Marriage begins with communication and ends with silence. Sometimes silence is the most terrible violence, because you never know what form it will take and when.
Marriage is a special kind of social relationship, a connection established by two people who are not related by blood. Unlike the blood that cannot be chosen, marriage is a common choice of both parties, and after choosing each other to become their partners for the rest of their lives, the two parties should understand each other and understand each other, because any contradiction is better than looking good.
However, love often makes people lose their minds, for whatever reason, when love becomes a bondage, the companionship of day and night becomes a kind of torture, and the original beauty is no longer there, replaced by inexplicable hatred, and tragedy is brewing in such an environment.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > blind love</h1>
In 1987, Yang Liping was born in an ordinary family in Shanghai, and when he was very young, because the family was demolished, her parents entrusted Yang Liping to her grandmother in order to facilitate her enrollment.
Because her parents are not around, Xiao Yang Liping is more shy than her peers, and she stays with her grandmother every day except for school.
Later, with the completion of the relocation house, Yang Liping briefly returned to her parents, but soon after she was admitted to the middle school near her grandmother's house, in order to facilitate schooling, she moved back to her grandmother's house, only occasionally returning home on weekends.
The cultivation of personality is inseparable from the environment of growth, because the lack of parental companionship in childhood, Yang Liping has developed an independent and introverted personality.
After graduating from Normal University, Yang Liping became a primary school teacher as she wished, and after her stable career, Yang Liping had no worries, and she also began to look for her own Prince Charming.
However, limited by social circles and professional reasons, there are very few marriageable men around her, in order to expand the range of choices, introverted and shy, she also began to take the initiative to participate in some friend gatherings, a chance, she met Zhu Xiaodong.
Except for the same year as Yang Liping, Zhu Xiaodong no longer had any similarities between the two. One is a school teacher, the other is an unemployed young man with secondary school work, if it were not for this encounter, the lives of the two may never intersect.
But it was this casual glance that made Yang Liping completely fall in love. Although Zhu Xiaodong has no education and no job, but his appearance is still quite beautiful, he has participated in some talent shows before, and Yang Liping, who was blinded by love, soon became married to Zhu Xiaodong, but the life after marriage is not as sweet as she imagined.
No one can prevent the arrival of love, even if it is just wishful thinking, it still has great charm, in the face of love, education, work is not a problem.
From the beginning, Yang Liping was ready to "sacrifice", but she may not realize that her efforts will be a tragedy without return.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > the belated truth</h1>
The married life of the two is not peaceful, Zhu Xiaodong's food, clothing, housing and transportation must rely on Yang Liping to provide, and Zhu Xiaodong seems to enjoy such a life, he not only does not have the idea of making money to support his family, but he is idle all day and has a large amount of foreign debt.
But Yang Liping did not complain too much, but thought that Zhu Xiaodong was waiting for a suitable time, and for Zhu Xiaodong, who was extremely possessive, Yang Liping also blindly chose to compromise.
Yang Liping's concessions did not change for equal treatment, and shortly after Zhu Xiaodong forbade her to communicate normally with the opposite sex, Zhu Xiaodong took her mobile phone and changed her mobile phone password and WeChat password, but at the same time, Zhu Xiaodong himself maintained an improper relationship with her.
Yang Liping, who knew everything, finally broke out, she complained bitterly about what Zhu Xiaodong had done, but the other party was indifferent, they both knew that the marriage had come to an end, and the two agreed to divorce.
The introverted Yang Liping made a decision that she regretted for the rest of her life, because she did not know how to open her mouth, and she did not tell how to make her decision.
Although her parents and friends opposed the marriage at the beginning, because Yang Liping never wanted to mention her married life, everyone thought that the husband and wife had a harmonious relationship. Just when Yang Liping was still thinking about how to explain her divorce to others in the future, Zhu Xiaodong was ready to kill his wife.
At this time, Zhu Xiaodong was already inseparable from Yang Liping, although he was very strong in this marriage, but he had no financial resources, and he had to rely on Yang Liping's support for everything.
Zhu Xiaodong was used to such a life, and he did not want to change such a life, at first he felt that Yang Liping was only angry for a while, and in a few days he would obediently accept his own manipulation as before.
But as time passed, he also saw Yang Liping's determination to divorce. On October 17, 2016, after a verbal altercation, he brutally murdered his wife and hid her body in a refrigerator.
Because Yang Liping's interpersonal relationship is simple and introverted, Zhu Xiaodong uses her mobile phone to hide the news of his wife's death from the outside world, he uses Yang Liping's mobile phone to forge the illusion that she is still alive, and blatantly uses her savings before her life to spend the day and drink.
It was not until 105 days later, on the 60th birthday of Yang Liping's father, because of the delay in seeing his daughter who was "close by", facing repeated questions from Yang Liping's family, that Zhu Xiaodong, who knew that he could not hide it, turned himself in to the police.
In June 2020, Zhu Xiaodong was sentenced to death for intentional homicide, but Yang Liping could no longer be resurrected, and there was not necessarily a reward for paying, Yang Liping gave everything for this marriage, even her own life, but her unilateral efforts did not exchange for a happy marriage.
Marriage is the choice of two people, both husband and wife should be prepared to sacrifice themselves to maintain this relationship, compromise in marriage is only a means rather than an end, but if the couple begins with an unequal relationship, then it is doomed to end in an unequal relationship.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > conclusion</h1>
Marriage is a test of life, and the focus is not on how grand it begins, but how it ends plainly.
Every newlywed couple thinks of a better future with the passion of a passionate love, but the passion will always fade one day. What we need is the courage to face the ordinary life, not the imagination that does not have the edge.
Happy marriages need careful care, and unhappy marriages should be stopped in time. Even if marriage has unlimited possibilities and conflict is not a problem, marriage is not a bottomless compromise and tolerance.
Thinking of heaven and hell, marriage is inclusive and narrow, and two people who really love each other can accept each other's imperfections, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and support each other to grow together.