Hello, good morning, it's the 47th day of the morning. It is said that the parents' thinking determines how far the children's road can go, which is really particularly reasonable, there are two parents A and B, the children are addicted to the game can not extricate themselves, the academic performance is plummeting, in addition to playing the game life there is no other fun, parents said that the fight also hit, but still can not solve the problem. So parents have decided to help their children get through this.
A parents spend a lot of money to forcibly send their children to a militarized network school, and after the children come out, they really no longer play games. A child who used to be good, now can't even laugh, most of the time is sitting, not talking. When you see a stick, you scream and shrink yourself into a ball. Usually, I will listen to my parents, my parents point to the east, and my children dare not go west. Is such an obedient, well-behaved child what parents think? The child's parents say they regret it now and should not send their child to a school to quit Internet addiction. It's too late to make amends. What was originally a healthy child now has mental problems. It also reminds other parents to take the right view of children who play games online and who are addicted to the Internet. Children love to play mobile phones, mothers do not want to guide children and educate children, but sent to the School of Internet Addiction, this kind of education is a typical "throwing pot" education.
Parents B also took various measures after learning that their children were addicted to the Internet and did not return, so parents made in-depth communication with their children. Finally reported to the child network programming, the child thought that anyway is playing with the computer, decided to try it, did not expect the child to fall in love with programming. I am very serious about the courses of the interest class, and when I go home, I will take the initiative to find some programming-related exercises to practice by myself. Kids start to make a name for themselves in various programming competitions. The child was eventually sent to Tsinghua because of his excellent programming.
Parent A and Parent B think differently, resulting in different actions taken, and the results are naturally very different.
Today saw a news, there is a bear child often steal the takeaway ordered by the neighbor, the result of this time because the egg tart is too spicy to live in the hospital, the medical expenses spent more than 2,000, the parents of the bear child are not happy, thinking that this medical fee can not be out of their own, immediately went to the court to sue the neighbor, the reason is: no one will put pepper in the egg tart, the neighbor is deliberately letting his child eat bad stomach, my child stole your takeaway I can pay you takeaway money, but you have to compensate us for medical expenses.
After reading this news, I said that I listened to my primary school student, and he simply shook his head and said that the parent education was too failed, and his own children stole the takeaway ordered by others more than once, and actually had the good intention of making a claim. Really, there must be bear parents behind every bear child, and when the child steals the first bite of the egg tart, it must be spicy, and the child himself still endures to eat all three. Who is responsible, don't you have points in your heart? If something goes wrong, don't find the reason from yourself first, and the takeaway of others is not in line with your own children's appetite. This kind of theft of children, parents as guardians not only do not criticize, but also have the face to sue others, which is really selfish and selfish. His thinking is that he will never have a problem, and the problems are all others. Always throwing the pot to each other.
On the contrary, when I went out to eat yesterday, I met a bao mom with a 5-year-old son who was also eating, and the son accidentally spilled the rice high, and the waiter wanted to come over to clean up, and the mother said: "Let the child clean it up by himself, he does his own thing to level." And his son was also happy to clean up the mess. This mother handled it particularly well and cultivated the child's courageous and responsible character.
Parents who are good at "throwing the pot" do not have the ability to lead by example and subtly influence their children. When children's behavior goes off track, they are willing to give up the right to education. When he was young, he asked the police to help educate, went to school hoping that the teacher could educate his children, and when he became an adult, he let the society educate his children. Professor Li Meijin once said that every psychological and behavioral problem of a child is related to the parents' education methods. When such parents encounter problems, they never look for the cause from themselves, but habitually blame other people for their mistakes, on external factors, they have no sense of responsibility, lack of responsibility. Such children brought up by parents have also become selfish, evade responsibility, blindly blame others when they encounter problems, and become "giant babies" and annoying "bear children" who will never grow up.
Stay away from the person who throws the pot, do not be the pot thrower, use your own courage to take responsibility and lead by example to influence the child, and be an inclusive and peaceful person. Be a wise and responsible parent.
It's the 47th day of early rise. I hope that everyone will have something to gain, pay tribute to everyone who has worked hard for life, and thank every worker in the war and epidemic for their efforts and perseverance. Happy May Day! May you have a wonderful holiday and we will see you tomorrow.