Divorced Ms. Zhang, with a superior family and fair skin, due to proper maintenance, it is completely impossible to see that she has been more than half a hundred years old. Through the introduction, she met lao Yu, who was also divorced. The two have been in love for 10 years, and when they are about to achieve positive results, Lao Yu would rather sell the house and pay her back 110,000 yuan and break up with her.
Lao Yu cleaned up the house, was very diligent, and was willing to do any work. 10 years ago, the introduction Rang told Ms. Zhang that although Lao Yu was laid off, there was a family property of more than 200,000 yuan in the family. She felt that following such a man was also a good choice.
After 3 months of dating, she found that Lao Yu's economy was not good, often overdrafted credit cards, and was ambiguous with a woman, and she was not the same kind of person at all.
The woman was Lao Yu's dance partner, and she learned to dance with Lao Yu. The dance partner saw her socializing with Lao Yu and often smashed things in Lao Yu's house and lost her temper.
At that time, Lao Yu felt that Ms. Zhang was not only beautiful, but also very generous, and used Ms. Zhang's phone to call her dance partner, clearly showing his sincerity to Ms. Zhang.
The dance partner refused to let go, And Ms. Zhang was very angry, ran to the dance partner's home, told her husband about her relationship with Lao Yu, and asked the dance partner not to pestering Lao Yu anymore.
Lao Yu thought that Ms. Zhang's approach was too much, and there was an argument with her, and Ms. Zhang proposed to break up. Lao Yu apologized to her and begged her to give herself another chance to continue to associate with him.
When Lao Yu was on vacation, Ms. Zhang came to visit. He fried a few more dishes at noon and didn't finish eating. At dinner, he fried a new dish, heated the leftovers from noon, and took it out to eat.
At more than 11:00 p.m., Ms. Zhang expressed her dissatisfaction with eating leftovers, quarreled with Lao Yu, and finally fought, waking up the neighbors.
Because they often quarreled in the middle of the night, affecting the neighbors' rest, the landlord let Lao Yu move. Lao Yu felt that Ms. Zhang was too pretentious and calculating, and had the idea of breaking up, and secretly moved to a new home.
After 10 days, Ms. Zhang called him: "I can't find you when I go to the place where you live, where are you?" Lao Yu: "Don't come to me in the future, I want to remarry my ex-wife for the sake of my son." ”
Ms. Zhang believes that it is beyond remarriage to his ex-wife for his son, and although she is reluctant in her heart, she still decides to let go and advises him to get along with his ex-wife well.
During the relationship, Ms. Zhang bought him mobile phones, televisions and other items, which cost him about 6,000 yuan. Ms. Zhang said: "Since we are in love, you can buy me a ring and keep it as a souvenir." ”
Lao Yu took 6,000 yuan from his mother, bought Ms. Zhang a 4,000 yuan ring, and broke up with her.
At midnight, she stroked the ring, remembering the time with Lao Yu, and couldn't sleep all night.
Lao Yu's road to remarriage was not smooth, his ex-wife did not want to see him, and in desperation, he moved out of his ex-wife and returned to Ms. Zhang's side.
The surprise of the loss and recovery filled Ms. Zhang's heart. She didn't think too much about it, and gladly accepted Lao Yu's return, full of expectations that the two could look good together.
Lao Yu borrowed 50,000 yuan from Ms. Zhang to buy a house, and after the house was renovated, he made a marriage request. Ms. Zhang thought that her son was not yet married and rejected Lao Zhang.
Not long after, she found that Lao Yu and her dance partner were still in contact, and quarreled with Lao Yu, and Lao Yu proposed to break up again, and Xiao Ni said impatiently: "I know her first." ”
Ms. Zhang has been deeply involved in the love network and is reluctant to break up. Lao Yu took the initiative to pay Ms. Zhang 20,000 yuan as compensation, together with the 50,000 yuan borrowed, a total of 70,000 yuan.
At this point, although Ms. Zhang felt aggrieved, she could only passively accept the fact of the breakup once again.
Half a year later, Lao Yu had a car accident. Ms. Zhang did not care about the previous suspicions, took good care of him, Lao Yu changed his mind, and the two were reunited again.
Not long after, she found that Lao Yu and her dance partner were still in contact, and she was also a little confused with other women, extremely dissatisfied.
Lao Yu said: "When my father and my mother quarreled, my mother never resisted. ”
Ms. Zhang: "I can do it." ”
Lao Yu also said: "Your heart and eyes are too small, two people live a life, you can't always doubt, and don't often quarrel." ”
Ms. Zhang: "I can do it too." ”
In December last year, Ms. Zhang felt that the two people had a stable relationship and asked Lao Yu to register her marriage.
Unexpectedly, because of a small matter, the two people quarreled again. Ms. Zhang thought to herself, eight times out of ten I let you, and this time I didn't let you.
Lao Yu thinks that he tolerates her temper again and again, but she does not repent, preferring to sell the house, but also to pay back and break up with her.
He once borrowed 100,000 yuan from Ms. Zhang and offered her 10,000 yuan in interest, a total of 110,000 yuan, to let her break up again.
Ms. Zhang did not understand that she was obedient to him and unconditionally indulged him, why did he repeatedly propose to break up?
After mediation, Ms. Zhang realized that the twisted melon was not sweet and decided to let go of the relationship and accept the breakup. She said that in later life, she will respect and cherish herself, make more friends, and face life with a positive attitude.
@ Love is not all love has results, sometimes, we do not get the happiness we want, not because we are not good, but met a person who does not know how to cherish.
Although Ms. Zhang did not accept Lao Yu at first, she was sincere with him after the relationship, but she broke up passively again and again, which shows that Lao Yu does not have much sincerity to her.
Strong twisted melon is not sweet, love is not a one-man thing. For inappropriate feelings, people who do not want to give their hearts, letting go is the best choice. While letting go of him, it also allows himself to be free and liberated, and has the opportunity to find someone who is really suitable for him.
As long as we do our best, respect and cherish ourselves, make ourselves better, and treat the people and things around us rationally, true happiness will creep in.
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