The energy of the bear child is really not small.
In a high-end residential area in Guangzhou, two bear children looked at the Mercedes-Benz logo, and after some action, the results were brilliant.
14 luxury cars suffered, the logo was broken, and 3 of them were not broken, but they were also distorted.
Among the damaged luxury cars, there were also two Maybach logos. One of the Maybach is the classic 62S, which has been discontinued, and it takes more than 150,000 to replace a front-end standard.
Counting down, the bear child's tossing and turning, compensation needs hundreds of thousands.
Fortunately, the attitude of the parents of the children was commendable, and they took the initiative to apologize in the owner group and punished the two children fiercely.
The parents' behavior has been praised by the owners of the community, and I believe that it has also given the two bear children a profound lesson.
A Mercedes-Benz owner in a community in Chongqing is not so lucky, his Mercedes-Benz GLS is parked in the community, but he was thrown by a bear child on the upper floor of the community, smashed through the roof, smashed the glass, and the maintenance cost was tens of thousands.
When the owner of the car finds the parent through monitoring, the parent admits that the child is littered, but is unwilling to compensate, on the grounds that the child does not understand things when he goes to kindergarten, and it is not intentional.
Even a tough attitude said that he has no money, since the owner can drive such a good car, there must be insurance, ask the owner to report the insurance to solve.
The way the two parents deal with it, the judgment is high.
Parents are using their words and deeds to give their children the best example.
When encountering problems and taking responsibility, such children are now "bears", but they can correct mistakes in time, give punishment and guidance under the education of their parents, and children can see the right practices and change their behavior.
And the parent who is looking for various reasons in order not to lose money, what kind of words and deeds will the child make in the future when he sees such a demonstration?
One thing is clear, if the child's behavior is not corrected in time, I am afraid that in the future, it will only bring more serious consequences and bear a greater price.
What is education?
The first is to dare to take responsibility,
Why do many people hate this sentence so much: "He's still a child!" ”
Behind this sentence, there is such a logic: the child is small, do not understand things, you are an adult, you must let him, do not see with him in general, otherwise it is your adult's fault, you have no vision and no heart...
Therefore, this sentence became the sword of Fengfang, and whoever saw whom was intimidated was not allowed to say no.
It's breathtaking!
Last year, at a bookstore in Wukesong, Beijing, a boy read English aloud for an hour or two, and when the staff politely reminded him not to read it aloud so as not to affect others, the boy's behavior was unexpected.
He angrily pointed at the staff's nose and scolded:
You me? I smoke you, believe it or not? Complain about you! ”
The staff member smiled and said, "You are too loud to disturb other customers, so please be quiet." ”
At this time, a lady who is suspected of being the parent of the boy not only did not have any action to stop and apologize, but also constantly emphasized that "he is still just a child", and the other side reached out and put her arm around the boy: "Don't care about him, you are busy with yours." ”
What is the use of such a child reading more books?
Under such family education, children have no fear, no rules for doing things, and lack a sense of boundaries.
Do you really want to say it like that sentence: As a parent, if you don't educate your children well, society and others will educate you in the future.
A person with character, his future life, will continue to meet noble people.
Because he makes people feel at ease and trusted, his character is his own reputation.
We train our children to obey the rules, may eat the small losses in front of us, and others do not follow the rules to take advantage of loopholes and take advantage.
But, such a cheap drill, is it really good?
A bear child to a giant baby may be just one step away
Bear children do not have a good family education in time, bear children to become giant babies, that is, one step away,
Bear children who are not disciplined ultimately bring endless regret to their parents.
In Foshan, a driver driving a heavy tractor was stopped and inspected by traffic police, and the driver's license presented was found to be abnormal, which was later confirmed to be forged.
The driver, accompanied by his parents, went to the traffic police brigade to deal with it, and when he learned that a fine of 5,000 and 15 days of administrative detention were required, the parents were very emotional:
"You guys are going too far, he's still a kid, he's only 31 years old!" Why are you punishing so heavily? ”
Behind this kind of words and deeds, can we see the way parents treat their children?
