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Zhang Mou, a hospital doctor, has been in the industry for decades to see life and death parting, and what makes him feel sad is that his 72-year-old father was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer one day, and after the painful chemotherapy was over, he was rechecked, cancer

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Zhang Mou, a hospital doctor, has been practicing for decades to see life and death parting, what makes him feel sad is that his 72-year-old father was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer one day, and after the painful chemotherapy was rechecked, the cancer cells still spread, in the last days of his father, Zhang decided to go through the discharge procedures and take his father to travel.

Zhang Mou, is a cardiologist, because of the busy work, the 72 old father care is limited, Zhang knows that the old father has been in good health, but every year will let him go to the hospital regularly for physical examination, for the father's physical condition he is still very sure.

Until one day, Zhang's mother called and said that Zhang's father had a strange body, often abdominal pain and bloating, and his appetite had dropped a lot.

Zhang Mou was busy evaluating the title at that time, and he also felt that his father was only not old, and he had some indigestion, so he asked his mother to take his father to the hospital to check and prescribe some medicine.

At that time, the mother dragged his father to the hospital for examination, Zhang Mou's father was troublesome, and he was afraid of disturbing his son's work, so he bought some stomach medicine to eat, and things passed for a while.

Until Zhang Mou returned home for the New Year, he found that his father's body was already very serious, and he could not eat or drink, and Zhang Quickly took his father to the hospital for examination.

After doing a check-up in the hospital, the results came out a few days later, Zhang saw the results, collapsed instantly, and had advanced stomach cancer. After knowing the result, Zhang Moudun beat his chest with his feet, extremely remorseful, and hated himself for not noticing earlier.

The father also comforted his son, saying that he was old, and when he got old, he would definitely get sick, and it would not be a big deal to cure him when he was sick. Zhang Mou, seeing that his father's mentality was very good, his mood slowly eased down, and he began to arrange for his father to be hospitalized.

Unexpectedly, the father in the hospital chemotherapy for three months, the effect is extremely poor, the side effects are very large, the father is extremely painful, the body is particularly weak, the weight plummeted, from 140 pounds of hospitalization to 80 pounds, barely able to drink a bowl of porridge every day, eat too much to vomit, walk can only rely on a wheelchair.

Zhang Mou's father's painful chemotherapy was reviewed after the end, and the attending doctor, Dr. Chen, said that Zhang Mou's father's cancer cells had spread, and time was running out, so Zhang Mou was mentally prepared.

Zhang Mou's heart was painful, and he returned to the ward to see his father's pained look, so he made a difficult decision, went through the discharge procedures, and took his father on a trip.

My father worked hard for himself all his life and never enjoyed life well. Very early on, my father had a wish to travel abroad to see it and then go to the capital to take a look.

Zhang Mou only wants to be in his father's last days, do not want him to be tortured again, complete his wish, and fulfill his son's final filial piety.

Zhang Mou arranged the work well, and his family told him about his decision, which was opposed by the whole family, and the family was worried about his father's physical condition, and his father was already very weak and afraid that he could not withstand the toss.

However, my father still agreed to go out for a walk, he really did not want to continue to suffer in the last days of the hospital, he just wanted to take advantage of the short opportunity to go out and walk.

Zhang Mou was very uncomfortable at that time, said to go away, in order to reassure his family, Zhang Mou made a comprehensive plan, bought a ticket to the scenic spot, scenic spot to the nearest hospital, Zhang Mou made sufficient preparations.

After applying for a passport with his father and packing his bags, Zhang took his father and mother to Australia.

The first time he went abroad, Zhang's father was very excited, like a child, and took out the diary he carried with him and wrote down the first enthusiastic diary of going abroad.

Zhang Mou secretly covered his face and cried, and his father wanted to leave these beautiful memories in the last days.

During the journey, my father was like an old child, excited, the first time in his life was realized here, the first time to play in the sand on the beach, the first time to play on a yacht, the first time to wear a flower shirt and pants, the first time to camp, the father seemed to forget the pain of the body.

Zhang Mou was then surprised to find that at this time, his father seemed to have changed into a person, and the amount of food had increased a little, learning English with his mother, learning to draw, playing the flute, playing the guitar, and living a colorful life every day.

A month later, Zhang took his father back to the motherland, watched a flag-raising ceremony in the capital, and climbed the Great Wall, which were all wishes that his father wanted to realize in his dreams.

At five o'clock in the morning that day, Zhang took his father to the capital Tiananmen Square, lined up to watch the Tiananmen flag-raising ceremony, Zhang always protected his father, held his father's hand, when the national anthem sounded, the five-star red flag slowly raised, his father's eyes were moist.

The father was tormented by the disease and never cried, and the father shed tears for the first time in his life, which Zhang Had never seen before.

That night, staying in a hotel, the father suddenly fainted, Zhang quickly took his father to the hospital, more than a month later, after the doctor tried to heal, did not save the father's life, the father left.

While Zhang Mou cried bitterly and sadly, he felt very fortunate that he could accompany his father in his last days, fulfill all his wishes, and let his father leave without regrets.

He was most afraid that his son would want to raise and not wait for him, and he could fulfill his filial piety before his father's death, which made him feel better in his heart.

Some cancer patients have said that when the cancer is advanced, there seem to be countless insects in the stomach, sore and painful, and it seems that there are knives cutting, and even breathing is painful. The cancer becomes advanced, the pain is so painful that I want to die, and at the end of life, I can't feel anything except the pain of drilling my heart.

In his father's last days, Zhang did not let his father continue to suffer, and chose to treat his father peacefully, so that his father could walk with more dignity. What do you think about that? Feel free to leave a message in the comment area. #Cancer#Emotion##老年人 #

Zhang Mou, a hospital doctor, has been in the industry for decades to see life and death parting, and what makes him feel sad is that his 72-year-old father was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer one day, and after the painful chemotherapy was over, he was rechecked, cancer

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