Author: Creative Group Sangzi
In the past two days, a big thing has happened.
Although it did not make a big storm on the Internet, this person was known as the "Beijing version of Sun Xiaoguo" because of his many evils.
He is the murderous demon Guo Wensi, who was sentenced to life imprisonment for deliberately killing his girlfriend, reduced his sentence 9 times through improper means, and then killed people after he was released from prison.
On the morning of March 2, the Beijing No. 2 Intermediate People's Court pronounced Guo Wensi's death sentence!
At that moment, Guo Wensi's 18 years of evil deeds slowly unfolded again.
After reading Guo Wensi's story, I found that the so-called elite education may also become a hotbed of crime, and the proud son of heaven will also become a criminal gangster.
A high-achieving student at a prestigious school, he has become a murderous maniac
Guo Wensi is a native of Beijing, who has enjoyed high-quality resources since childhood and has had a smooth journey along the way.
In 2002, 20-year-old Guo Wensi was a sophomore in the Department of Business Administration at Beijing University of Technology.
Because of his good grades, he became the class leader on the first day of school.
Later, by chance, he fell in love with Duan Jiani, a member of the Banli Recreation Committee, and soon fell in love.
Guo Wensi's parents were overjoyed by this change in their son, and smiled closely:
"He used to be a reclusive personality, but now he has changed his appearance, become a class leader, and made a beautiful girlfriend."
However, this change did not last long, and Guo Wensi soon revealed his original form.
Duan Jiani's classmates and roommates once said:
"The man's temper was very grumpy, and during this time the two of them often quarreled, and he beat Jiani about two months ago."
It turned out that Guo Wensi often inflicted violence on his girlfriend.
Based on this, Duan Jiani had the idea of breaking up.
In 2004, near the beginning of the school year, the two met at the hotel and hoped to officially terminate the relationship.
Duan Jiani couldn't have imagined that what she thought was a decent breakup would bring about the disaster of killing herself.
After entering the hotel, the two first talked for a while, and then Guo Wensi grabbed his girlfriend's neck from the side, pushed her to the bed, and desperately blocked her mouth and nose with a pillow until she lost signs of life.
Then, Guo Wensi calmly walked out of the hotel.
20 minutes later, a scream from the cleaning staff came from the hotel room.
When she was cleaning her room, she noticed that there seemed to be a person wrapped in the quilt, and when she opened it, she saw that there was a girl already lying on the bed.
When Guo's father learned that his son had killed someone, he immediately asked him to go to the public security bureau to turn himself in, and then began to ask for help everywhere.
First, he raised 400,000 yuan at a time, asked Duan Mu to forgive Guo Wensi, and asked Duan Mu to tell the judge to treat it lightly.
Then he went to Guo Wensi's school and asked the school to issue a "Certificate of Excellence in Guo Wensi's School Performance".
After doing all this homework, the first trial finally came.
And this follow-up story is even more jaw-dropping.
The second killing, the driving force behind it is the parents
At the first trial, according to the reporter at the time, the "heartache" of Guo Wensi's parents was far greater than the "heartache".
Although Guo Wensi's murder has become an established fact, Guo's parents still do not spare:
"My son is obviously very popular."
"I haven't seen my son in a long time."
"He worked very hard and was ready to go to graduate school after graduation."
In the end, Guo Wensi was given a lenient sentence and sentenced to life imprisonment for intentional homicide.
Guo's parents wept with gratitude and bowed affectionately to the presiding judge:
"Thank you for giving my son a fair verdict."
Killing people does not pay for their lives, which is a "fair judgment" in the eyes of Guo's parents.
Then, in order not to let their son suffer in prison, Guo's parents bought off all parties, won the easiest reform position for Guo Wensi, and also obtained 9 sentence reductions through various improper relationships between 2007 and 2018!
In 2007, the Beijing High Court ruled that Guo's life sentence should be commuted to 19 years' imprisonment;
10 months' sentences were reduced in 2008, 2009 and 2011;
Sentences were commuted by 11 months in 2012 and 2013;
In 2014, the sentence was commuted by 10 months;
In 2015, the sentence was reduced by 1 year;
In 2018, the sentence was reduced by 6 months.
In 2019, Guo Wensi, who underwent nine commutations, went from life imprisonment to 14 years in prison and was released after completing his sentence.
In an instant, public opinion from all walks of life was overwhelming.
Those senior legal people were suspicious of these 9 sentence reductions, but the push behind them was too magical, guo Wensi was not sanctioned, but stepped out of the prison door and started a new life.
However, this new life is too short.
In 2020, the epidemic raged.
Guo Wensi was queuing up in the supermarket to check out, when suddenly he took off his mask.
A 72-year-old uncle next to him hurriedly advised him to wear a mask to protect himself from the epidemic.
But instead of listening, Guo Wensi punched the uncle to the ground with a heavy punch, and then punched the temple randomly.
It wasn't until five people ran forward that they stopped him.
However, this kind uncle could not wake up again.
And Guo Wensi also ushered in prison again in his 8-month free life.
This time, no one could save him anymore, and he would never be able to get out of prison again.
The biggest mistake of parents is to raise giant baby children
Guo Wensi's various actions, at first glance, each time originated from a momentary anger and loss. However, on closer examination, it is not difficult to find that this is inseparable from the connivance of parents -
He is self-righteous and cannot accept that events that do not match his expectations occur, so in the face of his girlfriend's proposed breakup, he is ashamed and angry, preferring to get it or destroy it;
He had no one in sight and could not accept denial and frustration, so he would not listen to the admonition and punch the old man to death.
Why is it that a very small thing in the eyes of others, in Guo Wensi's case, will evolve into a major conflict, and even kill the other party before he is willing to give up?
