"King Wu is a good swordsman, and the people are full of sores. The king of Chu had a thin waist, and the people starved to death. "In ancient times, the king of Chu liked slender waists, so in order to please the king of Chu, the ministers of the upper dynasty cut down on their clothes and food, lest they lose the favor of the saints because they were fat.
Later, the ministers all lost their thin waists, but because of long-term undernutrition, their bodies were thin, and every day the belt was tightly bound and then went up to the court. As a result, most of the ministers of the DPRK and The DPRK died of starvation, which was really absurd and sad, and the day of the fall of the country was "just waiting for the day".
The love of the King of Chu led to the follow-up of the whole country, and this incorrect hobby not only reflected the blindness and flattery of the ministers, but also explained that the ancient people had the bad habit of corseting their waists.
In the Song Dynasty, the folk court set off a bad wind of foot binding, and the girls' lives of being "mutilated" lasted for hundreds of years.
When the girl is three or four years old, her bones have not yet fully grown, and the adults will first burn their feet with hot water, and when the heat has not dissipated, they will immediately break the girl's four toes to the soles of the feet, which is about a "U" shape, and then coated with alum, and then sewn together with three circles of white aya left and right three circles. As a result, the "three-inch golden lotus" sought after by everyone in ancient times was formed, and there was Pan Jinlian's "three-inch golden lotus" saying, which was small and exquisite.
The Song people highly admired this practice of foot binding, if they did not tie their feet, women may be rejected by their husbands or unmarried because of their big feet. So everyone began to wrap their feet, even if the family is poor, they must wrap the feet of girls, and many girls are so painful that the foot binding process is too painful and finally their feet are deformed.
Adult women are often unable to stand or walk for a long time, their feet are deformed, and long-term standing will only bring them unbearable pain.
In Europe, there was also the custom of corseting the waist, but this also brought physical disability to women, bringing irreparable physical damage. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, all the old social bad habits have been abolished, but there are still people who repeat the same mistakes, there is a woman in order to marry into the rich, endured the pain of wearing a body-shaping suit for 30 years, and her husband asked her to share only 1 yuan of the 400 million inheritance in his posthumous will.
Love at first sight
In 1962, Hong Jinmei left her hometown to work at the Bethlehee Nightclub in North Point, Hong Kong, when she was only 17 years old, because of her outstanding beauty and amazing waist, she quickly became popular in nightclubs, and was even pushed to the top of the nightclub.
At that time, her 19-inch thin waist can be described as famous, and her thin waist was also shaking when she danced, and immediately became the focus of the audience, and everyone's eyes were tightly attracted to her.
Such a beautiful woman is really dangerous in a nightclub, but being able to enter a nightclub is a big person who is not expensive and rich, they generally love beauty, and at that time there was still a contract to sell herself, and Hong Jinmei ran to be a dancer and signed a deed of sale, in short, the blessings and misfortunes brought by this beauty to Hong Jinmei are not yet known.
One day, deng Yongxiang came to The Li Palace with his friends to drink and saw the beautiful Hong Jinmei, just one glance is love at first sight, he immediately liked her 19-inch waist, likewise, Hong Jinmei liked his wealth and power.
Both sides have plots against each other, but each other's identities are not equal, so the balance of this relationship is inclined to Deng Yongxiang's side at the beginning, which also dooms Hong Jinmei to be in a low relationship.
At that time, Deng Yongxiang was 49 years old, and this age could catch up with Hong Jinmei's father, but Hong Jinmei still chose to be with Deng Yongxiang, after all, what she dreamed of growing up was to be able to marry a rich man and have endless glory and wealth. At this time, the best time is in front of him, and Hong Jinmei will not give up no matter what.
Compromise for love
The needs of the two were in line with each other, so as soon as they hit it off, Deng Yongxiang redeemed Hong Jinmei and placed her in the property under his name. The two slowly get along and love each other, but Deng Yongxiang is not divorced.
Because his career is on the rise, the empathetic Hong Jinmei did not insist on asking for fame, but carefully took care of all aspects of Deng Yongxiang's life. Washing hands in the kitchen to make soup for loved ones, serving Deng Yongxiang to dress, etc., Hong Jinmei's knowledge and thoughtfulness successfully locked Deng Yongxiang's heart, and the two were naturally incomparably loving.
