I'm an older leftover woman, 39 years old, yesterday I was on a blind date with a man who earns $2 million a year, we felt quite talkative, I went to the bathroom once in the middle of the meal, waiting for me to come back

I'm an older leftover woman, 39 years old, yesterday I was dating a man with an annual income of 2 million, we felt quite talkative, I went to the bathroom once in the middle of the meal, and when I came back he was already paying the bill and suddenly said that we were not suitable. I asked him why, but I didn't expect that what he said next made me stunned and incomprehensible...

My name is Lily, I am 39 years old, and I am a complete leftover girl in the eyes of everyone. I am an executive in a company with an annual salary of 300,000, although I am running to the age of 4, but I am not in a hurry at all, first, because I have an absolute advantage. Height 1 meter 65, weight only 90 pounds, the face is also a baby-shaped face, can not see the appearance of nearly 40 years old, others from the back said that I am a 20-year-old girl. The second is that I am now very independent, can support myself enough, and the conditions can be said to be very superior.

In fact, I talked about a boyfriend before, he was a classmate of mine in college. It was also my first love, the young man was impulsive and irrational, and we didn't talk long before we lived together. Later, facing graduation, his parents could not tolerate me being a girl from other places, he did not want to embarrass his parents, I liked that he did not want to embarrass him, I felt that loving someone was not to possess him, but to give him happiness, so I took the initiative to break up with him.

After the breakup, I was very sad, because he was my first love, there was really no way to let go of him, so I didn't want to talk about my boyfriend anymore, I think it didn't matter if I didn't talk about my boyfriend, but the elders in the family didn't agree, especially my mother always said that it was difficult for women to have children when they were older, and advised me to marry myself out before the age of 40. It wasn't until yesterday afternoon that the servants arrived home, and my mother quickly came over to me and told me that I must go on a blind date with a man at night.

He said that the boy was very handsome and had an annual salary of more than 2 million. I wanted to hold on to him, but he had the same flaw, which was that he had been divorced once and had a two-year-old child. I was very uncomfortable when I heard it, can't I really get married? Divorced men were also introduced to me. I couldn't let go of my ex-boyfriend in my heart, but watching my mother's old sideburns grow white hair was a bit unbearable, and my mother really for my business, so I had to agree to come down and meet him.

I didn't dress up before I went out, just casually put on a light makeup, put on a pink trench coat and went out, came to the restaurant and walked directly to the boy opposite, I think from the moment I entered the door, his eyes never left me, I think his first impression of me must be very satisfied. Sure enough, as soon as I sat down, he bluntly praised me, you look really beautiful, there is a kind of traditional beauty of Chinese women.

It didn't look like I was deliberately dressed, but it was much better than the attractive women who dressed up, I liked this natural beauty, and then he asked me to order food very gentlemanly, I ordered a bottle of red wine and a few dishes and desserts that I loved. During the meal, the two of us had a very pleasant chat, because we were all working in other places and had a wide range of knowledge, and there was naturally no obstacle to chatting. Originally, I came with the attitude of giving money to my mother, but this man did move my heart a little.

I am a face-looking person, and he is indeed too handsome. I feel like I'm about to enter my next relationship and finally be able to step out of my ex-boyfriend's shadow. I think he is also very satisfied with me, this is not my narcissism, is there a sense of certainty, halfway through the meal the waiter began to serve desserts, I suddenly a little anxious, I was anxious to go to the bathroom. After greeting him, when I got up and left, I felt that his eyes had not left, and he had been watching me.

I think he was simply so happy with me. But within 5 minutes of waiting for me to come out of the bathroom, he was already paying the bill and had already settled the bill. I was very puzzled and confused. This dessert that has just been served, I have not yet begun to taste it, such an expensive thing, it is impossible to let it be so wasteful. I was just about to ask him what was going on, but he suddenly said to me: Let's do this today, the two of us are not suitable, let's disperse.

I looked at him in a daze, just wanted to ask him what happened, wasn't it good just now? He didn't answer my words but asked me back, you tell me how old you are this year, I casually said I'm 39 years old, is there a problem? It turned out that my mother told him that I was only 30 years old this year. And he suddenly asked me a question, you've lived with men before. Seeing him suddenly take a sharp turn, and hearing him ask this question again, I was a little scared.

I said it's all the 21st century, what's wrong with living together? Cohabitation is not against the law, and it is not unusual. I didn't expect that his next words would leave me stunned and incomprehensible. He was very proud and analyzed with me the reasons why we were not suitable.

One: You are an old woman who is almost 40 years old, although she looks a little posture. But there is still a hundred and eighteen thousand miles away from the woman I am looking for. I'm a guy with $2 million a year, why not go find a younger girl? The young girls were all lining up behind me, why should I go looking for a second-hand goods, my brain was kicked by a donkey.

Two: But then again, even if I could accept you as an old woman who is almost 40 years old, I can't accept that you've talked about a boyfriend, let alone that you've lived with your boyfriend. Even if I'm a divorced man, even if I still have a child, you're not my dish, it's a waste of my time, and after saying that I left in anger, leaving me stunned there.

I just want to ask, how can there be such a strange man? Are the two of us really not a good fit? Is cohabitation really unpopular before marriage?

From the perspective of a bystander, the two of you are indeed inappropriate, perhaps the three views of your love are inconsistent, the two of you do not know each other at all, only through blind dates, where can we talk about understanding? Both of you should find a like-minded person, marriage can be long-lasting, especially girls have many advantages, you have to let the other party feel your advantages first, the other party can accept you unconditionally, although the man's words are very blunt, a little hurtful, but it is indeed the truth, before marriage cohabitation There are many men can not accept, so women still have to be conservative, to know self-love, so that they can have enough dignity in marriage! #情感 #