Ouch, dear readers, isn't this a microcosm of our modern society? I tell you that just as the first meteor crossed my tearful gaze, I realized that the absurd event I was about to comment on was far from the confusion of poetry and the poetic world.
Not long ago, a pair of 15-year-old ghosts in Shanghai ignored the three views of society and actually rooted their budding love in the school's playground and dormitory. Parents, your kids are trying forbidden fruit! Apparently all this happened contrary to their expectations, and the girl's parents initially suspected that the boy had forced it, but the police investigation revealed another answer: it was all voluntary. As a result, as the ancients said, "The public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable", the result was that the girl's parents found the court and claimed as much as 200,000 yuan, but the final result was that the court rejected all the claims of both parents.
Seeing this result, you may be thinking, "Well, what's wrong with this world?" But the poisoned arrow that shot at my heart was not so much shocking to the behavior of these children as it was incomprehensible and embarrassing to our society. They're only 15 years old, so the question I want to ask is, why can't they try their unworldly love in a more rational age, in a more mature moment?
This world is our home, our school, and our prison. Undoubtedly, the incident we see today is like a mirror that reflects the rigid education, the imperfect system, and the dazed parents that we cannot ignore. It is important that we do not just regret the outcome of the incident, but that we begin to reflect: what can we do to best protect our children and steer their unbridled youth on the right track?
Let's first look at this society through the mirror. Today's children are indeed much more precocious than our generation. When they sprout their first relationship and test the boundaries of their first gender, shouldn't we be one step ahead of them to prevent big things from happening and give them proper sex education in advance? And this is a joint effort for all of us, including parents and schools.
Parents, as their children's first teachers, need to communicate with their children more frequently and not wait until problems arise to "remedy". Especially for adolescent children, we need to be appropriate about some real situations about sex, and try to let them know that this is not a joke that they can try at random, it is an awareness of their own responsibility. Schools should not only focus on the results of subject teaching, but also carry out relevant courses to help children understand physical and mental changes, protect themselves, and orient their lives. Here, I would like to emphasize that the education method of dead study is outdated, and the student-centered education method that cares about the all-round development of students is the king!
What I'm saying is, don't just focus on individual cases. There is nothing wrong with liking someone, but how to like it and how to control your feelings and behavior are especially important. All of this needs to be seen and dealt with with a more intelligent attitude.
In the end, I just want to say that adolescent love is not terrible, what is terrible is to ignore it, to ignore one's own responsibilities, to ignore the needs of children, to ignore the reality of society. I hope that we will step out of the shadows, face the sunshine, and lead the next generation with a caring heart, and establish a healthy three views, personality and emotional relationships.
Come, beloved readers, we, who have fallen into the mortal dust, cannot expect everything to be okay by doing nothing. So, get in the car and let's start together for a healthier society. Let us hold the blade of hope together, break out of the cocoon into a butterfly, and lead the next generation to the light.