But Deng Yongxiang, who is nearly fifty years old, will also have his own concerns, whether his age will make Hong Jinmei hate, and this love with such a large age gap really can't reassure the older party.
So Deng Yongxiang said his thoughts to Hong Jinmei, and Hong Jinmei has since combed his wife's hair bun and dressed himself more mature and feminine, just to reassure Deng Yongxiang.
Because Deng Yongxiang himself likes her thin waist, so Hong Jinmei promised to wear a lifelong body-shaping suit, which is 30 years, in order to be able to marry Deng Yongxiang, Hong Jinmei endured 30 years of pain, just to be able to marry into the rich. This love is too heavy, so that she is in a state of compromise from the beginning of this love.
Such meticulous thoughtfulness successfully impressed Deng Yongxiang, and his love for Hong Jinmei went to a higher level. And Hong Jinmei is also really able to endure pain, 30 years of pain time is enough to make people crazy, and she chose to grit her teeth and persevere.
Inheritance of one dollar
During this 30-year period, Hong Jinmei gave birth to 4 children for Deng Yongxiang. It is said that women who are willing to have children for men really love that man, Deng Yongxiang is also slowly moved by her gentle offensive, and Hong Jinmei's 30 years of thoughtfulness have finally "returned".
After Deng Yongxiang's divorce, he and Hong Jinmei officially received a license in 1992, but after marriage, Hong Jinmei's greed for money could not help it immediately, and being Mrs. Kuo made her enjoy this sense of superiority very much, so she decided to rob the money, especially the inheritance.
In the battle for heirs, Hong Jinmei even had conflicts with her own children, and mother and son turned against each other.
Deng Yongxiang naturally knew these things, and he began to doubt the purpose of the two of them together, and the former love completely turned into hatred and disgust.
So in 1997, Deng Yongxiang made a will before his death: the inheritance was not left to Hong Jinmei, and if he wanted to give, he would give her a dollar.
This dangling disgust jumped on the paper, and it could be seen that Deng Yongxiang did not even want to keep the last face of Hong Jinmei for her, but instead put this hatred in front of everyone with a big grin.
Hong Jinmei was embarrassed and angry after hearing the news, and she had worked hard for so many years to get only one dollar, which really made her unwilling. So she took her children directly to court and called them "white-eyed wolves." The news that the biological mother sued her child made headlines at the time.
Indeed, even in modern times, the news of parents suing their children is generally a matter of old-age care, and there are many legal disputes about children not supporting their parents, but Hong Jinmei's complaint is because of the problem of inheritance distribution, and he wants to snatch the inheritance from his children' hands.
Deng Yongxiang has always known that Hong Jinmei is constantly transferring property after marriage, but for the last thin noodles between husband and wife, it is not specified on the table, but it does not mean that he does not care, so he made such a special will.
In the years since, Hong Jinmei and her children have gone to court for inheritance and gone to court, during which they have verbally insulted their children, which makes it difficult to imagine how this mother treats her children in her daily life. In the end, Hong Jinmei lost the case, and the 400 million inheritance belonged to her children.
Later, Hong Jinmei suffered from lung cancer, and finally woke up and decided to reconcile with her children. In 2006, the two sides reconciled, and the children attended Hong Jinmei's birthday party together and said that they had reconciled with their mother. In July 2019, Hong Jinmei passed away due to illness.
brief summary:
Hong Jinmei's life did not get much love, initially because of Deng Yongxiang's wealth with him, because Deng Yongxiang's words endured pain and put on a corset for 30 years, calculating in pain, and as a result, in the end, her husband left a will, got a piece, and the wealth he dreamed of eventually became a bubble, how could he be willing?
Perhaps she loved Deng Yongxiang, but in the days after marriage, she was blinded by wealth, clinging to wealth, cursing for money, and finally woke up, reconciled with her children, and reconciled with her past self, but the scars left by these injuries could not disappear.
Think twice before you spit out hurtful words yourself, because something can't be repaired once you say it.