How to cure a bear child at home? When a bear child asks for attention and hugs, what should parents do?
I believe that people who have been parents have experienced that it is most difficult to control when children make emotions, and some bear children have tried their best to achieve their goals, and even do not hesitate to sit on the ground and roll.
Let's take a look at the video below to see what bear children do when they get emotional.
In the video, a small baby follows behind his father, the father may be walking a little fast without caring about the small treasure behind him, the baby shouts for the father to wait for him while constantly trotting with the footsteps of the father.
But Dad still didn't turn back to him. This time Xiao Bao was not happy, ahem, I told you to wait for me, you still go forward, then I don't believe it, I have to let you pay attention to me.
After saying that, Xiao Bao directly lay on the ground, unable to roll, thinking: This time My father should always notice me, you ignore me, I just can't get up.
Ben was angry. Dad finally saw Xiao Bao, who was lying on the ground in an emotional mood, and came forward to let the baby get up first. But the baby's emotions also came, no matter how it was called, it couldn't get up.
Finally, the stalemate lasted for a long time, the father could only pick up the baby, hold it forward, full of helplessness, maybe the father also said to the baby that he fell to the ground and fell to the ground without any resistance.
Children are often upset, they can't control their emotions, and they will always do some behaviors that give their parents a headache.
In the face of children's emotions, how should parents deal with it better?
1. Be patient and don't counter violence with violence
Seeing the child throwing around and falling to the ground, many parents were instantly ignited with anger and were eager to directly pick up the child and be grumpy.
In fact, this is not right, when the child is emotional, it is their lowest mood, the child is small, the tantrum is also a reason, is the inner needs are not met, they hope to get the attention of parents through their own behavior.
At this time, if you only use violence to subdue the child, it will make the child feel more aggrieved, not only the emotions are not appeased, but it will be more intense.
When the child lies down on the spot, or cries incessantly, parents must first control their emotions, keep the same height distance from the child, and can crouch down close to the child.
Patiently asking the baby why he is unhappy, finding out the child's appeal, and then controlling their mood will make the child calm down a lot.
2. Companionship and communication
Children's ability to manage their emotions is very poor, they are not very good at expressing, can only use behavior to protest to their parents, when the child cries and makes a fuss, parents may wish to accompany them quietly.
Let them first release the grievances in their hearts by crying, all we have to do is to watch silently and help them wipe their tears, but don't stop crying.
Only when children fully release their inner emotions can they listen to the preaching of adults.
Seeing that the child's mood gradually calms down, parents try to communicate with them again, ask the reason clearly, give the correct preaching, believe that the child can hear the heart, and accept the parents' education.
3. The child is overly emotional and uncompromising
When the child is still crying no matter what he says, or no matter how he comforts the child, he still has no intention of stopping, parents should not compromise to appease.
At this time, choose cold treatment and observe silently on the side. Be resolute, don't be soft when you hear children crying, and let them understand that wanton crying can't solve the problem.
And Mom and Dad will never tolerate unreasonable demands. The child has cried enough to see the uncompromising attitude of the parents, and the next time it will be a lot more restrained.
Controlling your child's emotions requires skill, and I hope you can all be wise parents.