When a child is a child, when a child does something wrong, the parents' attitude is that he is still a child and he does not understand things.
When they have reached adulthood, their parents still cover up and connive with such an attitude, and this "child" is spoiled by his parents and becomes a giant baby.
In July 2019, the sensational Shanghai "Wife Killing and Hiding Body Freezer Case" was sentenced in the second instance, and the defendant Zhu Xiaodong was executed. This Zhu Xiaodong, because he quarreled with his wife at home, actually strangled his wife to death in one breath, hid the body in the freezer, and then for three months, pretended to be his wife to contact his family and friends on the Internet until the East Window incident.
After the incident, Zhu Xiaodong's mother said that her son had no intention of killing people, but only "strangled his wife in a panic."
Mother Zhu also said: The son has always been very well-behaved and timid, he is afraid, he is also a child.
It is this very well-behaved and timid son, after killing his wife, he also takes his wife's ID card to open a room with other women, and transfers the money in his wife's card to his own account for himself to play the whole country.
Zhu Xiaodong's mother, defending her son, said he was a child. When questioned why the son spends his daughter-in-law's money, he is right: she is not a child anymore.
After that, he stressed again, "Besides, before this incident, my son was very well-behaved and considerate. ”
I don't know if this Mother Zhu knows how Mother Yang heard such words and how her liver and intestines were cut off.
Her daughter, who was "inadvertently killed" by her son-in-law, and then said by her mother-in-law, it seems that why her daughter has this fate, she blames herself more.
Of course, in the end, Zhu Xiaodong also paid the price of his life, but such a price was inevitably too tragic.
Bear children are not afraid, but we should not be bear parents
As parents, of course, we want our children to have a safe and healthy life and a happy and happy life.
And this happiness code is actually hidden in our company with our children, and also in our words and deeds.
The flapping wings of a butterfly in the Americas can set off fierce winds and waves in distant Asia.
This is the butterfly effect.
In the same way, the root of all the great things, good things, and happy things in the future comes from our present little things, ordinary things, and daily things.
We can cultivate kindness, love, and filial piety in our children from an early age.
On the lively streets, children greet a cute cartoon doll.
The doll uncle took a leaflet to the child, who turned around and gave it to Grandma.
Then, he bowed to his uncle.
Kid, you're a tutored kid!
On the side of the road, a grandfather riding a tricycle, the rear wheel is stuck on the curb, and the grandmother sitting on the car is also immobile.
At this time, a mother driving a motorcycle drove by with her child.
The mother approached the old people and stopped the motorcycle.
Gently, help pushed a hand, solved the problem of the old people.
The child sitting in the back of the car, it all looked into the eyes.
I think that when he encounters such a thing in the future, he will also do his best to help people in need.
There are many things like this,
When crossing the street, the mother takes the child to bow to the driver who gives way, which is the best demonstration for the child. Such a child is an angel.
A 7- or 8-year-old boy found that the plastic mat at the entrance was tilted in a corner, and he did not hesitate to smooth the mat with his feet.
It's just a matter of lifting our feet, but it allows us to see a well-bred child.
A well-educated child must be a quality family behind him.
Smart parents know that when a child makes a mistake and says, "He's still a child," it's the most unwise thing to do.
The best thing to do is to admit mistakes, apologize, and correct them.
Tell your child what is the right thing to do.
In doing so, we sow the seeds of happiness for our children and are the most responsible parents.
We are not afraid of bear children, who did not have a bear when they were young?
However, we hope that behind this bear child, there are parents who are brave, responsible, loving and have a sense of rules.
From bear children to giant babies,
The key is to look at the parents!
Ting Dad, the 8-year-old daughter's grandfather, the creator of the high-quality parenting field, the family education instructor, the uncle of the post-70s, the parenting and education masters who love and think, welcome to pay attention, forward, like and comment, more parenting and education issues can communicate with me. Make parenting easier and education more effective