🔺 If someone hurt you, what would you do to that person?
Being hurt by others, most people will take two extremes. Either blindly tolerate it, or fight back with all its might. Neither of these coping methods is appropriate.
We should look at the situation.
If the other party is a rogue and a villain, then we don't have to fight with him, too much entanglement will only hurt ourselves.
There are countless bloody cases caused by a small thing in society, and in the end, it hurts ourselves, we need to have a pair of eyes that recognize people, protect ourselves, is the best defense model.
If the other party deliberately hurts and attacks you, then we must give a counterattack, otherwise we will be at the mercy of others and will not be able to stand in society.
The most common is to be bullied by colleagues at work, we should argue for ourselves, theory, and fight back with the right way. Don't blindly tolerate, too much tolerance will only make it easier for others to bully you.
Only when we make ourselves strong and wise will they dare not hurt us.
If the other person hurt you unintentionally and did not cause great damage, then we should get by and forgive him.
Sometimes someone inadvertently says a word, an expression, and we feel hurt. In this case, we should face this weak self and accept ourselves.
There is no shortage of people in life who hurt us. If he can't afford it, he will avoid it; if he can fight back, we will defend him to the end; if he has no intention of passing, we will forgive him.
When we come into this world, it is a process of mind cultivation. You just have to remember that everyone who hurts you is here to help you grow, and your mood will be much broader.
We want to use these people who hurt us to improve our character and make ourselves stronger. #Emotional Writing Little Ace # #我要上 Headlines #
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