You are a daughter, you are still a wife; you are a mother, you are still a worker; you are a daughter-in-law, you are also a child. As we get older, almost everyone will wear multiple jobs. In every "position", who doesn't want to be the perfect one? However, people's energy and time are limited, and what they can really accomplish is also limited. Instead of seeking perfection in everything, it is better to grasp the main points. The more you think about perfection, the harder it is to get everything. Life cannot be perfect, regret is the norm in life.