We also can't help but wonder what kind of growth experience can make a person so convinced that all the rules, order, and human nature in this world have nothing to do with me, and those who stand in my way must die...
Although he is physically an adult, he is still psychologically still in the infant stage, disregarding social rules and going his own way.
Psychologist Hu Shenzhi believes that every giant baby is in a state of narcissism, paranoia, and division in this lifetime.
And Guo Wensi is just the epitome of thousands of "giant baby" children.
However, behind every giant baby, there is a pair of parents who do everything.
For example, Guo Wensi's parents, they actually cultivated their children into talents and were admitted to 211 University.
But they neglect to make their children "real people", a person with morality, conscience, and understanding of reflection.
Children kill people, and their first reaction is not a lesson, not a rebuke, not remorse, not an apology;
Instead, he treated his son like a victim during the trial, defending him and feeling sorry for him.
Children are in prison according to law in order to receive social reform, which is a good thing!
However, Guo's parents were afraid that their precious son had bumped into it, and they were bent on using money to win people's hearts and networks, and reduced Guo Wensi's sentence 9 times.
Under the connivance of his parents again and again, Guo Wensi felt in his heart: "Anyway, if I make a mistake, I will also have my parents to support me." ”
As a result, he will be more unscrupulous, even if he has committed a crime, and killing people again after he is released from prison is the best proof.
Writer Li Yueliang once said:
"As a parent, the greatest achievement is to raise children who live with the world."
Deeply.
For Guo Wensi, this change that occurred at the age of 22 rewrote his life that should have been wonderful. However, from a public point of view, this change is a near-doomed tragedy - when a child's growth process is full of unconditional connivance and even encouragement, then his "evil" will become more intense, until it devours his entire life.
Guo Wensi's evil is the evil of a "good man", and this "evil" is more hidden than Sun Xiaoguo.
He came from a well-off family, had excellent grades, went to a good university, and was still a class cadre, any point was enough to make him a "proud son of heaven" in other people.
However, his extreme desire for control, selfishness and indifference in his heart were exposed along with two vicious incidents of murder, which brought irreparable damage to himself and others...
At the same time, he also gave our parents a wake-up call -
1. Before letting your child "become a talent", let him "become an adult"
Many parents believe that the greatest success of education is to cultivate their children into talents.
But they often overlook that whether the child has a healthy moral character is the most important thing.
Previously, there was a case of killing a parent in Guangxi.
Huang Mouyang is a British returnee who was born in Shuxiang mendi since childhood.
His father was a well-known lawyer in Guangxi, and his mother was a well-known professor at Guangxi University for Nationalities.
It stands to reason that such a Kochi family should raise a child who is very good in all aspects.
But Huang Mouyang, although admitted to a famous foreign university, could not make up for the defects of his character.
Finally, one day, he personally ended the lives of his parents and ended up in prison.
You see, if a person does not become an upright and moral person beforehand, then even if he climbs high, he will fall to pieces in the future.
Morality is the foundation of being a human being, which is far more important than "becoming a talent".
2. From an early age, we must set boundaries for our children, and we must not indulge his desires indefinitely
I believe that not every child is born evil.
Whether it is Guo Wensi or Sun Xiaoguo, they were also a cute and simple little baby when they were born.
But it is precisely because their parents lack "border education" that they let them fly in society and become a murderous demon that everyone shouts and beats.
Some time ago, the news of a 9-year-old boy driving on the road shocked the whole network.
However, when the traffic police came to stop it, the boy's mother did not care, but instead looked at justice:
"Don't scare the child, did the child get caught driving?"
When I was a child, I didn't have a driver's license but I drove on the road, my parents didn't care, and when I grew up, I killed people and set fires, and naturally I couldn't do with my parents.
As parents, we must set rules and boundaries for our children from an early age, so that we will not touch the red light of the law in the future.
3. Don't be "Guo Wensi", and don't meet "Guo Wensi"
Guo Wensi is a typical case of "becoming a talent but not an adult".
His harmless appearance of humans and animals can easily bring an illusion to the people around him.
That is, he is very good, so his character must be good.
In particular, students who are not out of society are more likely to be attracted to such people.
Remember the "Magaju" incident of that year?
He is a bully at Yunnan University, but because of his short temper and extreme personality, he has a bad relationship with his classmates.
The only people who could talk were the roommates in the dormitory.
At first, they got along okay, but as they went deeper, their roommates knew a lot of his privacy, and Magaju felt that it hurt his face, so he began to kill.
Therefore, warn your child that if you are surrounded by people who are excellent in all aspects, but are emotionally unstable and extremely grumpy, you must stay away as soon as possible and must not have deep friendships.
Because of the destructiveness of such people, it is likely to be a disaster.
In the eyes of Chinese parents, the child is the first, so they are willing to give everything.
But I don't know when the "selfless dedication" of parents not only did not cultivate a grateful child, but let him be arrogant and arrogant in society, and repeatedly made mistakes.
In the final analysis, there is a problem with the parents' education methods.
Your children, not only your children, but also the product of society as a whole.
Guo Wensi's story has come to an end with the death penalty on March 2. However, the alarm bells he sounded for family education are still ringing.
There is a saying that love must be reversed.
Your unconditional love will make children lose their sense of boundaries and proportions, until they act arbitrarily and arbitrarily in society.
True love is to teach him to be a moral and conscientious person, to give him the ability to associate with people for good.
In the child's life, parents cannot accompany them all the time.
The only person who can protect him in this life is himself.
What parents can do is to give their children a positive growth environment and help them have the awareness and ability to protect themselves.
When children have full wings, they can soar in the vast sky.
May you and I have such power.
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