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The ancients had five tricks to deal with the "bear child", only the last trick was advisable, and the others should not be learned

Children are obedient to attract people's likes, but "bear children" always make people "can't love". The topic of "bear children" causing trouble in society is not uncommon, and almost everyone has been bullied by "bear children". At this time, a question naturally arises, how to deal with the "bear child"? The ancients once came up with five "tricks". As for what are these "tricks"? If you want to know, let Xiaobian reveal the secret for you:

The ancients had five tricks to deal with the "bear child", only the last trick was advisable, and the others should not be learned

The term "bear child" originates from the Internet, "bear child" refers to those naughty and disobedient children, these children are often extremely curious, a careless may give parents a catastrophe, and even endanger social public order, belongs to the "time bomb" hidden in society.

How to deal with "bear children"? Modern people must have a headache about this, in "he is still a child", "You are such a big person, how can you see it like a child?" In the condemnation, many people often think that they are unlucky and swallow their anger, which can really be described as "dumb eating yellow lian, and suffering cannot be said." There are "bear children" in modern times, and there are also "bear children" in ancient times, but compared with modern civilized society, the ancients are really not "habitual", and the measures taken are also quite spicy. Let's talk in detail about the way the ancients dealt with "bear children":

One, one fight, no, two

As the saying goes, "the stick makes filial piety", although the way to beat children is spurned by modern society, we have to admit that this is undoubtedly the simplest and most direct way to educate children and achieve quick results. Boys after the 80s and 90s have almost been "educated" by the sticks of their parents at home, and they have also changed many mistakes and vices.

The ancients had five tricks to deal with the "bear child", only the last trick was advisable, and the others should not be learned

Although Nezha in "The Evolution of the Fengshen Gods" is defined by later generations as the image of a "little hero", in essence, he is still a "bear child". Nezha made a big fuss in the East China Sea, killed the third prince of the Dragon King, peeled off the dragon skin, and pulled out the dragon tendons, and the cruelty of the means was unbearable to look at. In this regard, his father Li Jing actually had no choice but to beat him up. However, Nezha was originally an immortal body, and he was not afraid of Li Jing's whipping at all, but thanks to the lantern Daoist who gave Li Jing a pagoda, he was able to completely subdue Nezha. It can be seen that there is no "bear child" that cannot be solved by a stick, and if there is, it will be beaten twice.

Second, let the child make the bad things bigger

The famous "Zheng Boke Duan Yu Yan" story is the best example of the best "what you want to get with". "Bear children" do bad things are hateful, some people are eager to beat them up, but many people do the opposite, making it difficult for children to realize their mistakes, making them mistakes again and again, and finally making bad things big and self-destructive.

The ancients had five tricks to deal with the "bear child", only the last trick was advisable, and the others should not be learned

In the late Qin Dynasty, when Han Xin was sleeping under the tree, he was drenched in urine by a "bear child" who stood on the tree and urinated, and Han Xin did not laugh angrily and rewarded this "bear child" with a few copper coins. The "bear child" was even more unscrupulous from then on, and finally spilled urine on Xiang Yu's head, and the overlord was furious, and immediately drew his sword and hacked him to death.

3. Falsely elevating their identity

"Bear children" often have resistance to the words of rebuke, as the saying goes, "along with the delicious, horizontal is difficult to swallow", often deal with "bear children", but also need to "say good things smoothly". Jia Baoyu in "Dream of the Red Chamber" is a veritable "bear child", once on the way with his family, he had to ride a high-headed horse.

The ancients had five tricks to deal with the "bear child", only the last trick was advisable, and the others should not be learned

Many elders reprimanded him, afraid that he would be in danger, but Jia Baoyu did not listen to the advice at all, but instead cried and cried incessantly. At this time, Wang Xifeng said: "Baoyu cannot be created, you see that the people riding horses are all clumsy and reckless, how can you be with them?" Jia Baoyu looked at himself very highly, and after listening to Wang Xifeng's words, he obediently returned to the car and did not want to ride a horse again.

Fourth, a knife to death, never a trouble

The best way to deal with the "bear child" should be to "slash to death with a knife and never have any trouble", so that you don't have to be bothered by the "bear child". Although cutting grass and removing roots may seem cruel and inhumane, it is indeed a once and for all radical solution.

The ancients had five tricks to deal with the "bear child", only the last trick was advisable, and the others should not be learned

Liu Yu, the eighth emperor of the Liu Song dynasty, was a "bear child", and Xiao Daocheng held the military and political power at that time, which disgusted the little emperor. In order to get rid of Xiao Daocheng, the little emperor Liu Yu clamored all day to kill Xiao Daocheng, and even made the other party into a wooden man, shooting it with arrows all day long. Xiao Daocheng had a premonition that his life was imminent, and finally simply launched a coup d'état and killed the "bear child" Liu Yu in advance.

Fifth, adhere to the bottom line, can not blindly coddle

Children do not understand the truth of the world, what kind of environment will create what kind of children. "Bear children" blindly ask for from their parents, if the parents have always met their conditions, it is likely to make the "bear children" become a small bully, and one day once the parents cannot meet the wishes of the children, the children may jump like thunder, and then make excessive moves.

The ancients had five tricks to deal with the "bear child", only the last trick was advisable, and the others should not be learned

Emperor Zhongzong of Tang favored his daughter Princess Anle and not only built a luxurious mansion for her, but also rewarded her with a large amount of gold and silver jewelry every year, which can really be described as "holding it in the palm of his hand for fear of falling off, and holding it in his mouth for fear of melting". However, Li Xian's actions made Princess Anle become fearless from then on, and actually asked Li Xian to make herself the "Imperial Lady". In the face of such an indecent request, Li Xian finally kept the bottom line, sternly rejected his daughter, and no longer coddled her.

Raising children is a major event in life, parents must also continue to learn, only in a good educational environment, children can thrive, not become "bear children". As for the above five "tricks" of the ancients, the first four are obviously not the best way to educate, but the fifth can benefit friends who have just become fathers and mothers.

Wen xiucai, editor-in-chief of Wenlan Hairun Studio, written by: Special history writer: Changshan Zhao Zi worm

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