I have heard many parents complain, saying that their children who have been raised with hard work and hard work will ignore their own love after their wings are hardened, in addition to asking for money, basically do not say more to their parents.
Some children grow up to have a career, or even go far away and fly high and never come back, they develop their own careers, enjoy their own lives, leave and cultivate his parents who love him, let them grow old and die in worry and loneliness.
Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong in "The World of Man" are not as ruthless and unjust as mentioned above, but it is definitely not enough to talk about their filial piety to their parents and their dedication to their families.
Among the 3 children of Zhou Bingyi, Zhou Rong and Zhou Bingkun, the daughter Zhou Rong is the one that her father Zhou Zhigang likes the most, she is smart and beautiful, even in that era of son preference, she still earned enough love from her parents.
However, she is so favored that she is the most ruthless of the 3 children.
For the sake of love, she can not quit and go far away, causing her father to be heartbroken, and her mother almost cried blind.
Even so, she was forgiven by her parents, whose love for their children was truly inclusive and great.
But later, for the sake of love and career, she threw her daughter Yue Yue to the family and asked her mother and brother to help her take care of the children.
Throughout, she has not contributed to the family, but has constantly failed and asked for it.
Later, she was admitted to college and won the glory of the family, but her husband betrayed her, and her daughter's personality was as selfish and unscrupulous as hers, probably the biggest punishment for her.
Zhou Bingyi is the eldest brother and the most prominent child in the family, and he has risen step by step in the political circles and become the greatest pride of his father Zhou Zhigang.
However, in front of his powerful father-in-law, he also lowered his eyebrows, which made his parents and brothers angry. That feeling of being inferior and unworthy of being a relative was the biggest dissatisfaction in Zhou Zhigang's heart.
Obviously, Dongmei can't have children, Zhou Bingyi is still willing to take the initiative to carry this pot, in the matter of passing on the lineage, Zhou Bingyi has not fulfilled his responsibility, if there is no Zhou Bingkun, is the Zhou family going to die?
The goal and wish of many parents is to cultivate their children into talents, so that they can have a career and shine on the lintel.
But when the child is really shining on the lintel, they find that something is wrong, and they seem to be more eager for the child to be with him and filial piety before the bed than to have a chance.
Zhou Bingkun is the least valued and least recognized of the 3 children.
His academic performance from an early age was not good, there was no cultural heritage, and then Zhou Rong ran away, and he became the only child who stayed at home, which to a certain extent led to his backwardness in career and knowledge.
Compared with his brothers and sisters, his various backwardness is particularly obvious, because of the gap in achievements, his father Zhou Zhigang even behaved realistically, which made Zhou Bingkun particularly aggrieved.
Although ten fingers have a length and a shortness, parents should still treat them equally, a bowl of water is flat, and should not favor one over the other because the child's excellence is different, which will cause harm to the child.
Although Zhou Bingkun is not a college student and his education level is not high, he is a hero who deserves no choice but to talk about filial piety and dedication to his family.
His mother suffered a cerebral hemorrhage because Zhou Rong was arrested, and in order not to worry his father and brothers and sisters, he took care of the family alone, took care of his mother, and took care of his niece's burden.
When Zhou Zhigang, Zhou Bingyi, and Zhou Rong were busy developing, Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan really did their often accompany each other and do filial piety in front of the bed.
The mother miraculously woke up, thanks to their non-giving up and careful care.
Seeing this, do you think that raising a son like Zhou Bingkun is the most gratifying thing for parents?
And Zhou Bingkun is not bad, in order to make his father recognize himself, in order to prove himself, he worked hard to make money, changed the big house for the family, and gave the family better care.
He is the most supreme child in this family, the child who deserves the pride of his parents, just like his mother said, he is the baby knot in her heart.
In fact, I think that many parents lack far-reaching nature in the treatment of children's education, among the 3 factors of morality, wisdom and body, morality should be ranked first, and wisdom is secondary, if the cart is reversed, blindly requiring children to have achievements and ignoring moral education, then it is very likely to cultivate a child who is ungrateful and does not understand filial piety.
In all education and cultivation, the virtue of filial piety is what parents should instill in their children the most, which is more important than any knowledge.
Children have a career, not the ultimate wish of parents, know how to be grateful, know how to return is the glory of human nature, Zhou Zhigang did not understand until the end!