai woman who jumped down, the Cecily who wanted to save her lover.
And what about men? They are fighting for power, wealth, status, reputation.
Once "the spring breeze is proud of horseshoe disease, a day to see all the Chang'an flowers" of the free and wanton, when is there a female figure?
And how can the ancient "Zhenjie Arch", today's "Jin Zhiying born in 82 years", and the female cage cast by history and society be broken?
Perhaps one day, when women are no longer attached to and submissive to love, feelings will no longer become a weapon to deceive and sway them.